Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[TRUEST]

i havent even had that many girlfriends...only 2/3 in my life and never bothered...but going forward i might have to do them checks if i get a chance

u goto. as a man, u have way too many important areas of life to conquer. worrying about a woman's loyalty should never be a source of frustration or discomfort. or else, itll limit the amount of battles u can win. when u know u got a solid woman at home who is all about YOU, u can excel beyond ur wildest dreams in ANYTHING you put ur mind to. but u wont know the core of ur woman and how much she's down for you unless u perform these random checks on her, test her.

a woman who's down for u, if an ex contacts her, the conversation will go something like this:

her ex: hey sweety
her: hi
her ex: i miss u.
her: hey, sorry but i dont mean to be rude. i'm with a man who i love very much and care very deeply for. i would appreciate it if u never contact me again.

the women who have a slutty disposition, will be on some jovial sh1t, allowing the conversation to go on. if ur girl isn't as abrupt as what i pasted above, prepare urself for melancholy.

 

[TRUEST]

buried my grandma yesterday

A strong black woman who raised 13 kids, shout out to all the good black women ut there

condolences homie. hope you're doing alright, given the situation.

 

[LezJepzin]

I'm at rooftop bar in Vegas at the palms right now.

Turned 35 ten minutes ago and I've already been curved viciously and a drink nearly spilled on me


Not a good start

 

[Kal El]

When it comes to american women you gotta hedge your bets...
You better act like you got a sidepiece or go get 1...
You watch and evolve with the times and adjust accordingly if you want to play the game..
A man who practices Monogamy to the modern day woman is looked at as weak...
If you with a broad and another female look at you,acknowledge her with no regards or cares in the world...you gotta always let your chick no she can be replaced...

Forget 50 years ago
Forget 20 years ago

You play the game in these times, you either adjust,be frustrated,or dont play at all..

Real shyt.

I went out on a date with a old co-worker who ghosted me when I tried asking for a second date..... Fast forward to a few weeks later, and there's this new girl at work whose feeling me and word got around to her about it.......... And now the girl who ghosted me is intrigued again.

Women need to know that you're desired by other girls either in person or via social media. It's a stupid fukkin game, but most women are followers and need to see that other people like you before they make that leap.

 

[kevm3]

so my main was in the shower and she left her phone on the bed by me unlocked. I decide to see what's going on, I see her ex's name with heart and broken heart emojis next to his name in the message. I read a few of the messages and I see that he would send her I miss you text messages, and she would send "I was thinking about you today" text messages. I also see that she got up with him for a movie a couple of Friday's ago.


She gets out the shower and I put everything away. We watching tv and something about relationships come up on a show and I casually steer the conversation about my ex and how she was crazy and shyt. She says her ex was crazy too, I then ask if he still hit her up and she tells me no. I than ask her when's the last time she seen him, and she said sometime LAST YEAR, and that she doesn't even think about him at all... I smashed one last time this morning and put her on ignore.

No need to confront her about what I read and all that shyt so she can hit me with more lies.

Great thing you checked and found out now before it got serious. Women always say 'my ex is crazy', and yet somehow they are always still in contact with this so-called crazy man. The fact that she could lie right to your face like that and have no qualms about it is a massive red flag, and you did the appropriate thing in removing yourself from all dealings with her. After much of the things I've seen women do, I don't even really feel myself getting too attached to them anymore. I'm more like, it's nice that she's here, but if she leaves tomorrow, then I'll be fine.

Man this is why I say if you got that one rare gem, get out the game, because the standard for women is so unbelievably low these days and loyalty is extremely rare. Most women are simply blockbuster rentals. They are with you for a short time before you have to return them to the streets.

Your situation shows the utmost importance of why you don't listen to simps. They would have told you you were insecure for checking her phone and a bunch of other nonsense, but you were so secure in yourself that you weren't going to allow somebody to waste your time so you decided to check if they really are who they say they are and they are about what they say they are about. 9 times out of 10, it's cheaters that say things like 'trust me' and 'relationships are all about trust'. The say that right before or in the middle of them doing very disrespectful things. Relationships are not about trust. They are about respect and trustworthiness. Huge difference between trust and trustworthiness. If both parties are trustworthy, trust will naturally develop. However, when someone says 'trust me', they want your trust without verification and justification and likely because their patterns of behavior produce something other than trust.

I know it may hurt a little bit, but thank God you avoided a woman who could have literally wasted years of your life with her nonsense and lies. This is why I don't build my life around women. You simply never know where their mind is at. She is cool if she's here and doing the right thing, but I'm perfectly fine being single.

 

[kevm3]

Real shyt.

I went out on a date with a old co-worker who ghosted me when I tried asking for a second date..... Fast forward to a few weeks later, and there's this new girl at work whose feeling me and word got around to her about it.......... And now the girl who ghosted me is intrigued again.

Women need to know that you're desired by other girls either in person or via social media. It's a stupid fukkin game, but most women are followers and need to see that other people like you before they make that leap.

There are women who 'like you' and there are women who like the 'concept of you'. The latter, like your coworker, I'd avoid. She doesn't like you, she likes the position you are in. She likes the fact that you are popular with another woman and a catch to her, so it becomes a game in her mind to her if she can get your attention. As soon as your popularity wanes, she's gone and off to the next one. The woman that is about you likes you because of your personality, and even if other women didn't like you, she'd still be liking you. These women that like you because you're getting attention are fame junkies and I wouldn't waste a second of time on them.

 

[kevm3]

On another note, one of the worst things you can do is listen to women or simps because they are going to convince you to give women a pass on an area where you should be standing strong. If a woman you are dealing with is doing something funnystyle, don't listen to those simps or those women that tell you to ignore it or to let it slide. Either check her on it immediately or boot her from your life if you don't want to deal with her nonsense. Women can simply use up years of your life if you let them, and if you let them have an inch with one of their nonsensical tests, they will try to take a mile. They will always come in a relationship trying to do something disrespectful, so it's up to you to let her know you ain't going for it. NEVER be afraid to lose a woman, especially if she comes with something disrespectful. A woman giving you peace of mind and loyalty are some of the few things that really matter. If she can't give you that, time for her to go. Men really have to stop being rest havens for lying and scandalous broads. Women have to get the impression that if they come with disrespectful behavior, they are going to be dismissed... otherwise they are going to keep on doing it.

 

[havoc]

so my main was in the shower and she left her phone on the bed by me unlocked. I decide to see what's going on, I see her ex's name with heart and broken heart emojis next to his name in the message. I read a few of the messages and I see that he would send her I miss you text messages, and she would send "I was thinking about you today" text messages. I also see that she got up with him for a movie a couple of Friday's ago.


She gets out the shower and I put everything away. We watching tv and something about relationships come up on a show and I casually steer the conversation about my ex and how she was crazy and shyt. She says her ex was crazy too, I then ask if he still hit her up and she tells me no. I than ask her when's the last time she seen him, and she said sometime LAST YEAR, and that she doesn't even think about him at all... I smashed one last time this morning and put her on ignore.

No need to confront her about what I read and all that shyt so she can hit me with more lies.

Breh, if that's your MAIN, that means you have a roster of chicks, huh? Both you and your lady ain't loyal.

I've also come to the conclusion that NO women cares about how I feel.or my HAPPINESS..and that okay. Yes that includes my own mother.

 

[havoc]

On another note, one of the worst things you can do is listen to women or simps because they are going to convince you to give women a pass on an area where you should be standing strong. If a woman you are dealing with is doing something funnystyle, don't listen to those simps or those women that tell you to ignore it or to let it slide. Either check her on it immediately or boot her from your life if you don't want to deal with her nonsense. Women can simply use up years of your life if you let them, and if you let them have an inch with one of their nonsensical tests, they will try to take a mile. They will always come in a relationship trying to do something disrespectful, so it's up to you to let her know you ain't going for it. NEVER be afraid to lose a woman, especially if she comes with something disrespectful. A woman giving you peace of mind and loyalty are some of the few things that really matter. If she can't give you that, time for her to go. Men really have to stop being rest havens for lying and scandalous broads. Women have to get the impression that if they come with disrespectful behavior, they are going to be dismissed... otherwise they are going to keep on doing it.

The great Kevm3 has spoken.

 

[RichieRich]

Breh, if that's your MAIN, that means you have a roster of chicks, huh? Both you and your lady ain't loyal.

we overlooking that for some reason

 

[Atlrocafella]

Breh, if that's your MAIN, that means you have a roster of chicks, huh? Both you and your lady ain't loyal.

We were dating, we weren't exclusive yet, and I never lied to her about entertaining other women , I was getting rid of the others anyway to focus on the main since I started feeling her a lot more lately. Before i get really emotionally involved, I did my research and Since I caught her in the lie, there's no telling what other lie she would feed me with later down the line, so I'm out.

 

[Mr210]

We were dating, we weren't exclusive yet, and I never lied to her about entertaining other women , I was getting rid of the others anyway to focus on the main since I started feeling her a lot more lately. Before i get really emotionally involved, I did my research and Since I caught her in the lie, there's no telling what other lie she would feed me with later down the line, so I'm out.

How often was you talking to her and seeing her per week while just dating

 

[Atlrocafella]

How often was you talking to her and seeing her per week while just dating

Talked to her everyday, saw her about twice a week.

 

[Mr210]

Talked to her everyday, saw her about twice a week.

I might need your advice tomorrow I will let you know, so please be accessible

 

[Bless't]

so my main was in the shower and she left her phone on the bed by me unlocked. I decide to see what's going on, I see her ex's name with heart and broken heart emojis next to his name in the message. I read a few of the messages and I see that he would send her I miss you text messages, and she would send "I was thinking about you today" text messages. I also see that she got up with him for a movie a couple of Friday's ago.


She gets out the shower and I put everything away. We watching tv and something about relationships come up on a show and I casually steer the conversation about my ex and how she was crazy and shyt. She says her ex was crazy too, I then ask if he still hit her up and she tells me no. I than ask her when's the last time she seen him, and she said sometime LAST YEAR, and that she doesn't even think about him at all... I smashed one last time this morning and put her on ignore.

No need to confront her about what I read and all that shyt so she can hit me with more lies.

Well done. Give her no excuse/reason why/closure. Go "radio silence".