Brandsdale
Big Yella
hardee har har
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
They love attention.
The fact they have X amount of guys trying to be in her space makes her feel important.
Then with the women, they see them as competition and they dont get along with them because some of them they know have some type of better aspect of their body that she is insecure about. (The other girl is slim while the insecure one think she's fat).
She also proly tried to throw body language signs at one of her ex-homegirl's dude and they fell out.
Brandsdale
Big Yella
as much I agree with you breh there's one huge flaw- women will NEVER approach you no matter what, unless of coarse you meet a chic in your professional workplace or through a work related activity
I had the same mentality a few months ago an even though i was working on myself I had realized i had to go out there and approach these womenand play my part. Women will definitely fukk with you once you're on your path and see you've made the right decisions in life and doing better for yourself, but they want you to approach them. Women either have too much pride to pursue a man because of old bullshyt traditions, or they're too shy.
If you wait for a chic to come to you, you will literally starve. The last time I've had a woman approach me was 4 years ago, and even then she wasn't attractive but I made sure I was friendly and acted interested cause hell I
her courageedit: however I definitely agree on not discussing and not caring about em cause well.....they're not worth the stress or annoyance. I LITERALLY dont give a shyt about these hoes and dont care once Ive been curved, ignored etc. Divert all your focus to what you're trying to be in life and on top of that add in a couple hobbies just as something to keep you busy or exercise your interests. My homie works fulltime and working on his accounting certifications and on top of that wants to work on making his very own board game, just for the fukk of it. constantly complaining about women and discussing them eats up a chunk of time and energy that should be diverted to something more productive.
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s3ven_LvLs
All Star
hardee har har
lowkey not even playing though. but i live in atlanta so it might be different where you are. You could also try like a park or coffee shop in a major city. Learn how to get straight to the point when you see women on the run.
DarkHorse23
Banned
Yeah man I hear you. Investing all your time worrying about what they do, who they fukk and won't fukk, what they like or don't like, and why they do the things they do has become mentally exhausting and isn't good for my health because all it does is make me very bitter and stress me out. Just going dedicate my energy/time/focus to my body/health, career, family(parents getting older, wanna make the most of every moment I have left with them), friends, and my relationship with God. I do agree with you that you'll probably be on a vegan diet sexually waiting for women to approach you.as much I agree with you breh there's one huge flaw- women will NEVER approach you no matter what, unless of coarse you meet a chic in your professional workplace or through a work related activity
I had the same mentality a few months ago an even though i was working on myself I had realized i had to go out there and approach these womenand play my part. Women will definitely fukk with you once you're on your path and see you've made the right decisions in life and doing better for yourself, but they want you to approach them. Women either have too much pride to pursue a man because of old bullshyt traditions, or they're too shy.
If you wait for a chic to come to you, you will literally starve. The last time I've had a woman approach me was 4 years ago, and even then she wasn't attractive but I made sure I was friendly and acted interested cause hell I
edit: however I definitely agree on not discussing and not caring about em cause well.....they're not worth the stress or annoyance. I LITERALLY dont give a shyt about these hoes and dont care once Ive been curved, ignored etc. Divert all your focus to what you're trying to be in life and on top of that add in a couple hobbies just as something to keep you busy or exercise your interests. My homie works fulltime and working on his accounting certifications and on top of that wants to work on making his very own board game, just for the fukk of it. constantly complaining about women and discussing them eats up a chunk of time and energy that should be diverted to something more productive.
Idk bruh I just don't see the point in approaching anymore. They just going reject you, curve you, or put you through the wringer for mediocre sex(because we all know a lot of them don't know how to have sex, mainly just lay there like a fukking dead fish) and that's the best case scenario. I guess I'll just look for signs of interest before I shoot my shot. I'm not cold approaching anymore.
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Lounges
Waiting for signs of interest..lolYeah man I hear you. Investing all your time worrying about what they do, who they fukk and won't fukk, what they like or don't like, and why they do the things they do has become mentally exhausting and isn't good for my health because all it does is make me very bitter and stress me out. Just going dedicate my energy/time/focus to my body/health, career, family(parents getting older, wanna make the most of every moment I have left with them), friends, and my relationship with God. I do agree with you that you'll probably be on a vegan diet sexually waiting for women to approach you.
I don't know man...I actually enjoy the random cold approach
DarkHorse23
Banned
If women aren't choosing, what's the point in approaching?
Youseenmywork
KING
That's were men lose ...what your saying is an ego thing. You got too much ego if being rejected is troubling you. This 8 subjects that a man get his life together on EVERY level before dealing with women. I say that cause when they leave and most usually do you have plenty of things to fall back on. I don't understand about what you mean by choosing thoe it would be easier if a women is giving eye contact or what not cause that kind da makes it clear....but there is nothing wrong with cold approaching either thoe.
Brandsdale
Big Yella
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Once I open my mouth and the chic says hello have a knack for going in straight convo mode and I get in the zone like it's natural. Definitely gonna hone that talent going forward,
these hoes just keep ignoring texts tho
I began to really like the cold approach. It's kind of fun when you muster up the courage to talk to a stranger
Once I open my mouth and the chic says hello have a knack for going in straight convo mode and I get in the zone like it's natural. Definitely gonna hone that talent going forward,
these hoes just keep ignoring texts tho
I usually built a strong rapport with these hoes before I get the numberi
I began to really like the cold approach. It's kind of fun when you muster up the courage to talk to a stranger
Once I open my mouth and the chic says hello have a knack for going in straight convo mode and I get in the zone like it's natural. Definitely gonna hone that talent going forward,
these hoes just keep ignoring texts tho
That usually eliminates flakiness
Getting her number right away has a high flake rate
cant have any ego if you wanna do cold approaches
Gotta be congruent.....your thoughts ..words...and action have to aligned
Shyt takes crazy reference experience to master it
But you can just be non action taking and wait forever for a sign
And if your not the ideal in the looks department....good luck waiting forever
I'm only at 3 this summer
And even then I don't even message them lol
It's amazing how easy it is to meet other females when u have abundance of females on your roster...rather than coming for a scarcity mind frame where u got none and these chicks can see the thirstyness
It's like subconsciously these chicks know that u got other females..they hate the idea but they respond to it emotionally
DarkHorse23
Banned
Rejection can be a good thing but too much rejection kills your spirit. I'm at that point right now. Ego isn't an issue for me, I'm just trying to work smarter not harder. It's more effective to just focus on yourself and let women come, then to approach 100 women in a year and hope that one says yes. Add on to that the game playing, bad attitudes, mediocre sex it just doesn't seem worth it to me. Cold approaching is fun at first, when I started I loved it because I was overcoming my fears and taking chances. At that time my results and reward was doing the approach. Now 4-5 years later I'm all about results and what works. But hey that's just me.
Word? Why's that?
Then again I do see her around the gym talking to hella guys
I don't know if she's feeling me or just wants attention, because she does come up to me randomly in the gym and we have a mini convo. During one of our convos she told me she doesn't like girls and only hangs around guys. We talk sports and shyt, but this chick supposedly "hates" people and doesn't go out for fun much. She stays at home with her family