InDePickWest
Im Not American
What's your advice? I just don't know what to say. I'm no smooth talker
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Bald Head Ba$tard
All Star
There's a huge difference between a WOMAN choosing and a MAN choosing.
InDePickWest
Im Not American
This is funny and witty. I'd say some shyt like...It just happens. i have no filter.for example. did you know that the voice actor of mickey mouse was married to the voice actor of minnie for 30 years?
Well it's cold outside. Time to go in doors.
Leaving everybody like
Professor Mac
Im African not black
Last night me and my girl and her brother went to go play laser tag.. and have a drink afterwards.. so I was dressed in shorts and a tee shirt...
After our scheduled two stops I was ready to go home but her brother drove to the Latin nightclub/bar without even asking me that I honestly didn't feel like being at (I'm done with the loud music drunk people spots. . I haven't been to a club in years on purpose)
So we go there have a drink and that start dancing.. me in just standing there in the dance floor like Birdman at the breakfast club.. (I really hate dancing. . And that's the main purpose of going to a Latin club so you can understand the conflict.) Anyways after like 10 minutes of this fukkery I go to a chair about 15 feet away and just let them do their things.. .
Long story short her brother told her I was acting rude and now she's all pissed off at me saying her I disrespected her her brother cause he was the one taking us out driving us around etc..
Was I in the wrong y'all or are they tripping?
After our scheduled two stops I was ready to go home but her brother drove to the Latin nightclub/bar without even asking me that I honestly didn't feel like being at (I'm done with the loud music drunk people spots. . I haven't been to a club in years on purpose)
So we go there have a drink and that start dancing.. me in just standing there in the dance floor like Birdman at the breakfast club.. (I really hate dancing. . And that's the main purpose of going to a Latin club so you can understand the conflict.) Anyways after like 10 minutes of this fukkery I go to a chair about 15 feet away and just let them do their things.. .
Long story short her brother told her I was acting rude and now she's all pissed off at me saying her I disrespected her her brother cause he was the one taking us out driving us around etc..
Was I in the wrong y'all or are they tripping?
Don't get caught up in any nonsense, breh. It doesn't sound like you did anything wrong to me.
I say don't apologize, and don't try to defend yourself. I would just tell your girl that you weren't feeling the club and you were trying to take it easy. If she makes it a big deal then cut the conversation off and go do something productive.
I've learned that one of the worst things you can do is waste time explaining/defending yourself unless you made a huge, offensive mistake (and even then, your apology should be short: lengthy explanations are reserved for fukk ups at work).
They will get over it.
Nope not in the wrong at all, how well do you know her brother? Anyone who knows me knows I don't like to dance, I will go listen to music at a lounge but there better not be an expectation that I'm going to dance
havoc
Superstar
I made plans to step out with a lady and unfortunately, I called her twice and she ignored me. 
Then, what made matter worst, I lost a hundred bucks this morning that I made last night after repairing a customer's computer. 
I can deal with the fact that I got stood up by the chick. I'm upset but I'll get over it. Losing a hundred dollar hurt harder than a bee sting. 
Then, what made matter worst, I lost a hundred bucks this morning that I made last night after repairing a customer's computer. I can deal with the fact that I got stood up by the chick. I'm upset but I'll get over it. Losing a hundred dollar hurt harder than a bee sting. let some of these nikkas tell it you shouldn't have called her. you should have just gone to the place at a random time, waited for her and she would've magically appeared on timeI made plans to step out with a lady and unfortunately, I called her twice and she ignored me.
Youseenmywork
KING
Tears don't mean shyt to me at this point breh. Starting to treat this shyt like a business.
EA
A Pound & A Prayer
I've found that being around women casually is a lot more enjoyable now that that I'm not really focused on trying to get a number or anything like that. It's a strange confidence knowing that you're not trying approach because you're cool with everything you have going on for you...kinda gives you more "power" weirdly enough.
I feel 
today in regards to dating and women.
After my disappointing actions which led me to nothing the past few weeks, I don't even feel like doing anything.
today in regards to dating and women.After my disappointing actions which led me to nothing the past few weeks, I don't even feel like doing anything.