Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Deafheaven]

Pretty much...do i advocate for the 2 hour long convo? No...but whether or not you were on the phone for too long is neither here nor there. If everybody had that stupid female logic then how would anybody get to know one another? Conventional wisdom would say that if you and a girl could actually find some shyt to talk about for 2 hours then yall must really click and going out on a date, face to face is the next logical step. At least thats how shyt transpired not even 4,5 years ago when I was in school. But shyt done changed i guess...you'd think a nikka 40 years old the way I'm talking right now

Yeah chicks are a trip nowadays. Its actually a detriment to be view as nice now. Not even the nice we talking about like a p*ssy ass nikka pushover, I'm talking about straight up being a decent man is shunned Its completely not my nature but I'm thinking of just listening to my best friend and treating these dumb ass broads how they want to be. like shyt.

see, i noticed a lot of guys in here feel women owe them something. the reality, they dont owe u sh1t, and u dont owe them sh1t either. if the woman is really feeling u, she'll naturally offer herself up to u without u asking.i..e. offering to do ur laundry, cooking, bringing u food at work, very protective of u.

the problem is, most guys are quick to dote on women they like even if the woman hasnt done anything to prove her worthiness. subliminally, we treat women the way we treat our moms. we shower them with affection, love and care. because we're only satisfying our innate need to be loved and to love..

but to succeed with women, u need to constantly check urself. its ok to dote on ur woman, but before u do, it is absolutely necessary, as a man in this day in age, that she first shows her devotion to you. a woman who yearns to please you is far less likely to be engaging in out of pocket, habitual line stepping behavior.

My pops beat my mom, disrespected my stepmoms and then left all his kids to start a new family in missouri. Needless to say I vowed to be the complete opposite of him. Its in my natural state to be that caring, considerate, nurture nikka. I aint a bytch because I'll knuckle up and take no disrespect but like I'll treat a chick better than any nikka she had previously (which isn't too hard most of the time) but what I'm learning now is like I don't even need or should do all that shyt. Most people are shyt and don't deserve that type of treatment. I loved my ex and did shyt just to do it, not for some type of reward. And you know in the end what this condescending bytch who suffers from depression so bad she can't even get out the bed sometimes said to me? Called me patron saint of nice guys for not being a piece of shyt. I was struggling admittedly with the breakup until that one line. You able to take all the selfless shyt I did for you over a year, all the considerate things, making sure you straight, random pick me ups...and call me patron saint of nice guys. Nah fukk her and all chicks who think like her. shyts a disease real talk this generation is fukked.

this delusional girl told me to stop seeking validation in a significant other and realize I'm complete by myself when she can't even leave the house for days at a time because shes so fukked in the head

our black queens

 

[Ohene]

This last page has been straight fire...keep them coming guys

In case you guys didn't hear there was an update. This was from 3 days ago...



We have all sen the other video but this is a clip of what her mother filmed....

amirirnMy baby @arithedash had a blast last night at the Jamaica house...@usainbolt was not ready party like a rock star️️#usainbolt #rio2016#partypeople #turnup #legend #G.O.A.T#allinfun


^^^^Now all of you for a second who just posted that fire in your posts this past page before think about this for a second. We all know what she did with her boyfriend back home. We seen it played over and over again. But her mother KNOWS she has a boyfriend. She is filming her daughter do what she did and LAUGHING... and saying "PARTY LIKE A ROCK STAR'.

Now alot of us in here have gotten our hearts broken or we have been played. Imagine how much worse it must have been if any of us had a double dose of that kind of disrespect and shame by the girl's OWN MOTHER. This is a new low that women in today's social climate have reached right now. Even mothers are enabling this loose type of behavior and mothers have become best friends of the women we all date, but not in a good way.

It reminds me of when Ross was dating the Lira chick, and when she announced the engagement a woman commented to her that Ross fukked her cousin, and Lira's own mother replied back how none of them care and they understand the game and she is just gonna get a wet ass and her daughter gets a ring. THAT men is the type of mentality we have to be prepared for when we are out in this world dealing with and interacting with these females.

It's crazy. Peep the first 12 photos of that instagram page though ...you'll see the mother, the son...but no father.

Go figure.

 

[MikelArteta]

one thing i noticed is that men will often blame one another for the things that women do...even if they didnt do anything to warrant a woman's behavior

a girl could approach you, ask for your number, text you, yall can set up a date and when she flakes the men around you will find an error in something that YOU did and come up with something even if its the tiniest shyt. I think thats why some overanalyze everything; we're always taught that its our fault. Unless something explicitly stupid was done we need to tell one another more often to just charge it to the game; that theres nothing we did wrong but the girl in question is an acting up.

exactly if a woman likes you, it doesn't matter what you do it won't effect your chances
if she doesn't like you the tiniest thing you do will end your chances

when you associate with women who like you and wnat you offer it becomes so easy.

 

[MikelArteta]

Was at the mall the other day and I remember it being the time where cats use to spit that ism at the breezes at food courts or if you seen them at certain stores, You dared one of your homies to make the move. Today you don't hardly see none of that energy whatsoever. Everyone is in their own little dwarfed word through their smartphones, their gadgets, Iphones, or with their own cliques. I did see one cat try to make a move to this Latina chick and she just gave him what are you doing and why are you talking to me right now? face. I so feel for these young cats because they have to fight through bullshyt broads, technology, undercover dyking and miserable single women whom claim that they only need their careers, their knuckle headed son, or Jesus as their comfort.

yeah those days are done, not only all that you mentioned but now with that "harassment" ish its even harder. And online is a sausage fest. I met my girl online but I was lucky because I know exactly how it is.

 

[MikelArteta]

I can hop on OKC, Tinder, soulswipe and see the same women on all 3 dating website. Are they that desperate to find someone? Are they not capable of finding someone outside of online dating?

dating sites are like those walmart bins of videogames, for the most part its trash but once in a while a gta, uncharted might be in there.

I met my fiance on okcupid, and when I met her she lived in another city going to school and if it wasn't for OKcupid we never would have ever met or crossed paths. But I also had alot of duds before

 

[Lo-Co]

called me patron saint of nice guys

i dont understand.

 

[Deafheaven]

i dont understand.

I told her shell be lucky to find a nikka willing to do the shyt I did for her uncondionally and have patience with her manic depressive bullshyt n thats what she called me. I was doing the shyt cuz I cared about her not on some slick Im being nice so fukk me shyt. So to equate my kindness to the stereotypical nice guy sthick pissed me the fukk off. Like how stuck up your own ass can you be?

 

[Lo-Co]

dating sites are like those walmart bins of videogames, for the most part its trash but once in a while a gta, uncharted might be in there.

I met my fiance on okcupid, and when I met her she lived in another city going to school and if it wasn't for OKcupid we never would have ever met or crossed paths. But I also had alot of duds before

i tried online dating, and had some success with it. but sheesh it took me a while to put a dent in that surface.

 

[Lo-Co]

I told her shell be lucky to find a nikka willing to do the shyt I did for her uncondionally and have patience with her manic depressive bullshyt n thats what she called me. I was doing the shyt cuz I cared about her not on some slick Im being nice so fukk me shyt. So to equate my kindness to the stereotypical nice guy sthick pissed me the fukk off. Like how stuck up your own ass can you be?

its fukked up getting your shyt thrown back at you.

i remember being told as i was being dumped, and i think i might have talked about this before, but hearing, "your not my problem" cut deep.

 

[Deafheaven]

i remember being told as i was being dumped, and i think i might have talked about this before, but hearing, "your not my problem" cut deep.

Honestly thats what I told her today. You aint my problem any more. But shes so stuck in her own world of foolishness and delusion that I doubt it did anything. shyt honestly mad me madder than if she said she ws fukking another nikka. I did all the shyt out of the goodness of my heart and you gon equate all that to being your runof the mill nice guy. Women like that will leads lives of perpetual unhappiness tl they dyking and realize that holy shyt this is what Ive been putting men through all this time

 

[Mr210]

dating sites are like those walmart bins of videogames, for the most part its trash but once in a while a gta, uncharted might be in there.

I met my fiance on okcupid, and when I met her she lived in another city going to school and if it wasn't for OKcupid we never would have ever met or crossed paths. But I also had alot of duds before

I've done online dating on and off for 6 yrs, 3 of the women I met turned into actual relationships. I also went on a couple first and second dates. I've only tried POF and and okcupid. I've had more successful with Po OF

 

[CASHAPP]

Was at the mall the other day and I remember it being the time where cats use to spit that ism at the breezes at food courts or if you seen them at certain stores, You dared one of your homies to make the move. Today you don't hardly see none of that energy whatsoever. Everyone is in their own little dwarfed word through their smartphones, their gadgets, Iphones, or with their own cliques. I did see one cat try to make a move to this Latina chick and she just gave him what are you doing and why are you talking to me right now? face. I so feel for these young cats because they have to fight through bullshyt broads, technology, undercover dyking and miserable single women whom claim that they only need their careers, their knuckle headed son, or Jesus as their comfort.

Bro lets not also just put this on women. We know alot of clowns be on that dumb shyt. Like when i mentioned the story on a previous page how these 3 guys came up to this thick broad laughing and being over the top hounding like hyenas while she had her daughter in her stroller and feeding her. Like what is that shyt?

I agree with your point though. I think chicks in general give you an easier time if you are alone and it doesnt look as if your being obvious with all your boys staring and she thinking you want her to be easy. Yeah maybe you can get her easy but i think alot of guys today are making girls feel that way.

 

[Lo-Co]

Honestly thats what I told her today. You aint my problem any more. But shes so stuck in her own world of foolishness and delusion that I doubt it did anything. shyt honestly mad me madder than if she said she ws fukking another nikka. I did all the shyt out of the goodness of my heart and you gon equate all that to being your runof the mill nice guy. Women like that will leads lives of perpetual unhappiness tl they dyking and realize that holy shyt this is what Ive been putting men through all this time

i still think about what my ex said as a motivator. it helped me get off my simping shyt. i was writing poetry and shyt. it was from the heart but i was wasting time putting energy into someone that didnt want what i was giving. id re do high school and transfer instead. all that shyt i endured wasnt worth it. the women that brought that stress werent worth it anyway.

 

[DJSmooth]

Yo do you have to have a Facebook page to make a tinder account, because I don't have facebook but was going to join tinder

Don't do it. It's easier pulling women at the bars and clubs. All you are going to do Tinder is add to the ongoing problem of gassing hoes up.

 

[Mr210]

Don't do it. It's easier pulling women at the bars and clubs. All you are going to do Tinder is add to the ongoing problem of gassing hoes up.

I don't do clubs and I only do sports bars and when I go I'm focused on the game, but yeah I agree I won't be doing tinder, I'm just going through a drought right now