Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'm really into this chick, we talk for about 5 mins and I can tell she somebody that I can see myself with long term. Only thing is I have 3 other chick who all have good traits but don't have the "it" power like this one chick. I'm trying not to lead them on because I want to be ready to drop they assess for this one chick , but they txt me everyday trying to make plans with me. Should I just tell them to fall back or continue to play stupid like I don't know they like me hardbody.

The one chick who I want badly works two jobs goes to school , just like me. That why we hit it off so well we both grinders. She has real hazel eyes skinny body with tight booty pooking out. Smile is great all white theeth, best thing is she don't try to fit in she leader not follower. I don't simp unless I really like a person , Should I take the shot or keep my group of ladies that really want me?
 

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I'm really into this chick, we talk for about 5 mins and I can tell she somebody that I can see myself with long term. Only thing is I have 3 other chick who all have good traits but don't have the "it" power like this one chick. I'm trying not to lead them on because I want to be ready to drop they assess for this one chick , but they txt me everyday trying to make plans with me. Should I just tell them to fall back or continue to play stupid like I don't know they like me hardbody.

The one chick who I want badly works two jobs goes to school , just like me. That why we hit it off so well we both grinders. She has real hazel eyes skinny body with tight booty pooking out. Smile is great all white theeth, best thing is she don't try to fit in she leader not follower. I don't simp unless I really like a person , Should I take the shot or keep my group of ladies that really want me?
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what has this chick done that you're going to relinquish your whole roster for her? she hasn't even told you that she likes you. you havent even spent a night with her or hit the skins and you're thinking about cutting girls off for her :why: man go through this thread:

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/ladi...if-you-found-out.430972/page-10#post-19310985

let the girl prove herself before you start dissing other girls man. as soon as you make this girl your end all be all you're gonna turn into a simp and take a massive L. I/m mad as fukk b dont you dare cut off the other girls. In fact go out with at least one of em this week and try to smash
 

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:what:

what has this chick done that you're going to relinquish your whole roster for her? she hasn't even told you that she likes you. you havent even spent a night with her or hit the skins and you're thinking about cutting girls off for her :why: man go through this thread:

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/ladi...if-you-found-out.430972/page-10#post-19310985

let the girl prove herself before you start dissing other girls man. as soon as you make this girl your end all be all you're gonna turn into a simp and take a massive L. I/m mad as fukk b dont you dare cut off the other girls. In fact go out with at least one of em this week and try to smash


Thing is all 4 of the chicks work together so when I fukk one, she going to try and claim me right away.............. That will fukk it up for all of them........
 

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Why does a woman who can only offer puzzy want to be in a relationship?

Then complain about not having no money, but you not really trying that hard to look for a job either.

Wants it to be you and them against the world...but they broke..

Then when you try to speak to them on some constructive shyt..they act like you throwing shade.

Tell a female she should take some college refresher courses and she looks at you like-:stopitslime:

Im good.

The next guy can deal with your headaches..

/rant

deal with better women
my girl has her masters
 
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I had a girl at my crib last night, and we watched a movie. But didn't do anything else..we play fought for a bit, teased each other but nothing sexual.

Ive had her at the crib before and we spent half the night drinking and dancing to music, and stupid me got too drunk and she said we did something but she doesn't want to tell me.

W e hang out once a week or every other week, she a cool girl though. She is 50-50 on everything and even offers to pay for more than her share. I unintentionally put her in the friendzone so now I'm her bestie, bff, etc etc.

But ya just a sad story and a huge L for me cause I'm beginning to get some feelings for her. :Snoop:
 

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I had a girl at my crib last night, and we watched a movie. But didn't do anything else..we play fought for a bit, teased each other but nothing sexual.

Ive had her at the crib before and we spent half the night drinking and dancing to music, and stupid me got too drunk and she said we did something but she doesn't want to tell me.

W e hang out once a week or every other week, she a cool girl though. She is 50-50 on everything and even offers to pay for more than her share. I unintentionally put her in the friendzone so now I'm her bestie, bff, etc etc.

But ya just a sad story and a huge L for me cause I'm beginning to get some feelings for her. :Snoop:
If you got feelings for her might as well act on it. worse thing that can happen is that you aren't friends any more and you don't want to be just friends any way :ld:
 

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I had a girl at my crib last night, and we watched a movie. But didn't do anything else..we play fought for a bit, teased each other but nothing sexual.

Ive had her at the crib before and we spent half the night drinking and dancing to music, and stupid me got too drunk and she said we did something but she doesn't want to tell me.

W e hang out once a week or every other week, she a cool girl though. She is 50-50 on everything and even offers to pay for more than her share. I unintentionally put her in the friendzone so now I'm her bestie, bff, etc etc.

But ya just a sad story and a huge L for me cause I'm beginning to get some feelings for her. :Snoop:

youre not friendzoned u just need to turn up and be aggressive
 

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I think term friend is being used loosely these days.In order for a man and a woman to be friends.There has to be mutual affection,respect etc...a lot of times friendship is confused with association.Mainly friendship is about action.You can't have a lopsided friendship where your always calling more then her,texting more then her.If your giving more then her it's a problem.Everything has to be 50-50

I def agree with this
 
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