Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[TRUEST]

I really can't believe this bytch ran to a nikka with 6 kids lmao it's unbelievable my brehs

dude, you're fuccked either way. ur going through a serious mind fucck right now whether nor not u realize it and u keep allowing urself to get drawn into a rabbit hole that is so deep, you're in another world.

u got a girl who knows she has u wrapped around her finger (the power is tilted in her favor), she's playing games with u. ur in a league ur not built for. best thing u can do is go cold turkey and completely and utterly cut urself off from this chick and quit with the endless posts about her. she's a lost cause. and you're a lost cause as well. i say this because if she came back next week, you'll jump right back into the bullsh1t. nothing anyone says here will save u from wwhat i see in the future for u. if u wanna live a stress free happy life, get urself a new girl and close this book. its done.

 

[Youseenmywork]

dude, you're fuccked either way. ur going through a serious mind fucck right now whether nor not u realize it and u keep allowing urself to get drawn into a rabbit hole that is so deep, you're in another world.

u got a girl who knows she has u wrapped around her finger (the power is tilted in her favor), she's playing games with u. ur in a league ur not built for. best thing u can do is go cold turkey and completely and utterly cut urself off from this chick and quit with the endless posts about her. she's a lost cause. and you're a lost cause as well. i say this because if she came back next week, you'll jump right back into the bullsh1t. nothing anyone says here will save u from wwhat i see in the future for u. if u wanna live a stress free happy life, get urself a new girl and close this book. its done.

COLD shyt but needed to be said. As the saying goes in the show the WIRE "the game is the game".

 

[MJ Truth]

u have to be a complete savage to be able to do what i would do. im not advocating this if u aint got the heart for it, but personally, i'd fucck her one or two last time. fucck her the way she wants, with of course the new found hatred developed from the evidence u stumbled upon. then after u get done fuccking her, start a fight with her for the smallest of things. why does ur breath smell? wtf is wrong with u? have u been eating garbage? fuccking disgusting whore. then storm out. or u kick her out.

she'll be utterly hurt and the things she'll do to get back in ur good graces will marvel u. but, to do this, u need to have made up ur mind that u will never (and i mean NEVER) take her seriously again. so, basically, u are relegating her to the assignment of a jumpoff, but not just any jumpoff, but a jumpoff u treat with utter disdain. the type u barely even fucck and the most of the time, what u use her for is to get head and have her swallow then kick her back out. and u do all this without ever mentioning a word about the text u found.

be careful doing this though cause some chicks can off themselves or off u, then themselves.

Breh, that's a little too much, don't ya think?

 

[TRUEST]

Breh, that's a little too much, don't ya think?

hey, dont do it if u aint that type of dude. i just personally believe in payback, if justified. not everyone has the heart for it.

 

[Ohene]

dude, you're fuccked either way. ur going through a serious mind fucck right now whether nor not u realize it and u keep allowing urself to get drawn into a rabbit hole that is so deep, you're in another world.

u got a girl who knows she has u wrapped around her finger (the power is tilted in her favor), she's playing games with u. ur in a league ur not built for. best thing u can do is go cold turkey and completely and utterly cut urself off from this chick and quit with the endless posts about her. she's a lost cause. and you're a lost cause as well. i say this because if she came back next week, you'll jump right back into the bullsh1t. nothing anyone says here will save u from wwhat i see in the future for u. if u wanna live a stress free happy life, get urself a new girl and close this book. its done.

its that simple. never mind it needing to be said. it has already been said multple times but he dont listen

 

[TheArchitect]

....So I made a post a couple of posts back about this chick who I somewhat was interested in, but was confused by the circumstances of how we got back into contact....

Welp, needless to say she ignored me when I hit her up to see if she was still down to get me from the airport....and I winded up having to wait like an hour and a half for my cousin to get off.

I would of liked to think she was interested, but obviously that's not the case. I started to second guess myself asking "maybe it was something I said/did, or texted..." But then I was like "Nah, I couldn't of did anything that dumb'...Point is, apparently I wasn't worth even replying to with a "no"...just radio silence...So needless to say, her number/convo has been deleted.

This kind of shyt has been happening to me my entire life. I'm not even exaggerating, EVERY SINGLE TIME. I've never been with anyone I was legitimately attracted, only hurt/played. You would think a nikka would quit being frustrated after a while...Everybody else is mingling with females/dating, while i sit there wondering what it's like. shyt, I've never even had a REAL gf....I've been in a relationship but all it ever brought me was grief and frustration.

I honestly don't know what to do right now except focus on everything else and act as if females don't even exist (like that's gonna work out well for me, ha...) This is gonna sound ridiculous, but it's gotten to the point that it's starting to hurt physically. It's like the stress and mental pain are eating away at me,and it surges through my body.

I wish i could just turn my libido off. I'm a Scorpio, I'm not build for this kind of shyt.....

 

[TRUEST]

....So I made a post a couple of posts back about this chick who I somewhat was interested in, but was confused by the circumstances of how we got back into contact....

Welp, needless to say she ignored me when I hit her up to see if she was still down to get me from the airport....and I winded up having to wait like an hour and a half for my cousin to get off.

I would of liked to think she was interested, but obviously that's not the case. I started to second guess myself asking "maybe it was something I said/did, or texted..." But then I was like "Nah, I couldn't of did anything that dumb'...Point is, apparently I wasn't worth even replying to with a "no"...just radio silence...So needless to say, her number/convo has been deleted.

This kind of shyt has been happening to me my entire life. I'm not even exaggerating, EVERY SINGLE TIME. I've never been with anyone I was legitimately attracted, only hurt/played. You would think a nikka would quit being frustrated after a while...Everybody else is mingling with females/dating, while i sit there wondering what it's like. shyt, I've never even had a REAL gf....I've been in a relationship but all it ever brought me was grief and frustration.

I honestly don't know what to do right now except focus on everything else and act as if females don't even exist (like that's gonna work out well for me, ha...) This is gonna sound ridiculous, but it's gotten to the point that it's starting to hurt physically. It's like the stress and mental pain are eating away at me,and it surges through my body.

I wish i could just turn my libido off. I'm a Scorpio, I'm not build for this kind of shyt.....

did u offer to take her to dinner? did u offer to do something for her for the drive she gave u to the airport?
i cant tell u to ignore this particular situation because if its been happening to u ur whole life, something has to change and it has to now.

first thing u need to do is watch what u say to this women. i mean i dont wanna feel like im teaching u game, but this isn't really game its common sense. u need to learn to hit while the iron is hot.

i've been called too forward, that i dont beat around the bush, and that i'm rough around the edges. all these names are meaningless because what it boils down to is, when i want something i go for it. no diccking around.

for example:
i meet a chick at a post office. i get her number. as i'm getting her number i ask her, what are u doing tonight. wanna grab a drink? see what i just did there? i saw her, i wanted her and I told her exactly what i wanted. and most of the time they go for it. it doesn't mean i'm desperate or pressed it just means i'm aggressive. and many times i do this aggression because i know after we fucck, the tables will be turned and they'll be the one all caught up in their emotions.

i dont wanna make this post too long. but if u dont get anything out of this, get this: Dont drag ur feet with these women and stop begging for sh1t from them.

and stop putting urself in a position where u're always being helped by a woman. why couldn't u catch a cab home again?

 

[kevm3]

....So I made a post a couple of posts back about this chick who I somewhat was interested in, but was confused by the circumstances of how we got back into contact....

Welp, needless to say she ignored me when I hit her up to see if she was still down to get me from the airport....and I winded up having to wait like an hour and a half for my cousin to get off.

I would of liked to think she was interested, but obviously that's not the case. I started to second guess myself asking "maybe it was something I said/did, or texted..." But then I was like "Nah, I couldn't of did anything that dumb'...Point is, apparently I wasn't worth even replying to with a "no"...just radio silence...So needless to say, her number/convo has been deleted.

This kind of shyt has been happening to me my entire life. I'm not even exaggerating, EVERY SINGLE TIME. I've never been with anyone I was legitimately attracted, only hurt/played. You would think a nikka would quit being frustrated after a while...Everybody else is mingling with females/dating, while i sit there wondering what it's like. shyt, I've never even had a REAL gf....I've been in a relationship but all it ever brought me was grief and frustration.

I honestly don't know what to do right now except focus on everything else and act as if females don't even exist (like that's gonna work out well for me, ha...) This is gonna sound ridiculous, but it's gotten to the point that it's starting to hurt physically. It's like the stress and mental pain are eating away at me,and it surges through my body.

I wish i could just turn my libido off. I'm a Scorpio, I'm not build for this kind of shyt.....

Like I said before, don't let these broads provide the criteria and metrics by which you measure your life. Most of these broads have problems and are extremely rude. They have extremely bad manners from a lifetime of being babied by their parents and simps, so they don't know how to act. You did the right thing in cutting her off. Next time, don't ever depend on no broad to come through.

 

[kevm3]

Real talk, if you've just met a woman, NEVER depend on her for anything serious, like for her to show up for you, pick you up or any of that. If you go somewhere to see her, ALWAYS have a backup plan available if this broad doesn't pick up the phone or show up. Just go somewhere else or invite someone else instead and cut that woman's number off. These broads have no repercussions for their actions, which is why they do utterly disrespectful stuff like this. Your time is way too valuable to be wasting it with someone who has such a lack of courtesy.

 

[TheArchitect]

did u offer to take her to dinner? did u offer to do something for her for the drive she gave u to the airport?
i cant tell u to ignore this particular situation because if its been happening to u ur whole life, something has to change and it has to now.

first thing u need to do is watch what u say to this women. i mean i dont wanna feel like im teaching u game, but this isn't really game its common sense. u need to learn to hit while the iron is hot.

i've been called too forward, that i dont beat around the bush, and that i'm rough around the edges. all these names are meaningless because what it boils down to is, when i want something i go for it. no diccking around.

for example:
i meet a chick at a post office. i get her number. as i'm getting her number i ask her, what are u doing tonight. wanna grab a drink? see what i just did there? i saw her, i wanted her and I told her exactly what i wanted. and most of the time they go for it. it doesn't mean i'm desperate or pressed it just means i'm aggressive. and many times i do this aggression because i know after we fucck, the tables will be turned and they'll be the one all caught up in their emotions.

i dont wanna make this post too long. but if u dont get anything out of this, get this: Dont drag ur feet with these women and stop begging for sh1t from them.

and stop putting urself in a position where u're always being helped by a woman. why couldn't u catch a cab home again?

Nah, I was actually gonna do that when I got back.

I didn't "beg" for anything actually. She was the first to offer...besides taking a cab from the airport to my crib was WAAAAY too expensive. That shyt sin't that close at all...

Like I said before, don't let these broads provide the criteria and metrics by which you measure your life. Most of these broads have problems and are extremely rude. They have extremely bad manners from a lifetime of being babied by their parents and simps, so they don't know how to act. You did the right thing in cutting her off. Next time, don't ever depend on no broad to come through.

Yeah, never again. shyt's frustrating......

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Random thoughts for any Georgia or Atlanta brehs.

I go to the University of Georgia and classes start in like 2 weeks. I shoulda went to State...all the bad IG thots that live in Atlanta >>>> these UGA girls

UGA is a p*ssy goldmine if you're a black dude. I used to go up there and feast. They also got some quality wifey chicks too. The ratio is in your favor man.

 

[360dagod]

....So I made a post a couple of posts back about this chick who I somewhat was interested in, but was confused by the circumstances of how we got back into contact....

Welp, needless to say she ignored me when I hit her up to see if she was still down to get me from the airport....and I winded up having to wait like an hour and a half for my cousin to get off.

I would of liked to think she was interested, but obviously that's not the case. I started to second guess myself asking "maybe it was something I said/did, or texted..." But then I was like "Nah, I couldn't of did anything that dumb'...Point is, apparently I wasn't worth even replying to with a "no"...just radio silence...So needless to say, her number/convo has been deleted.

This kind of shyt has been happening to me my entire life. I'm not even exaggerating, EVERY SINGLE TIME. I've never been with anyone I was legitimately attracted, only hurt/played. You would think a nikka would quit being frustrated after a while...Everybody else is mingling with females/dating, while i sit there wondering what it's like. shyt, I've never even had a REAL gf....I've been in a relationship but all it ever brought me was grief and frustration.

I honestly don't know what to do right now except focus on everything else and act as if females don't even exist (like that's gonna work out well for me, ha...) This is gonna sound ridiculous, but it's gotten to the point that it's starting to hurt physically. It's like the stress and mental pain are eating away at me,and it surges through my body.

I wish i could just turn my libido off. I'm a Scorpio, I'm not build for this kind of shyt.....

what were you offering her in return?

 

[TheArchitect]

what were you offering her in return?

That's the funny thing, she wouldn't accept anything I'd offer. I did offer to kick it when I got back and shyt, and she seemed down...

I couldn't really figure her out. We only chilled once before (a couple years ago), and we'd communicate on fb every once in a while. It was like she randomly offered the ride and shyt...then suddenly when I get back radio silence. It annoys me bc she seemed cool as shyt, but then again they always do until....

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

UGA is a p*ssy goldmine if you're a black dude. I used to go up there and feast. They also got some quality wifey chicks too. The ratio is in your favor man.

Why "if you are a black dude"?

& my dude said you can't finesse these chicks to tutor them because they are too smart already focus on your studies man

 

[RichieRich]

That's the funny thing, she wouldn't accept anything I'd offer. I did offer to kick it when I got back and shyt, and she seemed down...

I couldn't really figure her out. We only chilled once before (a couple years ago), and we'd communicate on fb every once in a while. It was like she randomly offered the ride and shyt...then suddenly when I get back radio silence. It annoys me bc she seemed cool as shyt, but then again they always do until....

She may have been in limbo with another dude and wanted to set something up to make herself feel better or distract her til her situation improved. Every chick is guilty until proven innocent in my book, guilty of changing/leaving/switching up at a moments notice

Why "if you are a black dude"?

& my dude said you can't finesse these chicks to tutor them because they are too smart already focus on your studies man