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What do you guys do with chicks who don't reply back?

I usually charge it to the game, but my homie was showing me that persistence pays off - sometimes.

He was showing me convos in his phone where the last text will be him either trying to re-open or set something up with no response..... then a week or even a month later, he'll send out another opener text and these chicks will engage in convo again after giving some type of bullshyt excuse :mjlol:

I got too much pride to double text, but maybe I'll have to rethink it :yeshrug:
 
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So what are you doing to NOT be average?

You gotta separate yourself from the rest of the pack somehow.

Are you in the gym getting a physique that will separate you from 90% of dudes? I'm not even talking about being swole like the Rock, just enough to where you look like you lift in regular clothes.

Self-improvement should be the goal if you're "average" right now....unless you're content with average women.


It's more to it than setting yourself apart and not being average. I will elaborate later.
 

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What do you guys do with chicks who don't reply back?

I usually charge it to the game, but my homie was showing me that persistence pays off - sometimes.

He was showing me convos in his phone where the last text will be him either trying to re-open or set something up with no response..... then a week or even a month later, he'll send out another opener text and these chicks will engage in convo again after giving some type of bullshyt excuse :mjlol:

I got too much pride to double text, but maybe I'll have to rethink it :yeshrug:

Women can talk all day..

If he aint meeting up with them and getting traction its a waste
 
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girl i was planning to hang out with yesterday flaked on me saying that she got called into work, asked me if i am free tomorrow night, i said yes but only for a little bit, and said that we should meet up then.

what should i do? I feel that she will flake again. should i tell her can't make it to not give her the chance to flake, don't message her at all, or tell her to come to my place for "movie"

i haven't fukked her yet, but i want to.
 

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girl i was planning to hang out with yesterday flaked on me saying that she got called into work, asked me if i am free tomorrow night, i said yes but only for a little bit, and said that we should meet up then.

what should i do? I feel that she will flake again. should i tell her can't make it to not give her the chance to flake, don't message her at all, or tell her to come to my place for "movie"

i haven't fukked her yet, but i want to.


The fact that she proposed another time to hang out means she probably really DID get called into work. She wouldn't have mentioned another time to hang out if she wasn't feeling you. Go chill with her tomorrow, don't over think it
 

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What do you guys do with chicks who don't reply back?

I usually charge it to the game, but my homie was showing me that persistence pays off - sometimes.

He was showing me convos in his phone where the last text will be him either trying to re-open or set something up with no response..... then a week or even a month later, he'll send out another opener text and these chicks will engage in convo again after giving some type of bullshyt excuse :mjlol:

I got too much pride to double text, but maybe I'll have to rethink it :yeshrug:


Belive it or not, girls do love to play 'hard to get'. It shows that you're really interested in the woman. But be advise, know the difference between "hard to get" and just straight being ignored and/or being a pest. This can be tricky one. Honestly, you'll know deep down if she's doing either or. Just be real to yourself about it though and not force anything.
 

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What do you guys do with chicks who don't reply back?

I usually charge it to the game, but my homie was showing me that persistence pays off - sometimes.

He was showing me convos in his phone where the last text will be him either trying to re-open or set something up with no response..... then a week or even a month later, he'll send out another opener text and these chicks will engage in convo again after giving some type of bullshyt excuse :mjlol:

I got too much pride to double text, but maybe I'll have to rethink it :yeshrug:
just delete her number. Imo you fukk yourself up forcing something that never was there in the first place and come off as a pest or end up saying something detrimental

ive seen some dude figure it out but it all depends on you. Me personally whenever I open up an old chic that wasnt answering from the jump it never pans out right, but I only do it out of boredom
 

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The fact that she proposed another time to hang out means she probably really DID get called into work. She wouldn't have mentioned another time to hang out if she wasn't feeling you. Go chill with her tomorrow, don't over think it


agreed, people do have other commitments that they have to attend to.
 
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What do you guys do with chicks who don't reply back?

I usually charge it to the game, but my homie was showing me that persistence pays off - sometimes.

He was showing me convos in his phone where the last text will be him either trying to re-open or set something up with no response..... then a week or even a month later, he'll send out another opener text and these chicks will engage in convo again after giving some type of bullshyt excuse :mjlol:

I got too much pride to double text, but maybe I'll have to rethink it :yeshrug:

Pride has a purpose. It prevents you from being some chick's carpet to be trampled on or tampon to be bled on with period blood.

Double text at your own peril.
 

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What do you guys do with chicks who don't reply back?

I usually charge it to the game, but my homie was showing me that persistence pays off - sometimes.

He was showing me convos in his phone where the last text will be him either trying to re-open or set something up with no response..... then a week or even a month later, he'll send out another opener text and these chicks will engage in convo again after giving some type of bullshyt excuse :mjlol:

I got too much pride to double text, but maybe I'll have to rethink it :yeshrug:

Charge her to the game
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Females can see your texts but choose not to answer for whatever reason.
Her making conversation a month later dont mean shyt. She prolly responding now cuz the dude that kept her from responding a month ago prolly already hit it and quit it; now she wants some reassurance.

Females gone respond when its convenient for them. Hit a girl up and try to make conversation and watch her not respond for days---hit her up and tell her you just got paid and wanna spend money on her and watch her ass send 3 texts before you finish typing the second.

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But you can just be non action taking and wait forever for a sign
And if your not the ideal in the looks department....good luck waiting forever

Pretty much. If you are not the kinda guy chicks look twice at, then those so-called "signs" will never come. But then again when you cold-approach broads the success rate is abysmally low and you basically have to toughen up your ego, not every guy can do this. I haven't mastered the cold-approach yet but I feel like I'm at the cusp.
 

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girl i was planning to hang out with yesterday flaked on me saying that she got called into work, asked me if i am free tomorrow night, i said yes but only for a little bit, and said that we should meet up then.

what should i do? I feel that she will flake again. should i tell her can't make it to not give her the chance to flake, don't message her at all, or tell her to come to my place for "movie"

i haven't fukked her yet, but i want to.

Get to the point.
You wanna fukk so tell her to come through to the crib.
If she says yes then you better fukk!!
Females not dumb---if she says YES then she is down to fukk.
Believe me breh!
:ufdup:
 

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Trill post

A girl im actually talking to now admitted weeks ago that if she would go to a dude's crib, she know what he wants (sex) and she's willing to but is waiting on him to make a move. Dudes have been too hesitant and it turned her off.

Quotable post---"a female that comes to the hotel or your crib is willing to fukk. Just make your move" - Flyinhawaiian
 

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A girl im actually talking to now admitted weeks ago that if she would go to a dude's crib, she know what he wants (sex) and she's willing to but is waiting on him to make a move. Dudes have been too hesitant and it turned her off.

Quotable post---"a female that comes to the hotel or your crib is willing to fukk. Just make your move" - Flyinhawaiian


Yeah I had ol girl over yesterday, I was a little hesitate at first, but she decided to try and tickle the breh. You know what that led too... :ahh:
 
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