Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Youseenmywork]

as you should have. i dont care what anyone says, its very important to keep on top of that phone. if u have to constantly go through it, then its better to just dump the chick. if ur chick is hot, and by hot i mean, she has the physical attributes most men like "thick, nice butt, and maybe nice t*ts", u can bet she's got a ton of dudes on her.

the sooner u find out ur girl is not loyal, the quicker u can cash out on ur investment and quit wasting any more time, money or emotions on her. u dont wanna find this sh1t out when you're years deep.

Im not going threw a girls phone . I'm so demented on the inside from all the years of wear and tear if a chick is cheating on me I'm happy. I say that cause now I can go out and find some new vagina ..lol. This shyt is a business to me now. There is no emotion I don't care about tears unless I'm truly wrong. I've truly come to the realization that there is no love in this game. It just a rat race.

 

[Black Atticus]

I saw her today and she called me 'boo'.

It's the little things that keep me going

hahahaha

 

[Youseenmywork]

By the way if a WOMEN dosent wanna take your last name ...dont marry her, as petty as that sound I just don't think it fair a women gets a 20,000 dollar ring but want take your last name. #bushes#

 

[Black Atticus]

aight pimpin' 101.
the friend zone is for a chump whose afraid of being close to a woman he dying to have sex with. i know nikkas who won't even be friends with a woman if she ain't into him sexually, which is their loss, because for 1) having fine / sexy / funny / awesome women in your life is a win. period. 2) having mainly dudes be the only ones you hang out with, is loss. 3) women are jealous creatures....how many times you seen or heard of chicks fighting over a dude, when he ain't even around!? -- same applies for women who don't even know you. they see you walking around and chumming it up with a chick they think is fine (cause yes, women rank beauty to their own 24/7), they will start to wonder about you, and curiosity is a great magnet my friend -- especially when they see you're comfortable in your skin around a chick that's got them feeling a little unsure about what they chose to wear today. and 4) let's say you don't get this one chick you're now friends with in bed CHANCES are, she either makes you nervous at first, or your desire for her is getting the best of you, and your dikk won't let you think straight. you NEED practice learning how to maintain your cool around hot women. BEING FRIENDS with a few will get you there fast. You don't sit around sweating over what you can't have like a bytch-ass five year old, and you get on some grown shyt.

((side note: being her friend is not the same as being her slave puppy-dude-she keeps around cause she knows he wanna fukk her; at that point, you ARE playing yourself))

i guarantee if you learn what she likes and you get her to the point where you're one of the first people she calls when she's in a jam or just wants a guys perspective -- by the time you meet the next 5 to 10 women, that are just as fine as her or finer; you'll have them chicks wrapped around your finger in the first conversation -- I'm speaking from personal experience. I have women CONSTANTLY saying "i..i can't believe i'm telling you all this!" in the first 15 minutes alone. a woman feeling THAT comfortable with you, will certainly feel more comfortable in other areas as well...but you're approach HAS to be genuine; and genuine can't come around, if you still off balance around women you feel are "out of your league".

 

[Atlrocafella]

@Reinscarf went through my mains phone , now I gotta drop this bish.

so my main was in the shower and she left her phone on the bed by me unlocked. I decide to see what's going on, I see her ex's name with heart and broken heart emojis next to his name in the message. I read a few of the messages and I see that he would send her I miss you text messages, and she would send "I was thinking about you today" text messages. I also see that she got up with him for a movie a couple of Friday's ago.


She gets out the shower and I put everything away. We watching tv and something about relationships come up on a show and I casually steer the conversation about my ex and how she was crazy and shyt. She says her ex was crazy too, I then ask if he still hit her up and she tells me no. I than ask her when's the last time she seen him, and she said sometime LAST YEAR, and that she doesn't even think about him at all... I smashed one last time this morning and put her on ignore.

No need to confront her about what I read and all that shyt so she can hit me with more lies.

 

[Youseenmywork]

aight pimpin' 101.
the friend zone is for a chump whose afraid of being close to a woman he dying to have sex with. i know nikkas who won't even be friends with a woman if she ain't into him sexually, which is their loss, because for 1) having fine / sexy / funny / awesome women in your life is a win. period. 2) having mainly dudes be the only ones you hang out with, is loss. 3) women are jealous creatures....how many times you seen or heard of chicks fighting over a dude, when he ain't even around!? -- same applies for women who don't even know you. they see you walking around and chumming it up with a chick they think is fine (cause yes, women rank beauty to their own 24/7), they will start to wonder about you, and curiosity is a great magnet my friend -- especially when they see you're comfortable in your skin around a chick that's got them feeling a little unsure about what they chose to wear today. and 4) let's say you don't get this one chick you're now friends with in bed CHANCES are, she either makes you nervous at first, or your desire for her is getting the best of you, and your dikk won't let you think straight. you NEED practice learning how to maintain your cool around hot women. BEING FRIENDS with a few will get you there fast. You don't sit around sweating over what you can't have like a bytch-ass five year old, and you get on some grown shyt.

((side note: being her friend is not the same as being her slave puppy-dude-she keeps around cause she knows he wanna fukk her; at that point, you ARE playing yourself))

i guarantee if you learn what she likes and you get her to the point where you're one of the first people she calls when she's in a jam or just wants a guys perspective -- by the time you meet the next 5 to 10 women, that are just as fine as her or finer; you'll have them chicks wrapped around your finger in the first conversation -- I'm speaking from personal experience. I have women CONSTANTLY saying "i..i can't believe i'm telling you all this!" in the first 15 minutes alone. a woman feeling THAT comfortable with you, will certainly feel more comfortable in other areas as well...but you're approach HAS to be genuine; and genuine can't come around, if you still off balance around women you feel are "out of your league".

I've always been an advocate for pimpin women without putting them on the corner .

 

[Youseenmywork]

aight pimpin' 101.
the friend zone is for a chump whose afraid of being close to a woman he dying to have sex with. i know nikkas who won't even be friends with a woman if she ain't into him sexually, which is their loss, because for 1) having fine / sexy / funny / awesome women in your life is a win. period. 2) having mainly dudes be the only ones you hang out with, is loss. 3) women are jealous creatures....how many times you seen or heard of chicks fighting over a dude, when he ain't even around!? -- same applies for women who don't even know you. they see you walking around and chumming it up with a chick they think is fine (cause yes, women rank beauty to their own 24/7), they will start to wonder about you, and curiosity is a great magnet my friend -- especially when they see you're comfortable in your skin around a chick that's got them feeling a little unsure about what they chose to wear today. and 4) let's say you don't get this one chick you're now friends with in bed CHANCES are, she either makes you nervous at first, or your desire for her is getting the best of you, and your dikk won't let you think straight. you NEED practice learning how to maintain your cool around hot women. BEING FRIENDS with a few will get you there fast. You don't sit around sweating over what you can't have like a bytch-ass five year old, and you get on some grown shyt.

((side note: being her friend is not the same as being her slave puppy-dude-she keeps around cause she knows he wanna fukk her; at that point, you ARE playing yourself))

i guarantee if you learn what she likes and you get her to the point where you're one of the first people she calls when she's in a jam or just wants a guys perspective -- by the time you meet the next 5 to 10 women, that are just as fine as her or finer; you'll have them chicks wrapped around your finger in the first conversation -- I'm speaking from personal experience. I have women CONSTANTLY saying "i..i can't believe i'm telling you all this!" in the first 15 minutes alone. a woman feeling THAT comfortable with you, will certainly feel more comfortable in other areas as well...but you're approach HAS to be genuine; and genuine can't come around, if you still off balance around women you feel are "out of your league".

...and this the reason I dont have female friends. All that work just get women jealous and for other women to like you. I can say I like your train of thought and how you arrived at your point. I just don't think men should be doing the typical shyt women do. Men are better than women period.

This why I say if a man is hitting on on cylinders in other areas of life not naming women.. I beleive that gives him the confidence to approach women and to deal with them. When I get back into the game I'm going to utilize plate theory with these women. This isn't so a guy can fukk a lot of women . It builds confidence and it gets rid of this one ities thought process.

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[Youseenmywork]

When it comes to american women you gotta hedge your bets...
You better act like you got a sidepiece or go get 1...
You watch and evolve with the times and adjust accordingly if you want to play the game..
A man who practices Monogamy to the modern day woman is looked at as weak...
If you with a broad and another female look at you,acknowledge her with no regards or cares in the world...you gotta always let your chick no she can be replaced...

Forget 50 years ago
Forget 20 years ago

You play the game in these times, you either adjust,be frustrated,or dont play at all..

Underrated post. This guy @360dagod

I'll say it again it about survival. Nobody is going to protect you out here. To top it off it men who act more like females that is also making the game bad. Another way to hedge your bets is to get better at everything not naming a women. Find a hobbies that you can get good and at and one day monetize it. I know I've beat that hourse enought but I really mean it.

 

[Rich Spirit]

so my main was in the shower and she left her phone on the bed by me unlocked. I decide to see what's going on, I see her ex's name with heart and broken heart emojis next to his name in the message. I read a few of the messages and I see that he would send her I miss you text messages, and she would send "I was thinking about you today" text messages. I also see that she got up with him for a movie a couple of Friday's ago.


She gets out the shower and I put everything away. We watching tv and something about relationships come up on a show and I casually steer the conversation about my ex and how she was crazy and shyt. She says her ex was crazy too, I then ask if he still hit her up and she tells me no. I than ask her when's the last time she seen him, and she said sometime LAST YEAR, and that she doesn't even think about him at all... I smashed one last time this morning and put her on ignore.

No need to confront her about what I read and all that shyt so she can hit me with more lies.

The nerve of this chick

At least you got some closure

 

[Youseenmywork]

I've also come to the conclusion that NO women cares about how I feel.or my HAPPINESS..and that okay. Yes that includes my own mother.

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[TRUEST]

so my main was in the shower and she left her phone on the bed by me unlocked. I decide to see what's going on, I see her ex's name with heart and broken heart emojis next to his name in the message. I read a few of the messages and I see that he would send her I miss you text messages, and she would send "I was thinking about you today" text messages. I also see that she got up with him for a movie a couple of Friday's ago.


She gets out the shower and I put everything away. We watching tv and something about relationships come up on a show and I casually steer the conversation about my ex and how she was crazy and shyt. She says her ex was crazy too, I then ask if he still hit her up and she tells me no. I than ask her when's the last time she seen him, and she said sometime LAST YEAR, and that she doesn't even think about him at all... I smashed one last time this morning and put her on ignore.

No need to confront her about what I read and all that shyt so she can hit me with more lies.

u may be hurting right now but imagine for a second how much of a fool u would have been had u been like these other macho guys in here talking about "im not going through my woman's phone". u would have been singing her praises to ur friends and family, meanwhile, she's thinking of her ex and wishing she was with him.

 

[Ohene]

u may be hurting right now but imagine for a second how much of a fool u would have been had u been like these other macho guys in here talking about "im not going through my woman's phone". u would have been singing her praises to ur friends and family, meanwhile, she's thinking of her ex and wishing she was with him.

i havent even had that many girlfriends...only 2/3 in my life and never bothered...but going forward i might have to do them checks if i get a chance

 

[RealAssanova]

buried my grandma yesterday

A strong black woman who raised 13 kids, shout out to all the good black women ut there

damn rein. Condolences breh.