Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DaHNIC82]

Was at the mall the other day and I remember it being the time where cats use to spit that ism at the breezes at food courts or if you seen them at certain stores, You dared one of your homies to make the move. Today you don't hardly see none of that energy whatsoever. Everyone is in their own little dwarfed word through their smartphones, their gadgets, Iphones, or with their own cliques. I did see one cat try to make a move to this Latina chick and she just gave him what are you doing and why are you talking to me right now? face. I so feel for these young cats because they have to fight through bullshyt broads, technology, undercover dyking and miserable single women whom claim that they only need their careers, their knuckle headed son, or Jesus as their comfort.

 

[Lo-Co]

I just have a lot of shyt I need to fix. This awkward feeling will fade.

 

[Ohene]

Everyone is in their own little dwarfed word through their smartphones, their gadgets, Iphones, or with their own cliques. I did see one cat try to make a move to this Latina chick and she just gave him what are you doing and why are you talking to me right now? face. I so feel for these young cats because they have to fight through bullshyt broads, technology, undercover dyking and miserable single women whom claim that they only need their careers, their knuckle headed son, or Jesus as their comfort.

Its tough man

low key ...eve more than the smartphones, headphones and all that shyt the bolded might be the part that makes it the hardest. Not that that's literally how they feel but feminism in general has devalued men in the eyes of women. That's what makes them so flaky and able to partake in the blatant disrespect...disregard for the feelings of the man whose time their wasting.

In their mind you're not even worth a heads up or an honest, "sorry but i'm not interested." And theres really nothing you can do about it. In here we have people who talk about getting dissed after 2 hr phone convos, dissed after doing something romantic for a first date etc. The fact of the matter though is that even if that 2 hour phone convo is cut to 15 minutes and same direct, straight to the point texts, even if that romantic date was traded for drinks or walk in the park the girl still probably would have dissed or flaked on you. Theres nothing you can do. It's honestly a crapshoot...be yourself, shoot your shots if you have the confidence and hope for the best.

I aint even tryna complain...just stating facts

 

[Ohene]

People will say you shouldn't have double texted her ... but if you didn't she probably wouldn't have ever texted you again anyways

People will say you shouldn't have messaged her the day off to confirm a date because it makes you look as if you're used to being stood up...but if you don't she wont message you and will use your not messaging her as an excuse to flake

People will say work on yourself ... but then you'll see a nikka who presumably aint got shyt going for him wit a girlfriend or multiple

People will say don't come on too strong and look desperate ...but if you wait more than 2-3 dates to try and smash you're bound to take an L

People will say lookout for signs that she's choosing...and then youll mistake a girl looking through/past you for looking at you

Just be yourself brehs. live life

 

[Mr210]

Its tough man

low key ...eve more than the smartphones, headphones and all that shyt the bolded might be the part that makes it the hardest. Not that that's literally how they feel but feminism in general has devalued men in the eyes of women. That's what makes them so flaky and able to partake in the blatant disrespect...disregard for the feelings of the man whose time their wasting.

In their mind you're not even worth a heads up or an honest, "sorry but i'm not interested." And theres really nothing you can do about it. In here we have people who talk about getting dissed after 2 hr phone convos, dissed after doing something romantic for a first date etc. The fact of the matter though is that even if that 2 hour phone convo is cut to 15 minutes and same direct, straight to the point texts, even if that romantic date was traded for drinks or walk in the park the girl still probably would have dissed or flaked on you. Theres nothing you can do. It's honestly a crapshoot...be yourself, shoot your shots if you have the confidence and hope for the best.

Exactly, I couldn't have said it better.

 

[RealAssanova]

sad its gotten to this point but nikkas these days are disposable. Women outchea treatin nikkas like tissue. Use em for whatever they need then throw em in the trash.

long gone are the days where a woman will hold you down, ride with you, love you and treat you like a king.

 

[Ohene]

one thing i noticed is that men will often blame one another for the things that women do...even if they didnt do anything to warrant a woman's behavior

a girl could approach you, ask for your number, text you, yall can set up a date and when she flakes the men around you will find an error in something that YOU did and come up with something even if its the tiniest shyt. I think thats why some overanalyze everything; we're always taught that its our fault. Unless something explicitly stupid was done we need to tell one another more often to just charge it to the game; that theres nothing we did wrong but the girl in question is an acting up.

 

[Mr210]

one thing i noticed is that men will often blame one another for the things that women do...even if they didnt do anything to warrant a woman's behavior

a girl could approach you, ask for your number, text you, yall can set up a date and when she flakes the men around you will find an error in something that YOU did and come up with something even if its the tiniest shyt. I think thats why some overanalyze everything; we're always taught that its our fault. Unless something explicitly stupid was done we need to tell one another more often to just charge it to the game; that theres nothing we did wrong but the girl in question is an acting up.

Very true everyone on here stated the reason that girl flaked on me last week was because I talked to her for too long on the phone. If something like that is enough for her to disappear then she really wasn't feeling me from there start. I will tell you after taking a break from dating for a year since jumping back in a couple weeks ago things aren't going how I would like

 

[Ohene]

Very true everyone on here stated the reason that girl flaked on me last week was because I talked to her for too long on the phone. If something like that is enough for her to disappear then she really wasn't feeling me from there start. I will tell you after taking a break from dating for a year since jumping back in a couple weeks ago things aren't going how I would like

Pretty much...do i advocate for the 2 hour long convo? No...but whether or not you were on the phone for too long is neither here nor there. If everybody had that stupid female logic then how would anybody get to know one another? Conventional wisdom would say that if you and a girl could actually find some shyt to talk about for 2 hours then yall must really click and going out on a date, face to face is the next logical step. At least thats how shyt transpired not even 4,5 years ago when I was in school. But shyt done changed i guess...you'd think a nikka 40 years old the way I'm talking right now

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

Don't listen to the words of any bitter woman.

They spend their time on social media, crying about fukk nikka that impregnated them/Did them wrong.

Starting online arguments with other nikkaz and women over some post. Screen-shotting arguments to make it seem like they've won the argument.

That shyt just doesn't turn a nikka on, mane. They talk about wanting some real nikka, but look at their tastes in TV and music. Mf's care about the latest episode of Love & HipHop, Rihanna & Beyonce and be trying to live thru those people. That shyt is a disease, mane.

 

[RichieRich]

Pretty much...do i advocate for the 2 hour long convo? No...but whether or not you were on the phone for too long is neither here nor there. If everybody had that stupid female logic then how would anybody get to know one another? Conventional wisdom would say that if you and a girl could actually find some shyt to talk about for 2 hours then yall must really click and going out on a date, face to face is the next logical step. At least thats how shyt transpired not even 4,5 years ago when I was in school. But shyt done changed i guess...you'd think a nikka 40 years old the way I'm talking right now

Feeling this post.


Sidenote: u the same asante from the cbox days?

 

[TRUEST]

see, i noticed a lot of guys in here feel women owe them something. the reality, they dont owe u sh1t, and u dont owe them sh1t either. if the woman is really feeling u, she'll naturally offer herself up to u without u asking.i..e. offering to do ur laundry, cooking, bringing u food at work, very protective of u.

the problem is, most guys are quick to dote on women they like even if the woman hasnt done anything to prove her worthiness. subliminally, we treat women the way we treat our moms. we shower them with affection, love and care. because we're only satisfying our innate need to be loved and to love..

but to succeed with women, u need to constantly check urself. its ok to dote on ur woman, but before u do, it is absolutely necessary, as a man in this day in age, that she first shows her devotion to you. a woman who yearns to please you is far less likely to be engaging in out of pocket, habitual line stepping behavior.

 

[Ohene]

Feeling this post.


Sidenote: u the same asante from the cbox days?

hmmm,....whats cbox? i was on sohh though

 

[CASHAPP]

This last page has been straight fire...keep them coming guys

In case you guys didn't hear there was an update. This was from 3 days ago...



We have all sen the other video but this is a clip of what her mother filmed....

amirirnMy baby @arithedash had a blast last night at the Jamaica house...@usainbolt was not ready party like a rock star️️#usainbolt #rio2016#partypeople #turnup #legend #G.O.A.T#allinfun


^^^^Now all of you for a second who just posted that fire in your posts this past page before think about this for a second. We all know what she did with her boyfriend back home. We seen it played over and over again. But her mother KNOWS she has a boyfriend. She is filming her daughter do what she did and LAUGHING... and saying "PARTY LIKE A ROCK STAR'.

Now alot of us in here have gotten our hearts broken or we have been played. Imagine how much worse it must have been if any of us had a double dose of that kind of disrespect and shame by the girl's OWN MOTHER. This is a new low that women in today's social climate have reached right now. Even mothers are enabling this loose type of behavior and mothers have become best friends of the women we all date, but not in a good way.

It reminds me of when Ross was dating the Lira chick, and when she announced the engagement a woman commented to her that Ross fukked her cousin, and Lira's own mother replied back how none of them care and they understand the game and she is just gonna get a wet ass and her daughter gets a ring. THAT men is the type of mentality we have to be prepared for when we are out in this world dealing with and interacting with these females.

 

[Mr210]

Yo do you have to have a Facebook page to make a tinder account, because I don't have facebook but was going to join tinder