Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Breh I'ma keep it 100 with you. I don't like hittin people up that seem like they not interested. I just feel :dwillhuh: because last time when I called her that friday she picked up the phone super fast but that don't mean nothing. I feel like one of those lames that be calling a chick while she with another dude.
I say skip all the texting/calling (chasing)

She gonna be at her cousins house soon enough, get your approach right and try again. Do it in person and remember you're running the show this time

You see her at the crib, on your way out mention you're getting some grub, tell her to come on. If she dont go, get your grub and come back with it. If she wants some then, its 'ok come on' and head upstairs. if she follows u up you're good.


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I say skip all the texting/calling (chasing)

She gonna be at her cousins house soon enough, get your approach right and try again. Do it in person and remember you're running the show this time

You see her at the crib, on your way out mention you're getting some grub, tell her to come on. If she dont go, get your grub and come back with it. If she wants some then, its 'ok come on' and head upstairs. if she follows u up you're good.


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i agree. but if he's too shy to make a move when its her and him in a room by themselves, i dont think he has the testicular fortitude to be that bold when she's around other people, even though they're his cousins/family. but i have to say, ur approach is a lot better than mine.
 

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I say skip all the texting/calling (chasing)

She gonna be at her cousins house soon enough, get your approach right and try again. Do it in person and remember you're running the show this time

You see her at the crib, on your way out mention you're getting some grub, tell her to come on. If she dont go, get your grub and come back with it. If she wants some then, its 'ok come on' and head upstairs. if she follows u up you're good.


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tuesday night I kind of did that. I had to go out to get some food for my cousin and I told her to come with me. She came and then when we got back she went straight downstairs and then got ready to go home.
 

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Man it's the opposite with me. I felt :snoop: because I just realized that I missed out on three flings due to me being scared and acting dumb. You got dudes wishing they could even get a chick back to they crib and here I had it served to me on a silver platter and I still fukked up.

Like, breh, a chick comes to your house on her own volition, after simply instructing her merely a day after meeting her and I'm over here shook to even touch her and end up causing her to lose interest :snoop:. Like, a chick is not coming over, to your house in your room sitting on your bed JUST to watch a movie with you. :wow:
At least you had p*ssy on a platter :yeshrug:Next time make sure you are responsive.
 

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i agree. but if he's too shy to make a move when its her and him in a room by themselves, i dont think he has the testicular fortitude to be that bold when she's around other people, even though they're his cousins/family. but i have to say, ur approach is a lot better than mine.
I'm not afraid to tell her to do something. That night I told her to come outside with me to go get something for my other cousin. I just sort of froze up the first night because her being so quiet and me being all in my head made me not do nothing. I'm quite sure had I did something it'd be different.
 

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I'm not afraid to tell her to do something. That night I told her to come outside with me to go get something for my other cousin. I just sort of froze up the first night because her being so quiet and me being all in my head made me not do nothing. I'm quite sure had I did something it'd be different.


How old are you? There comes a certain point in your life that you have to say "fuk it" and make a move on a chik and see how it plays out. Good or bad result, at least there's no regret. Just don't be too aggressive. Te more you ponder things or wait "for the right time", the easier it is for someone to come in the picture.
 

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How old are you? There comes a certain point in your life that you have to say "fuk it" and make a move on a chik and see how it plays out. Good or bad result, at least there's no regret. Just don't be too aggressive. Te more you ponder things or wait "for the right time", the easier it is for someone to come in the picture.


Yep, in saying that I gotta make a phone call to set something up, check y'all in a few
 

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How old are you? There comes a certain point in your life that you have to say "fuk it" and make a move on a chik and see how it plays out. Good or bad result, at least there's no regret. Just don't be too aggressive. Te more you ponder things or wait "for the right time", the easier it is for someone to come in the picture.
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waiting for the right time has been me for the longest. I've had even easier situations where I didn't make a move.

I'm talking literally this except she was play poking me.
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and nothing happened. :snoop:
 

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tuesday night I kind of did that. I had to go out to get some food for my cousin and I told her to come with me. She came and then when we got back she went straight downstairs and then got ready to go home.
Ok so its not the bait, its the reeling her in you have issues with?
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waiting for the right time has been me for the longest. I've had even easier situations where I didn't make a move.

I'm talking literally this except she was play poking me.
and nothing happened. :snoop:
breh. No @The Taxman, but you lacking confidence in your dikk?
 

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Ok so its not the bait, its the reeling her in you have issues with?

breh. No @The Taxman, but you lacking confidence in your dikk?
No. I just be on some scary shyt. I guess you can chalk it up to fear of rejection which is why I hardly ever approach or make moves unless everything working out a ok. I had a chick I didn't talk to a while ago because I just felt scared to say something even though I sensed she was checkin me out somehow. I also was nervous because she was the sister of a girl I used to talk to a long time ago.
:what:...... Yeah man, move on. You mighta blew ya chance with that.
Nah this not the chick that happened with. This one came over a couple days after she hit me up getting my info from my cousin. She came over and all I did was watch a movie. Didn't make a move
 
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