Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Pretty much...do i advocate for the 2 hour long convo? No...but whether or not you were on the phone for too long is neither here nor there. If everybody had that stupid female logic then how would anybody get to know one another? Conventional wisdom would say that if you and a girl could actually find some shyt to talk about for 2 hours then yall must really click and going out on a date, face to face is the next logical step. At least thats how shyt transpired not even 4,5 years ago when I was in school. But shyt done changed i guess...you'd think a nikka 40 years old the way I'm talking right now :dead:

I know the brother that got set up, robbed and killed in FLA by a female he just met wish he would have had a 2 hour convo first :mjcry:
 

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Click the like button on a dating site instead of sending a message not knowing if I can even see the likes breh
 

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Fukkin girls are a trip man. Give them too much attention and you're seen as needy, don't hit them up enough and some other dude is sliding into her phone

Had 4 girls in the rotation one minute and now it's down to 2 in a matter of days...............

4 is a lot....unless they got kids and have their own issues to worry about:francis:
 

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Fukkin girls are a trip man. Give them too much attention and you're seen as needy, don't hit them up enough and some other dude is sliding into her phone

Had 4 girls in the rotation one minute and now it's down to 2 in a matter of days...............
thats how it goes b. never tkae the your foot off the pedal. until you make a girl your girlfriend keep approaching women
 
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Fukkin girls are a trip man. Give them too much attention and you're seen as needy, don't hit them up enough and some other dude is sliding into her phone

Had 4 girls in the rotation one minute and now it's down to 2 in a matter of days...............
It happen to me last week. I had 2 drop off in the matter of hours. I want to go out and start approaching again to build up the roster but I'm trying to study for this certification.
 

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Fukkin girls are a trip man. Give them too much attention and you're seen as needy, don't hit them up enough and some other dude is sliding into her phone

Had 4 girls in the rotation one minute and now it's down to 2 in a matter of days...............
I don't even think men hear themselves.
I think a lot automatically think they're better than women without giving second thought to their actions. No logic to be found.
 

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Yeah chicks are a trip nowadays. Its actually a detriment to be view as nice now. Not even the nice we talking about like a p*ssy ass nikka pushover, I'm talking about straight up being a decent man is shunned :pachaha: Its completely not my nature but I'm thinking of just listening to my best friend and treating these dumb ass broads how they want to be. like shyt.



My pops beat my mom, disrespected my stepmoms and then left all his kids to start a new family in missouri. Needless to say I vowed to be the complete opposite of him. Its in my natural state to be that caring, considerate, nurture nikka. I aint a bytch because I'll knuckle up and take no disrespect but like I'll treat a chick better than any nikka she had previously (which isn't too hard most of the time) but what I'm learning now is like I don't even need or should do all that shyt. Most people are shyt and don't deserve that type of treatment. I loved my ex and did shyt just to do it, not for some type of reward. And you know in the end what this condescending bytch who suffers from depression so bad she can't even get out the bed sometimes said to me? Called me patron saint of nice guys for not being a piece of shyt. I was struggling admittedly with the breakup until that one line. You able to take all the selfless shyt I did for you over a year, all the considerate things, making sure you straight, random pick me ups...and call me patron saint of nice guys. Nah fukk her and all chicks who think like her. shyts a disease real talk this generation is fukked.

this delusional girl told me to stop seeking validation in a significant other and realize I'm complete by myself when she can't even leave the house for days at a time because shes so fukked in the head :dead:

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From a young woman's perspective.. same thing with guys. That's just people in general. We by our greedy ain't-shyt nature take things for granted. There's a few exceptions, like you of course but most people only think about themselves and have to have something big happen that now they consider other people's feelings. For you, it was your upbringing. For some, it was a breakup where they were the fukk up and will never get another chance. For some people, that day will never happen.
 

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How can you tell the difference between a chick who's shy and a chick who's just uninterested?

asking for a friend :lupe:
 

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see, i noticed a lot of guys in here feel women owe them something. the reality, they dont owe u sh1t, and u dont owe them sh1t either. if the woman is really feeling u, she'll naturally offer herself up to u without u asking.i..e. offering to do ur laundry, cooking, bringing u food at work, very protective of u.

the problem is, most guys are quick to dote on women they like even if the woman hasnt done anything to prove her worthiness. subliminally, we treat women the way we treat our moms. we shower them with affection, love and care. because we're only satisfying our innate need to be loved and to love..

but to succeed with women, u need to constantly check urself. its ok to dote on ur woman, but before u do, it is absolutely necessary, as a man in this day in age, that she first shows her devotion to you. a woman who yearns to please you is far less likely to be engaging in out of pocket, habitual line stepping behavior.

Shut the fukk up with that punk bullshyt and go back to whatever bullshyt planet you come from
 

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I am starting to see why alot of guys have vouched for square chicks. Yes any chick especially in today's society is capable of being thot worthy or unloyal or whatever.

But if you look at it in the Draft aspect...is there a chance the number one pick is gonna be a complete bust? yes it has happened sometimes but whether its the #1 pick or #13 when compared to the trash after the 100th pick...you will always have a better chance of getting what your looking for,

i think guys say they are trying to find a good chick but will avoid "square chicks" or women like that because they are afraid of what will be said. i feel like alot of guys are not being honest.

because there are some loyal chicks out there who arent like what we are accustomed to but we look at them as boring.

which would make us no better than the other chicks used to so much attention who call certain guys boring cause they are too perfect
 
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