Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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We were dating, we weren't exclusive yet, and I never lied to her about entertaining other women :yeshrug:, I was getting rid of the others anyway to focus on the main since I started feeling her a lot more lately. Before i get really emotionally involved, I did my research and Since I caught her in the lie, there's no telling what other lie she would feed me with later down the line, so I'm out.
You're insecure, you should not be going through her phone. :troll:
 

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buried my grandma yesterday :to:

A strong black woman who raised 13 kids, shout out to all the good black women ut there

Sorry for ur lost breh :mjcry:

:snoop: so my main was in the shower and she left her phone on the bed by me unlocked. I decide to see what's going on, I see her ex's name with heart and broken heart emojis next to his name in the message. I read a few of the messages and I see that he would send her I miss you text messages, and she would send "I was thinking about you today" text messages. I also see that she got up with him for a movie a couple of Friday's ago.


She gets out the shower and I put everything away. We watching tv and something about relationships come up on a show and I casually steer the conversation about my ex and how she was crazy and shyt. She says her ex was crazy too, I then ask if he still hit her up and she tells me no. I than ask her when's the last time she seen him, and she said sometime LAST YEAR, and that she doesn't even think about him at all..:stopitslime:. I smashed one last time this morning and put her on ignore.

No need to confront her about what I read and all that shyt so she can hit me with more lies.

That's what I do
When I'm talking or dating a female I make it clear in my terms we ain't exclusive u do u I do me u have to earn that right to get the title to be my girlfriend until ur just a prospect nothing more
And if she starts that shyt why I'm talking to other females or sees me with one to start shyt I drop her quicker than a hooker on her knees

I ain't got time for that shyt I explore my options I suggest u do the same

U wanna be my girl prove ur damn worth too me that u better than them other girls and if you do I gladly be exclusive too u until then u got work to do

That way has helped so much in life that it made me learn more about women less headaches and all

Granted nothing is fool proof if u do settle with one eventually but at least ur playing the field like a baseball player or NBA player with so many people on ur team u get a variety

But I will say this as I had got older I did that less and kept it too 2 females at a time max 3

In the beginning I was deeper than the Spurs bench and winning chips more than the Bulls tho

Just some advice from someone who done a lot back in the day around the world
 
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