Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ohene

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Guess I gotta have a penis to have my worries taken seriously round here
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this is how you know girls have zero game
how have you met your other friends? just try to find some sort of common interest between yall while she's doing your hair

for instance lets say she's doing it at her crib...look around. Maybe youll notice a magazine, piece of art, some music, stuffed animals, food, some books...something thats laying around that you can use to start a conversation. It doesnt even have to be something that you have in common...it can be something that you dont but want to know more about. Hold a conversation about it..and then one day find some sort of event or article or some shyt that relates to what yall were discussing. Forward said article to her or invite her to said event. The only way the invitation would work is if yall got really deep into your conversation about it though. That's where the game comes in...the ability to guide the conversation in a way that gets you to the end goal of bonding enough that youll have an excuse to hit her up outside of hair appointments.
 

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this is how you know girls have zero game
how have you met your other friends? just try to find some sort of common interest between yall while she's doing your hair

for instance lets say she's doing it at her crib...look around. Maybe youll notice a magazine, piece of art, some music, stuffed animals, food, some books...something thats laying around that you can use to start a conversation. It doesnt even have to be something that you have in common...it can be something that you dont but want to know more about. Hold a conversation about it..and then one day find some sort of event or article or some shyt that relates to what yall were discussing. Forward said article to her or invite her to said event. The only way the invitation would work is if yall got really deep into your conversation about it though. That's where the game comes in...the ability to guide the conversation in a way that gets you to the end goal of bonding enough that youll have an excuse to hit her up outside of hair appointments.
I'm gonna invite her out to a movie.

fukk it. Imma do it. Imma come back in this thread when it's done
 

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Has anyone given up the dating game? I haven't been on a date in about 2 years or longer (I forgot) but even so i feel like i haven't been missing out. I haven't met anyone in my life who i can even see being GF or wife material imo and i'm almost 27. I know most cats are like "You need women in life to help you blah blah blah" but i could careless. Taking women out on dates, trying to figure out if she's attracted to you, buying them shyt, meeting her friends/fam is boring to me tbh :manny: Maybe i'm one of the few who enjoys doing things by myself all the time, idk. I find bars, clubs, parties are boring as well and it's not like i'm depressed, they just don't do anything for me and are time wasting activities
You're not meeting quality women if you don't feel the urge to take them out breh
 

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So just an update on the two dates where the girls gave me the cheek when I went in for the kiss.

Both sent good morning texts today and I already have a 2nd date set up with one em...... I respect the feedback in here, but some of you guys are way too quick to toss a chick's # to the bushes
 

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this is how you know girls have zero game
how have you met your other friends? just try to find some sort of common interest between yall while she's doing your hair

for instance lets say she's doing it at her crib...look around. Maybe youll notice a magazine, piece of art, some music, stuffed animals, food, some books...something thats laying around that you can use to start a conversation. It doesnt even have to be something that you have in common...it can be something that you dont but want to know more about. Hold a conversation about it..and then one day find some sort of event or article or some shyt that relates to what yall were discussing. Forward said article to her or invite her to said event. The only way the invitation would work is if yall got really deep into your conversation about it though. That's where the game comes in...the ability to guide the conversation in a way that gets you to the end goal of bonding enough that youll have an excuse to hit her up outside of hair appointments.
U do know she's trolling u, right?
 

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:martin:Brehs, quick question. Why is that when you send a message to a broad on an online dating site/app she replies back with a "hey" or "hi"? :dwillhuh:

I messaged this broad on pof "wassup Miss ____. I like what i see and eventhough me and you don't know each other i don't see why that can't change"

Girl replies back after viewing my profile 10 mins later with a "hey".

:martin:

I'm leaning towards deleting the message and not responding. No effort in a response means she ain't that interested (atleast in my mind). Thoughts?
 

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:martin:Brehs, quick question. Why is that when you send a message to a broad on an online dating site/app she replies back with a "hey" or "hi"? :dwillhuh:

I messaged this broad on pof "wassup Miss ____. I like what i see and eventhough me and you don't know each other i don't see why that can't change"

Girl replies back after viewing my profile 10 mins later with a "hey".

:martin:

I'm leaning towards deleting the message and not responding. No effort in a response means she ain't that interested (atleast in my mind). Thoughts?

ur gut instinct is correct. girls who like ur pics will respond with more than a hey. hey is just, meh. usually a "hey how are you doing". is what u want to look for.

one word responses are hardly ever a good thing
 

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I have to say this.. We have to go back to the basics of approaching broads and spitting the ism from the cuff. Women most likely aren't gonna step.. EVEN if they feeling you.. I missed out on tons of puzzy because I was awaiting from a cue from the chick to approach or awaiting for her to step to me. Its not gonna likely work like that, Especially since women nowadays today are busy glued to their phones and Iphones. Men have to rock her world and step to her and let her know what it do
 
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Something tells me we won't be alone when this happens. She'll probably have other people trying to talk to her at the same time.

I want to be her friend because no one in my life has ever struck me so well.
I think about her (platonically :patrice:)
ALL the time. You ever just met someone that has that GLOW? She smiled at me and literally my heart dropped. She's beautiful too. I've had BAD bytchES out here in LA try to get with me. I don't like girls. I don't want to sleep with this girl but I want to hold her tight

:mjcry:

Nah we can't help you ask other women. This thread of men on how to get women.

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