Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I feel :ld: today in regards to dating and women.

After my disappointing actions which led me to nothing the past few weeks, I don't even feel like doing anything.
I'm becoming a cynical. I don't expect anything good from dating. Yesterday experienced reminded me why I rarely go on dates. :upsetfavre:
 

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Was it going to be a first date? How long have you known her?
I known her for a while and we made plans to hangout at a amusement park. I wanted to do something different on the first date than do the usual going out to eat or chill at Starbucks.
 

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I known her for a while and we made plans to hangout at a amusement park. I wanted to do something different on the first date than do the usual going out to eat or chill at Starbucks.

Damn that sucks that she knew you and still did this. Usually first dates I do dinner but then follow it up by going to play poolafterwards
 

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I'm becoming a cynical. I don't expect anything good from dating. Yesterday experienced reminded me why I rarely go on dates. :upsetfavre:
Man it's the opposite with me. I felt :snoop: because I just realized that I missed out on three flings due to me being scared and acting dumb. You got dudes wishing they could even get a chick back to they crib and here I had it served to me on a silver platter and I still fukked up.

Like, breh, a chick comes to your house on her own volition, after simply instructing her merely a day after meeting her and I'm over here shook to even touch her and end up causing her to lose interest :snoop:. Like, a chick is not coming over, to your house in your room sitting on your bed JUST to watch a movie with you. :wow:
 

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Man it's the opposite with me. I felt :snoop: because I just realized that I missed out on three flings due to me being scared and acting dumb. You got dudes wishing they could even get a chick back to they crib and here I had it served to me on a silver platter and I still fukked up.

Like, breh, a chick comes to your house on her own volition, after simply instructing her merely a day after meeting her and I'm over here shook to even touch her and end up causing her to lose interest :snoop:. Like, a chick is not coming over, to your house in your room sitting on your bed JUST to watch a movie with you. :wow:
stop mopping over this sh1t and get up off the floor and conquer the next chick ur interested in. wtf man? man up.
if i were u, considering this girl appears to in my social circle, i'd just hit her up on some aggressive sh1t like

you: hey, i'm heading to this ice cream spot, meet me there i wanna see u.
her: *confused by this new you*
her: hmmm what time
you: *u work out a time that works for her*
you: when u see her, immediately compliment her on how she looks.
you: tease her a lil
you: spank her ass
her: gradually gets wet.
you: invite her back to ur place and handle business

u need to stop d1cking around man. wtf is this. u keep posting the same sh1t. yes, u know u fuccked up. now do something about it man!!!
 

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stop mopping over this sh1t and get up off the floor and conquer the next chick ur interested in. wtf man? man up.
if i were u, considering this girl appears to in my social circle, i'd just hit her up on some aggressive sh1t like

you: hey, i'm heading to this ice cream spot, meet me there i wanna see u.
her: *confused by this new you*
her: hmmm what time
you: *u work out a time that works for her*
you: when u see her, immediately compliment her on how she looks.
you: tease her a lil
you: spank her ass
her: gradually gets wet.
you: invite her back to ur place and handle business

u need to stop d1cking around man. wtf is this. u keep posting the same sh1t. yes, u know u fuccked up. now do something about it man!!!
Lol this chick is not the "Hey I'm heading to ____ come with me" type chick. Idk about you, but I'm not treating or going out to places with a chick that on first meeting came to the crib and nothing popped off. If we kissed or made up or w/e okay but nothing happened.


That shyt sounds lame imo to invite her out when she barely reaches back to me after the last couple of times. I could just picture her face like :aicmon: hearing me telling her to come somewhere.

The LAST time she came to my house she was in her cousin room with my cousin and she told me to come downstairs and there she was more open and stuff but nothing too serious popped off. She just took pictures and shyt on my phone, joked about who I'm texting, played in my hair and other shyt.

When I dropped her off that night she said she'll hit me up when she get out the shower, never did. That was a Tuesday. The last time I hit her up was Friday and she said her phone was off so she could only receive calls. She said this before I mentioned anything about texting her earlier.

I only called her because I seen her streaming on FB and I sent a text to her earlier that day and didn't get a response.

she said she was going to come to my house later to give something to her cousin and she'll hit me up on FB so I can call her when she get out the shower. She didn't text me on FB. I don't think she even came over that night.

Quite frankly, I feel like now i'm chasing the chick with these repeated calls/texts that seem to go one way. Breh, Friday I told her to come over earlier since she sounded like she was waiting on her cousin to get home and then come over. I told her "You not doing nothing at home right?? Come over". She said "I'm not going to be doing nothing over there either.." and then she said all she did when she came upstairs was watch a movie.

That's basically "Nikka I came over and all you did was watch the movie you didn't even make a move and now I"m turned off..."

I stress this is not a chick I holla'd at, but a chick that came to me first heavy. I just feel like she's in control of the situation by her lack of hitting me up. Plus this bytch owe me $40.

I feel like I caught a
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right now.
 
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stop mopping over this sh1t and get up off the floor and conquer the next chick ur interested in. wtf man? man up.
if i were u, considering this girl appears to in my social circle, i'd just hit her up on some aggressive sh1t like

you: hey, i'm heading to this ice cream spot, meet me there i wanna see u.
her: *confused by this new you*
her: hmmm what time
you: *u work out a time that works for her*
you: when u see her, immediately compliment her on how she looks.
you: tease her a lil
you: spank her ass
her: gradually gets wet.
you: invite her back to ur place and handle business

u need to stop d1cking around man. wtf is this. u keep posting the same sh1t. yes, u know u fuccked up. now do something about it man!!!


@TRUEST to the rescue ...lol:lolbron:
 

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Lol this chick is not the "Hey I'm heading to ____ come with me" type chick. Idk about you, but I'm not treating or going out to places with a chick that on first meeting came to the crib and nothing popped off. If we kissed or made up or w/e okay but nothing happened.


That shyt sounds lame imo to invite her out when she barely reaches back to me after the last couple of times. I could just picture her face like :aicmon: hearing me telling her to come somewhere.

The LAST time she came to my house she was in her cousin room with my cousin and she told me to come downstairs and there she was more open and stuff but nothing too serious popped off. She just took pictures and shyt on my phone, joked about who I'm texting, played in my hair and other shyt.

When I dropped her off that night she said she'll hit me up when she get out the shower, never did. That was a Tuesday. The last time I hit her up was Friday and she said her phone was off so she could only receive calls. She said this before I mentioned anything about texting her earlier.

I only called her because I seen her streaming on FB and I sent a text to her earlier that day and didn't get a response.

she said she was going to come to my house later to give something to her cousin and she'll hit me up on FB so I can call her when she get out the shower. She didn't text me on FB. I don't think she even came over that night.

Quite frankly, I feel like now i'm chasing the chick with these repeated calls/texts that seem to go one way. Breh, Friday I told her to come over earlier since she sounded like she was waiting on her cousin to get home and then come over. I told her "You not doing nothing at home right?? Come over". She said "I'm not going to be doing nothing over there either.." and then she said all she did when she came upstairs was watch a movie.

That's basically "Nikka I came over and all you did was watch the movie you didn't even make a move and now I"m turned off..."

I stress this is not a chick I holla'd at, but a chick that came to me first heavy. I just feel like she's in control of the situation by her lack of hitting me up. Plus this bytch owe me $40.

I feel like I caught a
giphy.gif
right now.


yes u caught an L but its an L it appears ur finding very difficult to let go off.

yes, if u want her this bad. she can be reattracted. but u goto be resolute in how u act around her.
 

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yes u caught an L but its an L it appears ur finding very difficult to let go off.

yes, if u want her this bad. she can be reattracted. but u goto be resolute in how u act around her.
Breh I'ma keep it 100 with you. I don't like hittin people up that seem like they not interested. I just feel :dwillhuh: because last time when I called her that friday she picked up the phone super fast but that don't mean nothing. I feel like one of those lames that be calling a chick while she with another dude.
 

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stop mopping over this sh1t and get up off the floor and conquer the next chick ur interested in. wtf man? man up.
if i were u, considering this girl appears to in my social circle, i'd just hit her up on some aggressive sh1t like

you: hey, i'm heading to this ice cream spot, meet me there i wanna see u.
her: *confused by this new you*
her: hmmm what time
you: *u work out a time that works for her*
you: when u see her, immediately compliment her on how she looks.
you: tease her a lil
you: spank her ass
her: gradually gets wet.
you: invite her back to ur place and handle business

u need to stop d1cking around man. wtf is this. u keep posting the same sh1t. yes, u know u fuccked up. now do something about it man!!!


Cosign this, you would think since he semi knows her he would just give it another, he has nothing to lose at this point
 
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