Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[root_eruditorium_org]

I've never been real good at the cold gaming thing, I can strike casual conversations all the time but it seems like an uphill battle for me to cold game. I gottago with my strengths. I do significantly better if I'm getting good signals, or running into to you on a semi-regular basis, or meet you through a friend or as a stranger at some occasion of a friend's. Got a bunch of successes and real boneheaded mistakes (butgood stories) by a dumber me, but most were a product of something of the above.

It's easier to be chosen and close than anything else. That doesn't mean wait to do something. It means be yourself strike a friendly conversation see where it goes and you'll know if itss worth the effort just off body language, conversation, word of mouth whatever. Can't tell you the amount of people especially women I just had a random friendly conversation at a friend's party and end up talking to them most of the night

I don't get what you guys mean by cold-gaming? Like when you intentionally rebuff a chick to try to get her to like you?

Of course it is easier to be chosen, but how frequently does this happen to the average dude? & I'm talking about desirable broads.

Answer: Not that often.

 

[DarkHorse23]

You haven't been posting here man. I thought you was MIA for a couple of years while losing weight, working out and getting ya paper up. How's working out going by the way?

I don't post as much anymore. I'm not working out(at the moment) i am dieting though trying lose weight. I started at 143, now i'm at 130 as of today. My goal is 125. Once I get to it then i want to start building.

 

[Atlrocafella]

It's an interesting feeling when you curve a chick to the friend zone, especially after she curved you previously and now is trying her hardest to get with you.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

I don't post as much anymore. I'm not working out(at the moment) i am dieting though trying lose weight. I started at 143, now i'm at 130 as of today. My goal is 125. Once I get to it then i want to start building.

Not bad. Myself I need to hit the gym, starting ... next month I guess. Fukk i'm lazy

 

[DarkHorse23]

Not bad. Myself I need to hit the gym, starting ... next month I guess. Fukk i'm lazy

Yeah dieting is(at least for me) easier to follow through with than hitting the gym.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup it's no different than going for a job interview and within 30 minutes they can tell if you got the job or not

Women know fast, that's why there kissing guys on date 1, or spreading their legs.

Younger versions of ourselves wondering what she thinks about you or whatever, not realizing interest should be obvious or bust. Maybe even over the top to the point it makes you surprised. Anything you have to rack your brain over is added stress which is the opposite of what a new exciting friendship/relationship/woman should bring you.

My girl told me that she actually had to hold off on trying anything with me just to not let go so easily and make it that easy for me. I didn't know she was holding it in like that. Regardless, I knew it was going to happen at some point sooner or later. I didn't have to chase for it or anything

 

[MikelArteta]

Women only want to be your friend if there not sexually attracted to you

It's an interesting feeling when you curve a chick to the friend zone, especially after she curved you previously and now is trying her hardest to get with you.

 

[marcuz]

i still cant believe this thread is this long and active

best gems with dealing with women; have way more assets than them. always tell the truth when it comes to other women, and expect them to eventually stray like the fickle creatures they are.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Women only want to be your friend if there not sexually attracted to you

This one probably wanted to see if I would keep sweating her. Now she keeps trying to start all over and telling me to give her a second chance. Nope

 

[Mr210]

This one probably wanted to see if I would keep sweating her. Now she keeps trying to start all over and telling me to give her a second chance. Nope

Good job

 

[Mr210]

Bottom line is women want winners and you look much more attractive to them when you're out there trying to handle your business. You give off a way different aura... One that's not thirsty, but commanding and powerful. As much as you hear these so called 'boss chicks' give themselves props, women don't want to be bosses. They want a boss, and when you're handling your business, they can sense it. Don't let these women knock you off track. Only accept that one in your life that is going to aid you.

Kudos to this more men need to listen to this

 

[NeilCartwright]

Maybe it's cuz it is early in the morning Monday but this sentence doesn't fit here. My brain doesn't seem to be processing this correctly.

It almost sounds like you are being forced into an arranged marriage almost (lmao). Why the pressure breh? How old are you?

& just roll a dice then. before getting married you shouldn't be asking yourself these sorts of questions. wait till that nikka reinscarf reads this lol he's gonna flip.

I'm not thinking about marriage just yet, I'm 22

The single life is cool but to be real I wouldn't mind being in a relationship. I'll be away for 8 weeks this summer and this Shii got me in my feelingslike I said earlier I'll be in houston for 5 weeks but I don't want to leave Atlanta without at least considering the option of trying to lock one down.

One of them is just my type, dark skinned, 5'11 () with a fat ass. Looks like kelly Rowland.

Ppl have been telling me to lay low and enjoy going out but after this next year I'll get assigned to my first unit..I'm in ATL now but I might get stationed in the middle of no where in Michigan or something.

 

[Mr.Plan B]

Just turned down tall thick joint at the mall, just because I'm talking to chick.

Group of her friends all kinda cute , I gave the eye contact as I was walking away her fat friend say 'You want her number she cute and you cute or whatever" I was like naw I seeing somebody, than said you're friend is cute tho hit em with the smile and walk to my car. "Fat friend yell out I like that you loyal you good man boo"

I'm falling back into that boyfriend mindset, with this actor chick that why I need one of my nikkas with me to smack some sense into me when I do stupid shyt like that.

That was easy layup that I missed for what? Being loyal to chick who I'm not even dating yet.

shyt I even stopped txt 4 other joints in my phone.

Sorry to say brah I might be domesticated from past relationship. The dog in me almost gone smh.

 

[TRUEST]

Just turned down tall thick joint at the mall, just because I'm talking to chick.

Group of her friends all kinda cute , I gave the eye contact as I was walking away her fat friend say 'You want her number she cute and you cute or whatever" I was like naw I seeing somebody, than said you're friend is cute tho hit em with the smile and walk to my car. "Fat friend yell out I like that you loyal you good man boo"

I'm falling back into that boyfriend mindset, with this actor chick that why I need one of my nikkas with me to smack some sense into me when I do stupid shyt like that.

That was easy layup that I missed for what? Being loyal to chick who I'm not even dating yet.

shyt I even stopped txt 4 other joints in my phone.

Sorry to say brah I might be domesticated from past relationship. The dog in me almost gone smh.

this is embarrassing to read. what you just posted is nothing to be proud of. i think u were caught off guard by the compliment or attention and just immediately calculated you'll be better off with the ego boost than to try to talk to shorty and watch the attraction she initially had for u dwindle right before ur eyes. so u took the ego boost and high tailed outta there. next time, be smart. and at least keep her on the roster till ur main chick has demonstrated she's truly down for u.

 

[Mike Ock]

Just turned down tall thick joint at the mall, just because I'm talking to chick.

Group of her friends all kinda cute , I gave the eye contact as I was walking away her fat friend say 'You want her number she cute and you cute or whatever" I was like naw I seeing somebody, than said you're friend is cute tho hit em with the smile and walk to my car. "Fat friend yell out I like that you loyal you good man boo"

I'm falling back into that boyfriend mindset, with this actor chick that why I need one of my nikkas with me to smack some sense into me when I do stupid shyt like that.

That was easy layup that I missed for what? Being loyal to chick who I'm not even dating yet.

shyt I even stopped txt 4 other joints in my phone.

Sorry to say brah I might be domesticated from past relationship. The dog in me almost gone smh.

You did the smart thing man. Save yaself the stress.