Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I had a girl at my crib last night, and we watched a movie. But didn't do anything else..we play fought for a bit, teased each other but nothing sexual.

Ive had her at the crib before and we spent half the night drinking and dancing to music, and stupid me got too drunk and she said we did something but she doesn't want to tell me.

W e hang out once a week or every other week, she a cool girl though. She is 50-50 on everything and even offers to pay for more than her share. I unintentionally put her in the friendzone so now I'm her bestie, bff, etc etc.

But ya just a sad story and a huge L for me cause I'm beginning to get some feelings for her. :Snoop:

go in or you'll be in the friendzoned

why the hell would a single man in his twenties want to just be new friends with a single woman in her twenties
 

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Girl I used to speak too and was mean to smash last year but starting acting weird and cut me off last minute, hit me up again after not speaking for a while:blessed:
Last time we spoke was Christmas but it was more a of merry christmas now fukk off, I dont know who you tryna fool type of convo:patrice::russ:


We might just be back in business:win:...hopefully anyway.

She hit me up like I just saw you:leon:
So I was like why the fukk you aint come say hello:dahell:
She said I walked straight past her, she suprised I didnt spot her
I was like word? My bad:ld:

She said I looked good and better in person than I do on photos (keep in mind I was on the way back from the gym):obama:
Then she tried to play that since you didnt see me bet I didnt look good enough:mjpls::russ:

Smoothed it over playfully but hopefully im back in there, said we should hit the gym together:shaq:
 

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go in or you'll be in the friendzoned

why the hell would a single man in his twenties want to just be new friends with a single woman in her twenties
pretty much man. That nigerian i told you about...still going through some mourning over her last relationship and lives in Waterloo now. Basically tried to friendzone me cause she didnt want a relationship yet and I already know it wasnt gonna be a fukk-ting with her all the way out there and us already trying (and failing
Girl I used to speak too and was mean to smash last year but starting acting weird and cut me off last minute, hit me up again after not speaking for a while:blessed:
Last time we spoke was Christmas but it was more a of merry christmas now fukk off, I dont know who you tryna fool type of convo:patrice::russ:


We might just be back in business:win:...hopefully anyway.

She hit me up like I just saw you:leon:
So I was like why the fukk you aint come say hello:dahell:
She said I walked straight past her, she suprised I didnt spot her
I was like word? My bad:ld:

She said I looked good and better in person than I do on photos (keep in mind I was on the way back from the gym):obama:
Then she tried to play that since you didnt see me bet I didnt look good enough:mjpls::russ:

Smoothed it over playfully but hopefully im back in there, said we should hit the gym together:shaq:
i thought you were a female. or youre a lesbo? interesting lol
you know she was bullshytting you though. she didnt say anything cause shes a p*ssy
 

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pretty much man. That nigerian i told you about...still going through some mourning over her last relationship and lives in Waterloo now. Basically tried to friendzone me cause she didnt want a relationship yet and I already know it wasnt gonna be a fukk-ting with her all the way out there and us already trying (and failing

my girl used to live in waterloo just a 50 min drive, even the go bus from square one gets their fast

but yeah screw making new female friends when your in your twenties and tirties your either with me or not
 

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pretty much man. That nigerian i told you about...still going through some mourning over her last relationship and lives in Waterloo now. Basically tried to friendzone me cause she didnt want a relationship yet and I already know it wasnt gonna be a fukk-ting with her all the way out there and us already trying (and failing

i thought you were a female. or youre a lesbo? interesting lol
you know she was bullshytting you though. she didnt say anything cause shes a p*ssy
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You what nikka, no i ain't female:francis:

I feel disrespected:mjlol:
Ima take my L and leave promptly :dead:


On another note ive gotta another chick hitting me up, that i hit twice already tried to smash again like a month or two ago she was bullshytting. We stopped talking for a bit now she pooping up again, I'm sure she got a man too but she talking about us living together in the future :patrice: I'm tempted to just go ain't you got a man though? Honestly idgaf if she gonna let me hit it again, however she can't be wifey specially if she saying shyt like that to me whilst in a relationship, that's not a great impression to make:usure: fukk around and wifey it she might say the same shyt to someone else lmao.
Regardless she was never on the wifey potential list but she cool people even if she Bullshyts a lot.
 
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you know she was bullshytting you though. she didnt say anything cause shes a p*ssy

if you haven't spoken to a female in awhile especially if she was at fault for something, she will never approach you. They know better. If you happen to make eye-contact with them, they either look away or throw in a slight smile hoping you'd come say wassup. But when you see them and you don't show any expression at all whatsoever/put on a straight face, especially after they threw a smile at you is soul-ethering. Sometimes even when you do this, they still come upto you. :mjlol:
 

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You what nikka, no i ain't female:francis:

I feel disrespected:mjlol:
Ima take my L and leave promptly :dead:


On another note ive gotta another chick hitting me up, that i hit twice already tried to smash again like a month or two ago she was bullshytting. We stopped talking for a bit now she pooping up again, I'm sure she got a man too but she talking about us living together in the future :patrice: I'm tempted to just go ain't you got a man though? Honestly idgaf if she gonna let me hit it again, however she can't be wifey specially if she saying shyt like that to me whilst in a relationship, that's not a great impression to make:usure: fukk around and wifey it she might say the same shyt to someone else lmao.
Regardless she was never on the wifey potential list but she cool people even if she Bullshyts a lot.
Lol nah man kts your name. Maybe the person thinking about name is Krispy
 

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my girl used to live in waterloo just a 50 min drive, even the go bus from square one gets their fast

but yeah screw making new female friends when your in your twenties and tirties your either with me or not
Didnt even mean to post all that...but yea I told short it wasn't one of those and if she had a change of heart to hit me up
 
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go in or you'll be in the friendzoned

why the hell would a single man in his twenties want to just be new friends with a single woman in her twenties

lol nah.. i like being friends with her.. that's the thing.

but it's a complicated situation...the story is like this ... my boy calls me one night says let's go movies, he brings out this girl with him but didn't tell me that he is bringing company, otherwise i would have declined. This was the first time i met her, it was end of last summer.

few months later, i meet this girl randomly on the street, and she's like hey remember me, i said ya you were with my boy that night. so she chatted me up a bit, then asked for my number said we should hang out. i said cool and right away she tried to get me to hang out with her. Finally, i said ok and we hung out, but except she got drunk and kinda started getting too emotional saying that she really likes my boy, but he don't want nothing to with her. my boy is the player type, loves fukking around with girls, fukking with their emotions, and this girl is a good girl. i told her, i didn't know the situation and it's between them. didn't really say much else on the type of person that he is. knowing my boy, he's probably told her all this shyt that is non-truthful that it kinda got me feeling sorry for her cause this girl is really into him to the point where she is fukked up emotionally.

My first instinct was to run and cut her loose, but she kept calling and texting and said that we had a great time hanging out and wants to hang out more often majority of the time i would decline, but some times i would go out cause i get bored just being at home doing nothing. I think at some point she told my boy that her and I have been hanging out, and since then, my boy brings her up to me all the time. ..saying shyt like how's the girl, i heard you've been hanging out with her. I told her, ya we hang out as strictly friends. He's like you should hit her up, she's easy. I was like fukk no, we're only friends, i don't want her like that, knowing strictly the fact that this girl is literally on his dikk.

My boy has this girl wrapped on his finger. she's a really good girl, but just fukked up in the head, so whenever he's bored, he calls her up, and she goes to him. basically, she's the equivalent version of the simp male. But i became good friends with her. It's just like a weird bond. And she still hits me all the time. I tried to keep distant but she just keeps coming back. I even cussed her out once for being stupid and naive, but i realized she's dumb as shyt, and i'll just enjoy her company.

Whether she wants me or not has never come up. And i've never stated that i've had interest. Now though, i sense some kind of jealousy from my boy. She comes up in every conversation whenever we're hanging out. I went over to his house yesterday to watch the nba game. All of a sudden, i get a text from the girl saying are you at his house, i said yeah, how did you know. she's like i'm coming over cause he asked me to. my boy didn't even say a word to me that she's coming. and he lied to her saying he's been out all day. so the girl was waiting for him all day, while i was at his house just drinking. my boy is straight up ruthless and i really wanted to tell her what was going on, but i thought against it, and kept quiet.
 

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lol nah.. i like being friends with her.. that's the thing.

but it's a complicated situation...the story is like this ... my boy calls me one night says let's go movies, he brings out this girl with him but didn't tell me that he is bringing company, otherwise i would have declined. This was the first time i met her, it was end of last summer.

few months later, i meet this girl randomly on the street, and she's like hey remember me, i said ya you were with my boy that night. so she chatted me up a bit, then asked for my number said we should hang out. i said cool and right away she tried to get me to hang out with her. Finally, i said ok and we hung out, but except she got drunk and kinda started getting too emotional saying that she really likes my boy, but he don't want nothing to with her. my boy is the player type, loves fukking around with girls, fukking with their emotions, and this girl is a good girl. i told her, i didn't know the situation and it's between them. didn't really say much else on the type of person that he is. knowing my boy, he's probably told her all this shyt that is non-truthful that it kinda got me feeling sorry for her cause this girl is really into him to the point where she is fukked up emotionally.

My first instinct was to run and cut her loose, but she kept calling and texting and said that we had a great time hanging out and wants to hang out more often majority of the time i would decline, but some times i would go out cause i get bored just being at home doing nothing. I think at some point she told my boy that her and I have been hanging out, and since then, my boy brings her up to me all the time. ..saying shyt like how's the girl, i heard you've been hanging out with her. I told her, ya we hang out as strictly friends. He's like you should hit her up, she's easy. I was like fukk no, we're only friends, i don't want her like that, knowing strictly the fact that this girl is literally on his dikk.

My boy has this girl wrapped on his finger. she's a really good girl, but just fukked up in the head, so whenever he's bored, he calls her up, and she goes to him. basically, she's the equivalent version of the simp male. But i became good friends with her. It's just like a weird bond. And she still hits me all the time. I tried to keep distant but she just keeps coming back. I even cussed her out once for being stupid and naive, but i realized she's dumb as shyt, and i'll just enjoy her company.

Whether she wants me or not has never come up. And i've never stated that i've had interest. Now though, i sense some kind of jealousy from my boy. She comes up in every conversation whenever we're hanging out. I went over to his house yesterday to watch the nba game. All of a sudden, i get a text from the girl saying are you at his house, i said yeah, how did you know. she's like i'm coming over cause he asked me to. my boy didn't even say a word to me that she's coming. and he lied to her saying he's been out all day. so the girl was waiting for him all day, while i was at his house just drinking. my boy is straight up ruthless and i really wanted to tell her what was going on, but i thought against it, and kept quiet.
Man just exit involvement with her
 
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Man just exit involvement with her

Why breh? She's a cool girl, extremely attractive and when I'm with her, it helps attract other girls. Just don't like how my boy is acting like a snake all of a sudden.

I'll ride for my boy till the end cause we've been through a lot and he's been there for me. And we know no girl will come between us.
 

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Sounded like it was becoming an issue between you and your boy. If y'all are good then let it ride.
Why breh? She's a cool girl, extremely attractive and when I'm with her, it helps attract other girls. Just don't like how my boy is acting like a snake all of a sudden.

I'll ride for my boy till the end cause we've been through a lot and he's been there for me. And we know no girl will come between us.
 

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Why breh? She's a cool girl, extremely attractive and when I'm with her, it helps attract other girls. Just don't like how my boy is acting like a snake all of a sudden.

I'll ride for my boy till the end cause we've been through a lot and he's been there for me. And we know no girl will come between us.
your boys the snake? youre the one who considered baiting out his scene. why did you even take her # in the first place lol. id never be hanging out with some girl my homie fukkin...that shyt cant lead to anything postive
 
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