Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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kevm3 said:
Great thing you checked and found out now before it got serious. Women always say 'my ex is crazy', and yet somehow they are always still in contact with this so-called crazy man. The fact that she could lie right to your face like that and have no qualms about it is a massive red flag, and you did the appropriate thing in removing yourself from all dealings with her. After much of the things I've seen women do, I don't even really feel myself getting too attached to them anymore. I'm more like, it's nice that she's here, but if she leaves tomorrow, then I'll be fine.

Man this is why I say if you got that one rare gem, get out the game, because the standard for women is so unbelievably low these days and loyalty is extremely rare. Most women are simply blockbuster rentals. They are with you for a short time before you have to return them to the streets.

Your situation shows the utmost importance of why you don't listen to simps. They would have told you you were insecure for checking her phone and a bunch of other nonsense, but you were so secure in yourself that you weren't going to allow somebody to waste your time so you decided to check if they really are who they say they are and they are about what they say they are about. 9 times out of 10, it's cheaters that say things like 'trust me' and 'relationships are all about trust'. The say that right before or in the middle of them doing very disrespectful things. Relationships are not about trust. They are about respect and trustworthiness. Huge difference between trust and trustworthiness. If both parties are trustworthy, trust will naturally develop. However, when someone says 'trust me', they want your trust without verification and justification and likely because their patterns of behavior produce something other than trust.

I know it may hurt a little bit, but thank God you avoided a woman who could have literally wasted years of your life with her nonsense and lies. This is why I don't build my life around women. You simply never know where their mind is at. She is cool if she's here and doing the right thing, but I'm perfectly fine being single.
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Fam the same thing happened to me. Chick I was messing with was always talking about her crazy boyfriend and how abusive he was to her and all that shyt. But yet she kept entertaining his shyt and went to lunch with him. So I cut her off at gate and never turned back
 
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911 said:
9/10 times a broad asks you a question, shes fukking with you just to see what you say. if shes asking you dumb shyt just ignore that shyt or change the subject.
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I find that most of the times when a broad asks a question, it's going to be something really disrespectful like, "Can I go chill with my ex" or something along those lines. I personally say to knock her question out of the park and make it clear exactly where you stand and also send the message to her not to ask any more of those kinds of questions.

Most men will falter because they want to keep the woman around by any means necessary. Men need to realize that it is a privilege for women to be around them if you are doing what you are supposed to as a man, so any woman that feels free to ask disrespectful questions which will eventually transform into disrespectful behavior needs to be considered for dismissal. Never be afraid to answer one of a woman's disrespectful questions in a way that is utterly truthful. If it drives the woman off, that's a GREAT thing, because this woman has utterly selfish intentions. A lot of these women will retort with some nonsense about you being controlling, but the only kind of women that have those kind of replies are 'untamed' broads which need to be left out in the wild. In other words, they will make your life miserable because they will be constantly surrounding themselves with male attention while they are with you. A simple reply to the controlling accusation is, "No, I'm a man of respect. I will take control when necessary and I certainly won't be in a relationship with a woman who wants to disrespect me and can't abide by what a successful relationship is."

At the end of the day, men need to stop being afraid to lose these females. If she's not giving you respect, you have NOTHING.
 
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DaHNIC82 said:
Fam the same thing happened to me. Chick I was messing with was always talking about her crazy boyfriend and how abusive he was to her and all that shyt. But yet she kept entertaining his shyt and went to lunch with him. So I cut her off at gate and never turned back
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How a woman deals with an ex she doesn't care for or isn't dealing with is that she cuts him off period and doesn't bring him up. If a woman is steaming mad at an ex or is calling him crazy, he's still on her mind and they are probably still dealing with each other in a fashion that is beyond platonic. If a woman isn't indifferent to an ex and brings him up, she's one to really keep an eye on. Crazy is just a smokescreen for the fact that he still draws emotions out of her.
 
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kevm3 said:
How a woman deals with an ex she doesn't care for or isn't dealing with is that she cuts him off period and doesn't bring him up. If a woman is steaming mad at an ex or is calling him crazy, he's still on her mind and they are probably still dealing with each other in a fashion that is beyond platonic. If a woman isn't indifferent to an ex and brings him up, she's one to really keep an eye on. Crazy is just a smokescreen for the fact that he still draws emotions out of her.
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Yea I learned that the hard way with 2 different exgfs before, they were constantly talking about their exes. They talked about their jobs, their kids, where the lived. Their siblings what they bought the chicks I could go on and on
 
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twan83 said:
Sorry for ur lost breh :mjcry:



That's what I do
When I'm talking or dating a female I make it clear in my terms we ain't exclusive u do u I do me u have to earn that right to get the title to be my girlfriend until ur just a prospect nothing more
And if she starts that shyt why I'm talking to other females or sees me with one to start shyt I drop her quicker than a hooker on her knees

I ain't got time for that shyt I explore my options I suggest u do the same

U wanna be my girl prove ur damn worth too me that u better than them other girls and if you do I gladly be exclusive too u until then u got work to do

That way has helped so much in life that it made me learn more about women less headaches and all

Granted nothing is fool proof if u do settle with one eventually but at least ur playing the field like a baseball player or NBA player with so many people on ur team u get a variety

But I will say this as I had got older I did that less and kept it too 2 females at a time max 3

In the beginning I was deeper than the Spurs bench and winning chips more than the Bulls tho

Just some advice from someone who done a lot back in the day around the world
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So you just going to ignore me huh? We have known each other for like 6 yrs but even you can't be real, I swear I'm tired of the damn games
 
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Mr210 said:
Naw son far from it, just frustrated with these most recent events I'll be good soon, gotta study for my promotional gotta get back focused
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we all go through it man like homie said girls play games its what theyre reared to do. the problem is nobody reprimands them for it. nikkas let them get away with it
 
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