Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I think some of yall in here gotta find yourselves and your playbook when it comes to women..

You might be asking someone who runs a complete different scheme than you on how to get women from your perspective..

We dont know each other so we can go only off what we do...

If your cerebral on some tom brady dink-n-donk shyt,asking someone who runs and guns down the field might not be your best bet...
 

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I think some of yall in here gotta find yourselves and your playbook when it comes to women..

You might be asking someone who runs a complete different scheme than you on how to get women from your perspective..

We dont know each other so we can go only off what we do...

If your cerebral on some tom brady dink-n-donk shyt,asking someone who runs and guns down the field might not be your best bet...

Subliminal at Black Reign :mjpls:
 

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How can you tell the difference between a chick who's shy and a chick who's just uninterested?

asking for a friend :lupe:
At some point she should be going out of her way to initiate conversation with you. If not and you're doing all of the initiating....might be time to bush it.
 

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I am starting to see why alot of guys have vouched for square chicks. Yes any chick especially in today's society is capable of being thot worthy or unloyal or whatever.

But if you look at it in the Draft aspect...is there a chance the number one pick is gonna be a complete bust? yes it has happened sometimes but whether its the #1 pick or #13 when compared to the trash after the 100th pick...you will always have a better chance of getting what your looking for,

i think guys say they are trying to find a good chick but will avoid "square chicks" or women like that because they are afraid of what will be said. i feel like alot of guys are not being honest.

because there are some loyal chicks out there who arent like what we are accustomed to but we look at them as boring.

which would make us no better than the other chicks used to so much attention who call certain guys boring cause they are too perfect

I'm assuming by 'square', you are referring to a somewhat nerdy, introverted woman, and the reason a lot of guys go for them is because they are much better candidates to deal with than the woman who is always in the club. There's a reason for statements like, 'You can't turn a ho into a housewife', and these were statements that were passed down from our parents, so obviously this wisdom endured. Once women have had a taste of the wild life, it is hard for them to give it up and it's hard for them to stick with one man. There's no guarantee the 'introverted, square' woman will be loyal, but your chances may be higher.
 

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I'm assuming by 'square', you are referring to a somewhat nerdy, introverted woman, and the reason a lot of guys go for them is because they are much better candidates to deal with than the woman who is always in the club. There's a reason for statements like, 'You can't turn a ho into a housewife', and these were statements that were passed down from our parents, so obviously this wisdom endured. Once women have had a taste of the wild life, it is hard for them to give it up and it's hard for them to stick with one man. There's no guarantee the 'introverted, square' woman will be loyal, but your chances may be higher.

Yep that is exactly who i'm talking about. Guys try to front all the time but there are alot of these chicks but they think they are boring or feel they wont give them good sex so they dont talk to them. And i'm not even talking about if a chick is unattractive, plenty of them look cute still.

We should stop sleeping on them and try to bag more often.

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/why-is-it-so-hard-to-find-square-chics.441282/page-3

Now even if she is not always in the club, she may still want to be impressed by you and see that your very popular as a man and get alot of attention and you have a "good brand". Even the most introverted chick would want that. A man where she can walk with and feel proud about.

Now that nothing is wrong with, its in her nature. The difference is the women who is always in the club will want the absolute extreme of a man like that whereas the introverted chick will just want doses.
 

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I am starting to see why alot of guys have vouched for square chicks. Yes any chick especially in today's society is capable of being thot worthy or unloyal or whatever.

But if you look at it in the Draft aspect...is there a chance the number one pick is gonna be a complete bust? yes it has happened sometimes but whether its the #1 pick or #13 when compared to the trash after the 100th pick...you will always have a better chance of getting what your looking for,

i think guys say they are trying to find a good chick but will avoid "square chicks" or women like that because they are afraid of what will be said. i feel like alot of guys are not being honest.

because there are some loyal chicks out there who arent like what we are accustomed to but we look at them as boring.

which would make us no better than the other chicks used to so much attention who call certain guys boring cause they are too perfect
Currently talking to a few girls and I'm most intrigued by the square chick.

She's straightforward, doesn't have social media, has wife like qualities..
 

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When I'm out during the day or dealing with a chick one on one, I get positive feedback.

But I don't have a lot of homeboys (aka friends) out here. Women always ask who I'm chilling with and I give vague answers:deadmanny:

I think it makes me look bad when I don't have a "crew" to kick it with. I'm a lowkey dude but most of my friends are all four hours away.

What can I do to change this? Ive been getting by so far but lowkey I think its starting to make me look bad.

I have no social proof when I'm out:beli:
 

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When I'm out during the day or dealing with a chick one on one, I get positive feedback.

But I don't have a lot of homeboys (aka friends) out here. Women always ask who I'm chilling with and I give vague answers:deadmanny:

I think it makes me look bad when I don't have a "crew" to kick it with. I'm a lowkey dude but most of my friends are all four hours away.

What can I do to change this? Ive been getting by so far but lowkey I think its starting to make me look bad.

I have no social proof when I'm out:beli:

you gonna have to low key flirt back with other women when your out with a female just to keep them honest and let them think that you choose not to fukk with people

you gonna have to embrace it:francis:
 
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Fukkin girls are a trip man. Give them too much attention and you're seen as needy, don't hit them up enough and some other dude is sliding into her phone

Had 4 girls in the rotation one minute and now it's down to 2 in a matter of days...............

It all boils down to HOW much she's actually interested. This is exactly why Chris Rock was preaching that "Fellas, you have to talk" shyt in Bigger & Blacker. One wrong move (verbally) and them panties are coming up quick.
 

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My ex-gf asking me for money, I said "No" now she mad at me, lol. In the past I have made a mistake of lending gfs money. One ex even bragged to her gfs that I was her walking ATM.

dating sites are like those walmart bins of videogames, for the most part its trash but once in a while a gta, uncharted might be in there.

I met my fiance on okcupid, and when I met her she lived in another city going to school and if it wasn't for OKcupid we never would have ever met or crossed paths. But I also had alot of duds before
Any tips on how to do the online dating thing?What works, what doesnt work? What type of pics to put up?
 
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When I'm out during the day or dealing with a chick one on one, I get positive feedback.

But I don't have a lot of homeboys (aka friends) out here. Women always ask who I'm chilling with and I give vague answers:deadmanny:

I think it makes me look bad when I don't have a "crew" to kick it with. I'm a lowkey dude but most of my friends are all four hours away.

What can I do to change this? Ive been getting by so far but lowkey I think its starting to make me look bad.

I have no social proof when I'm out:beli:

I'm like you, after high school I went away to college and lost contact with my high school friends, then after college I came back home, but the people I went to college with none of them live in my city. Most of my co-workers are married with kids and are more homebodies so to be honest I don't have a crew either, every woman I've dated has understood and since I'm not clingy with them it has never become an issue. A woman who isn't judgmental will understand
 
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