Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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EA said:
I've found that being around women casually is a lot more enjoyable now that that I'm not really focused on trying to get a number or anything like that. It's a strange confidence knowing that you're not trying approach because you're cool with everything you have going on for you...kinda gives you more "power" weirdly enough.
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LT the Phenom said:
You have to hold yourself to the same standard you hold your women.

If you want the ultra feminine perfect tens, you have to be an uber masculine force of nature. Simple.

In life, you'll find that we attract what we are.

The most attractive women on Earth are the ones who are the most feminine, most sexy, and most loyal, all qualities they master in order to conquor the best man they can find.

Women conquor men...men conquor worlds

If you want those top tier women, you have to make yourself into a top tier world beater.

Dominant in a sport or industry.

Ambitious beyond reason.

Confidence that legitmately inspires people you encounter daily to have faith in you.

A wicked smile and sculpted body would help also.

You really have to be on that level to get women that amazing. Your passion for life directly correlates with your woman's passion for you.

You don't encounter men of that caliber everyday, which is exactly why you should strive to become like them.

Why not?

You're here, reading this comment. Absorbing the knowledge. Why not start reaching for the upper echelon? Seeing how great of a man you actually can be? Getting out of your comfort zone and pushing yourself to recieve what you actually deserve?

Be a fukking freak man! Stop spending so much time watching TV or playing videogames.

Nia Long doesn't want the guy with the highest K/D in your Call of Duty clan.

She wants a man on top of the world...start climbing.
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LT the Phenom said:
It's not, "I'm not going hard because I don't have ambition."

It's, "I don't have ambition because I'm not going hard."

Reframed for women advice:

Don't think, "I haven't approached her because I'm not confident/not in my zone."

Think, "I'm not confident/not in my zone because I haven't approached."

Now you're in position to change your circumstances.
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Fatboi1 said:
I feel :ld: today in regards to dating and women.

After my disappointing actions which led me to nothing the past few weeks, I don't even feel like doing anything.
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I'm the same way...trying to get out of that shyt tho....my libido is in great pain right now....
 
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Cold approached for the first time during the day today. Been feeling the bar scene lately and that momentum carried over into today.

Saw some cute latina chick working a deep fried food stand at the nike outlet and she says "Hi" as I walk by. I make some small talk and tell her I'll come back later.

I come back and she says, "So what are you gonna order?"

I tell her "I'm actually not hungry, I just thought you were gorgeous and wanted to get your number."

You can tell this caught her off guard and she got visibily flustered. She says "No no no I can't" so I calmly ask why. Then she shows me her ring finger :snoop:

She looked young and I was assuming she was around 21-22 based off the type of job she was working, so the thought of her being married never crossed my mind. But with how attractive she was I don't blame someone for locking her down early. She then tells me she's so flattered and as I walk away she says, "You're beautiful too!" :pachaha:
 
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Ahhh....I think its gotten to the point that even the universe is like "Quit fukking around and shoot your shot, you indecisive fukk...."

Got a part time gig on the weekends...chick working there looks aight....looking good, seems cool....didn't say shyt right away....just simple hi's and byes....

Had a chance to actually strike some convo last night, declined again (she was actually talking to my coworker, but still no excuse)....

On the way home to drop off my coworker, I find out she's west Indy (Jamaican), and around my age. Got a kid but it's not like I'm looking to build a family or some shyt...So then I decided ill take my shot tonight...

Find out shes off tonight....so I won't be seeing her for at least a week...my face was like "oh word?:ehh:," but in my head I'm like:why::snoop::bryan: :beli:
This shyt happens all the time...All my gotdamn fault too...
 
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TheArchitect said:
Ahhh....I think its gotten to the point that even the universe is like "Quit fukking around and shoot your shot, you indecisive fukk...."

Got a part time gig on the weekends...chick working there looks aight....looking good, seems cool....didn't say shyt right away....just simple hi's and byes....

Had a chance to actually strike some convo last night, declined again (she was actually talking to my coworker, but still no excuse)....

On the way home to drop off my coworker, I find out she's west Indy (Jamaican), and around my age. Got a kid but it's not like I'm looking to build a family or some shyt...So then I decided ill take my shot tonight...

Find out shes off tonight....so I won't be seeing her for at least a week...my face was like "oh word?:ehh:," but in my head I'm like:why::snoop::bryan: :beli:
This shyt happens all the time...All my gotdamn fault too...
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Gotta go for it when the opportunity presents itself
 
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kevm3 said:
I'm going to say call her whenever you feel like it. If she's not picking up your call because she's with another man, then that's just a blatant signal to give her the boot. There are zero reasons to tip toe around these women and to strategize to get a small slice of their time.
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Yup if a women has a real interest in you she will make the time and she will move her rotation around for you point blank to see and spend time with u if not like u said cut her loose.
 
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kevm3 said:
I'm going to say call her whenever you feel like it. If she's not picking up your call because she's with another man, then that's just a blatant signal to give her the boot. There are zero reasons to tip toe around these women and to strategize to get a small slice of their time.
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Yup if a women has a real interest in you she will make the time and she will move her rotation around for you point blank to see and spend time with u if not like u said cut her loose
Mr210 said:
Exactly, if I decide I want to talk to a woman I'm going to call, if she doesn't answer I leave a VM, Im not going to play by such a superficial rule as an 8pm deadline. Yesterday I text a woman I'm seeing and she called me about an hour later, we talked for 2 1/2 hrs. I didn't realize we were on the phone that long
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Question did u make plans to get to together or nah?
 
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SlimOG said:
Yup if a women has a real interest in you she will make the time and she will move her rotation around for you point blank to see and spend time with u if not like u said cut her loose
Question did u make plans to get to together or nah?
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Of course we went out last night and then we got together earlier today
 
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Kal El said:
Cold approached for the first time during the day today. Been feeling the bar scene lately and that momentum carried over into today.

Saw some cute latina chick working a deep fried food stand at the nike outlet and she says "Hi" as I walk by. I make some small talk and tell her I'll come back later.

I come back and she says, "So what are you gonna order?"

I tell her "I'm actually not hungry, I just thought you were gorgeous and wanted to get your number."

You can tell this caught her off guard and she got visibily flustered. She says "No no no I can't" so I calmly ask why. Then she shows me her ring finger :snoop:

She looked young and I was assuming she was around 21-22 based off the type of job she was working, so the thought of her being married never crossed my mind. But with how attractive she was I don't blame someone for locking her down early. She then tells me she's so flattered and as I walk away she says, "You're beautiful too!" :pachaha:
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Well done. Keep at it
 
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