wrong. I wouldn't fukk shawty and shawty wouldn't fukk me, you're getting way ahead of yourself here. And if my girl gives admiring glances towards another guy she can kick rocks. That's not the same thing.
and you aren't even acknowledging my girls past or how she acted.
the way i see it...most dudes if they really wanted to fukk other shorty would hide it and try something behind the scenes rather than do what you did in front of their girls and raise their antennas. That's logical. Women defy logic.
It is what it is. We're in the year 2016 and we are still discussing this. It's just how women are and if it hasnt changed yet it never will. My mom is the same way. My sisters are similar. And 90-100% of the girls i've fukked and dealt with in the past are too. Just adapt.
nah you're getting way ahead of urself with baseless reasoning. this girl spent several hours setting up ur birthday. that's all i needed to know. thats effort she didn't have to put forth.
im pretty vindinctive myself. but i wouldn't have done her like u did at an event she set up for me.
if her past bothers u that much, u need to break things off with her. personally, i dont consider girl on girl kissing much of a threat. had it been another guy then yeah, she woulda been bushed.
point here is, you're being irrational in ur thought process right now. whether or not u agree is not my problem but its the reality. i'm out.
baseless? nikka you're the one who doesn't know anything about our history yet you continue to only look at one factor. You should've been quit talking about the situation because your reasoning is poor.
her history is much worse than her kissing a girl but how would you know? It's not even her past, it's how she fails to learn from what she did in any way...if a girl can kiss another girl without any problems herself, she should be fine with me getting another girl to twerk for the party.
irrational? lmao. just because someone puts work into a party, it doesn't grant her the power to whatever she wants. she still has to be mature and rational about what goes on during the party.
I hear you man...but I'm just playing devil's advocate. It's best to pick the right battles because the truth is that we always have the chance to walk away b. So there's really no excuse to get mad or constantly go through this shyt with women.
If the behavior persists or becomes too annoying its possible that you and the girl are just incompatible at which point yall should cease relations. That's how I see it. Easier said than done though. That's why having options is so important; after a while you stop trying to fit a square peg into a round hole and you give the next woman an opportunity to show and prove.
It's what a lot of men do to be honest. The girl is childish, narcissistic, unreasonable, entitled, illogical etc. But because she has nice titties and a pretty smile we figure, "Man this bytch is annoying...but she looks good and I aint got another source of p*ssy so I dont wanna cut her off. Lemme try to reason with her and talk her into seeing things my way or compromising so that we can avoid these issues in the future." But it doesnt work that way. You cant teach a woman who from birth has been coddled and treated like a princess to be compromising, especially when there are simps waiting in the cut to take her from you and take care of her. You gotta cut your losses and keep it moving.
its bad enough now, wait for the generation after us. I swear to god, if i have sons that kid gonne be and his momma ain't gonne say shyt. Now if i have daughters
its bad enough now, wait for the generation after us. I swear to god, if i have sons that kid gonne be and his momma ain't gonne say shyt. Now if i have daughters
ok so there was this bytch I used to like in high school and I kinda sorta felt like she mightve liked me a bit but she was really wishy washy and changed her attitude towards me a lot so I never went full fledge at her.. plus with my confidence problems at the time I wasnt tryna find out for sure, so here we are senior year and im like fukk it I got nothing to lose if I dont do anything now i'll never know if it was a missed opportunity, so I got a mutual female friend of ours to try to get her to go to prom with me, she said she'll think about it and then a few days later her answer was no, mind you she ended up not going with anybody
she was supposed to have a date but I guess he bailed out on her last minute.. I found a date
the young inexperienced nikka I was back then was hurt hard initially, I took all my aggression and disappointment from that out in the gym and track practice and ended up running a high school career best time in the 200
ok so here we are at the prom weeks later and the wishy washyness commences.. shes being friendly with me and wanted to pose for a pic with me.. I mean I took them but im confused af like we coulda took several pics but u curved me..
ok fast forward 4 years later I havent seen her since I graduated high school, I never really hung out much so I havent seen a lot of people since high school until I started working at the retail job I work at, so I see her and her friend who I saw previously and was always cool with, I go the other way to avoid seeing her making eye contact and having an awkward run in, a couple weeks later theyre back in the store and go directly to me, she says hi and gives me a high five, I mean I had no soft or hard feelings its just an old classmate im seeing in passing and wont see again, right?
couple months later she works at the same store as me so now I gotta see her every other day, this same girl from high school that I had a crush on that in the end curved me is now working at the same job as me and being nice to me when most of my memories are of her being annoyed by me
I cant take it anymore after seeing her so many times at work and end up having cordial conversations that eventually led to me asking her for her number I mean I got it but I was supposed to be moved on from a high school crush so it was a bittersweet feeling.. some texts and in person convos later I ended up asking her on a date and tomorrow we'll be going on one
I kinda been feeling some wishy washy vibes when we text, to way less of an extent than how it was in high school but still, and I usually get more out of her when I talk to her in person so idk how this might end up
Brehs did I take a L by repursuing a high school crush that curved me and broke my 18 year old heart did I take a W by going from being curved by a chick in high school to getting her number and getting to take her out? Is the jury still out depending on how it turns out?
Brehs how do I avoid taking a massive L and making sure everything goes smooth
@SpacelySprockets breh, your best move is to not give a flying fukk about her. you can take her out, but don't put her on any type of pedestal. if I were you, I would size her up from the jump to see what her end game with you is. don't make it seem like you fukk wit her heavy, show a lil bit of interest and then peep game from there. is she tryna make it up to you or is she just going out with your for the fukk of it? it's most likely the latter.
I would say your goal is to get in and get out, but shawty works at the same job as you and that'll prolly cause drama. just peep what kinda game she's playing and go from there.
@SpacelySprockets breh, your best move is to not give a flying fukk about her. you can take her out, but don't put her on any type of pedestal. if I were you, I would size her up from the jump to see what her end game with you is. don't make it seem like you fukk wit her heavy, show a lil bit of interest and then peep game from there. is she tryna make it up to you or is she just going out with your for the fukk of it? it's most likely the latter.
I would say your goal is to get in and get out, but shawty works at the same job as you and that'll prolly cause drama. just peep what kinda game she's playing and go from there.
thats what im tryna figure out, when I initially asked her she was like ill think about it (similar to the whole prom thing), I gave her a few days and when I asked again she was like "Ok I guess"
So idk if shes doing it for the fukk of it or what thats why im not really putting too much stock into this, im taking her to see a movie but im not going in hoping this is my next girl.. obviously if I could smash I would
Should I just straight up ask her what shes looking to get from this?
thats what im tryna figure out, when I initially asked her she was like ill think about it (similar to the whole prom thing), I gave her a few days and when I asked again she was like "Ok I guess"
So idk if shes doing it for the fukk of it or what thats why im not really putting too much stock into this, im taking her to see a movie but im not going in hoping this is my next girl.. obviously if I could smash I would
Should I just straight up ask her what shes looking to get from this?
From the jump I would take that as a hit and run situation lol. You could ask her straight up, but then you gotta keep it real from the jump as well.. You not really looking for anything, just tryna see what it's hitting for. I would just do your thing until she feels like she gotta ask that question.
nah you're getting way ahead of urself with baseless reasoning. this girl spent several hours setting up ur birthday. that's all i needed to know. thats effort she didn't have to put forth.
im pretty vindinctive myself. but i wouldn't have done her like u did at an event she set up for me.
if her past bothers u that much, u need to break things off with her. personally, i dont consider girl on girl kissing much of a threat. had it been another guy then yeah, she woulda been bushed.
point here is, you're being irrational in ur thought process right now. whether or not u agree is not my problem but its the reality. i'm out.
Women are hypocrites when it comes to text response rates, they will leave your shyt on read with the blue ticks for hours hell even days but then get mad if you dont respond within minutes
thats what im tryna figure out, when I initially asked her she was like ill think about it (similar to the whole prom thing), I gave her a few days and when I asked again she was like "Ok I guess"
So idk if shes doing it for the fukk of it or what thats why im not really putting too much stock into this, im taking her to see a movie but im not going in hoping this is my next girl.. obviously if I could smash I would
Should I just straight up ask her what shes looking to get from this?
That "ok I guess" means she only has one foot in. I personally wouldn't waste my time, and take out women happy to spent time me without a second thought.
If you do take her out, escalate from the moment you hug her and have a non tricking ball in several locations.
I was pondering on if I should do that, only thing is if shes not down with that on the first date it'll be an awkward car ride and then I gotta see her at work lol
I was pondering on if I should do that, only thing is if shes not down with that on the first date it'll be an awkward car ride and then I gotta see her at work lol
of course its text so its hard to tell...maybe she's bluffing but i doubt it. regardless by you taking her out given the circumstances she's getting power over you. she is gonna think you're desperate. If I were you I wouldnt even message her the day of to confirm or anything. Let her come to you and ask if yall are still going out and all that shyt. And when she does say, "ok i guess".
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and his momma ain't gonne say shyt. 
Now if i have daughters 
