Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I used to want this chick so bad she used to go to my church a few years ago when I ews single but she had a bf, but she was at that the time the hottest girl ever to me. Her and her bf stopped coming to church been ages since I saw her then today she came out for a event, bf cheated and she dumped him. Funny thing me wnd my firl ended up dropping her home.

Funny how life goes somwtikes
 

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I am always going to be for a man bettering himself above all things. I say this cause when women start to bring you problems/issues you have other things going with you as a man that you can put your time and energy into. I have since made some habit changes to my life and also just working on myself as a man . I've been working on my weakness/strengths

I will start approaching women come January. I'm aim for three women a day for 8 weeks straight. I'm doing this for may reason which I will get into later. One reason for sure is to shake things up in this thread . So it is going to be a lot more well written articles and "field reports" when I start back approaching.

i look forward to hearing your reason.
 
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Get played by the same girl twice brehs:francis:. Funny thing is I'm still gonna end up fukking her and press escape. I'm just gon have to forget about a relationship.

I'm such a hypocrite. Sometimes I be talking to 8 other chicks at the same time, making plans without anyone else knowing. But as soon as I see the main girl I want with another guy on snapchat, I get angry af.Yet I'm not even making moves with her cause I wanna take things slowly. I just don't know. Unlike other girls , I actually have deep, funny and dope conversations with this one, sexting and flirting, so much shyt in common. She's not even the finest one lol. Yet something just not going right.
 
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so last night i was at one of my brehs crib for a lil get together. His sister brought over some of her homegirls and shyt. So turns out one of her homegirls was having issues with her main dude (aka boyfriend). But hold up, there's another nikka in the picture. :ohhh:One which she's known for like a few weeks, if i recall hearing. :ohhh:So you know how illogical, irrational and bird-brained women are :martin: one girl starts tellin her to re-evaluate her relationship with her main nikka and if she feels it ain't right then she should move on to the new dude. :stopitslime:

I couldn't believe wat i was hearing :dwillhuh:but at the same time i was like :ehh:nothing new.

so brehs, i hate to say this but, this is the reality of 2016 and onwards women. We are in a time where women cannot be faithful, deal with hardships, are very weak and can be turned very easily. So is there any reason why a dude should get serious with a woman in 2016 and perhaps in the near future?

at the moment, no. Unless things change (which i can't see happening anytime soon), if you deal with a broad, keep her on a fukk basis and nothing more. If she ain't with that, bushes. :ufdup:
 
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so last night i was at one of my brehs crib for a lil get together. His sister brought over some of her homegirls and shyt. So turns out one of her homegirls was having issues with her main dude (aka boyfriend). But hold up, there's another nikka in the picture. :ohhh:One which she's known for like a few weeks, if i recall. :ohhh:So you know how illogical, irrational and bird-brained women are :martin: one girl starts tellin her to re-evaluate her relationship with her main nikka and if she feels it ain't right then she should move on to the new dude. :stopitslime:

I couldn't believe wat i was hearing :dwillhuh:but at the same time i was like :ehh:nothing new.

so brehs, i hate to say this but, this is the reality of 2016 and onwards women. We are in a time where women cannot be faithful, deal with hardships, are very weak and can be turned very easily. So is there any reason why a dude should get serious with a woman in 2016 and perhaps in the near future?

at the moment, no. Unless things change (which i can't see happening anytime soon), if you deal with a broad, keep her on a fukk basis and nothing more. If she ain't with that, bushes. :ufdup:

less is more..

the less you give a fukk, the better it is when it come to American Women..

You gotta literally act like a pimp in terms of mind fukking them:skip:

When i say to accept flirting with other women in front of them and have a sidepiece, its literally to keep an aura that they can respect..
I know females who would fukk their baby daddies before they even think of giving a new nikka a chance..
and the BF done cheated and did all kinds of fukkery:dead:
 

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less is more..

the less you give a fukk, the better it is when it come to American Women..

You gotta literally act like a pimp in terms of mind fukking them:skip:

When i say to accept flirting with other women in front of them and have a sidepiece, its literally to keep an aura that they can respect..
I know females who would fukk their baby daddies before they even think of giving a new nikka a chance..
and the BF done cheated and did all kinds of fukkery:dead:

that's the thing though breh. I don't want to be that guy. I ain't built to be an a$$hole. Every nikka on this planet wants a woman that would ride for him and he'd ride for her. But more and more i'm starting to realize that its becoming hard to obtain that. And the main reason for that is because in 2016, men have become disposable items. We ain't valued or respected these days. Rather we are constantly being degraded, emasculated or used.

it ain't even about the game no more. I just seen wayyy to much for me to give a shyt about them anymore. I didn't want it to get to this point, especially since there are worthy women out there....but presently, that's how it is and gonne be. :yeshrug:
 

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so last night i was at one of my brehs crib for a lil get together. His sister brought over some of her homegirls and shyt. So turns out one of her homegirls was having issues with her main dude (aka boyfriend). But hold up, there's another nikka in the picture. :ohhh:One which she's known for like a few weeks, if i recall hearing. :ohhh:So you know how illogical, irrational and bird-brained women are :martin: one girl starts tellin her to re-evaluate her relationship with her main nikka and if she feels it ain't right then she should move on to the new dude. :stopitslime:

I couldn't believe wat i was hearing :dwillhuh:but at the same time i was like :ehh:nothing new.

so brehs, i hate to say this but, this is the reality of 2016 and onwards women. We are in a time where women cannot be faithful, deal with hardships, are very weak and can be turned very easily. So is there any reason why a dude should get serious with a woman in 2016 and perhaps in the near future?

at the moment, no. Unless things change (which i can't see happening anytime soon), if you deal with a broad, keep her on a fukk basis and nothing more. If she ain't with that, bushes. :ufdup:
It may suck to hear this but I'm starting to think praying to God and seeking another (real not pretend) God fearing spouse may be the solution.
 

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When it comes to modern day American Women, its an everyday chess match...:manny:

And I also think we are moving back towards a food chain philosophy where men are separated into calibers...

There is the top tier where the ultimate ladies man resides...Thats the man who the women desire/lust for and can get away with whatever the fukk he wants

The upper-tier guy territory..Thats the man who women are highly attracted to and is ALMOST there with the top tier

The mid-tier guy..He can get a girlfriend

The lower-tier guy...He can get a companion..

lets translate this into a football perspective

Top Tier-Tom Brady
Upper Tier-Russell Wilson
Mid-Tier-Alex Smith
Lower Tier-Ryan Fitzpatrick

This is how Modern Day American Women look at shyt from an emotional/stimulation perspective...in a nutshell...Which is why i say some of the things i say:francis:

You gotta show and prove if you want to play ball with Modern Day American Women...even after you get them:leostare:


 

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Meeting a woman for drinks later this evening so far in the 5 days things have been good. She has been engaged in conversations, I gotta good feeling. So far in my life when dealing with women that act like she has its always been a great outcome
 
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When it comes to modern day American Women, its an everyday chess match...:manny:

And I also think we are moving back towards a food chain philosophy where men are separated into calibers...

There is the top tier where the ultimate ladies man resides...Thats the man who the women desire/lust for and can get away with whatever the fukk he wants

The upper-tier guy territory..Thats the man who women are highly attracted to and is ALMOST there with the top tier

The mid-tier guy..He can get a girlfriend

The lower-tier guy...He can get a companion..

lets translate this into a football perspective

Top Tier-Tom Brady
Upper Tier-Russell Wilson
Mid-Tier-Alex Smith
Lower Tier-Ryan Fitzpatrick

This is how Modern Day American Women look at shyt from an emotional/stimulation perspective...in a nutshell...Which is why i say some of the things i say:francis:

You gotta show and prove if you want to play ball with Modern Day American Women...even after you get them:leostare:



I swear I was just think about women like this. What I mean is I think like a quarterback . How you not include aaron rodgers



This how men have start looking at it ...it really a sport .

 

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that's the thing though breh. I don't want to be that guy. I ain't built to be an a$$hole. Every nikka on this planet wants a woman that would ride for him and he'd ride for her. But more and more i'm starting to realize that its becoming hard to obtain that. And the main reason for that is because in 2016, men have become disposable items. We ain't valued or respected these days. Rather we are constantly being degraded, emasculated or used.

it ain't even about the game no more. I just seen wayyy to much for me to give a shyt about them anymore. I didn't want it to get to this point, especially since there are worthy women out there....but presently, that's how it is and gonne be. :yeshrug:
man your story was nothing fam!!!!

i have a friend who broke up with his firs love maybe 8 years ago. She broke up with him rather and he never really fully got over it.
She ended up being with another guy, has a kid by him and hasnt spoke to my homie for long. This girl been with her man for 7 years or something and is engaged. Would you believe she slid in my homies dms the other day on IG and was liking all his pics? My friend goes along with it, she talking about how she misses him, asking him questions about his love life, asking him hypothetical questions like would you ever date a girl with a kid, would you be with me if i wasnt with my fiancee etc etc. Madness bro. Homegirl was telling my friend something about how her relationship is good but it is boring, predictable and how her fiance doesnt maker her feel beautiful. SMH. This girl and my friend were on the phone for like five hours from 2-7AM while her man was at work I think.

CRAZY
 
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man your story was nothing fam!!!!

i have a friend who broke up with his firs love maybe 8 years ago. She broke up with him rather and he never really fully got over it.

She ended up being with another guy, has a kid by him and hasnt spoke to my homie for long. This girl been with her man for 7 years or something and is engaged. Would you believe she slid in my homies dms the other day on IG and was liking all his pics? My friend goes along with it, she talking about how she misses him, asking him questions about his love life, asking him hypothetical questions like would you ever date a girl with a kid, would you be with me if i wasnt with my fiancee etc etc. Madness bro. Homegirl was telling my friend something about how her relationship is good but it is boring, predictable and how her fiance doesnt maker her feel beautiful. SMH. This girl and my friend were on the phone for like five hours from 2-7AM while her man was at work I think.

CRAZY

she broke up your boy with 8 years ago, is enganged, has a kid with the dude she dumped your homie for and yet is tryna get back in the good graces of your boy? :why:

this is what i mean. :mindblown:

"Boring" :why:what the fukk does she expect from ole boy? to open up a circus or something? :dahell:
and what is he doin? tell him to cut that broad off. :ufdup:
 

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she broke up your boy with 8 years ago, is enganged, has a kid with the dude she dumped your homie for and yet is tryna get back in the good graces of your boy? :why:

this is what i mean. :mindblown:

"Boring" :why:what the fukk does she expect from ole boy? to open up a circus or something? :dahell:

and what is he doin? tell him to cut that broad off. :ufdup:

Now it's the final leg! Usain Bolt parties in London AGAIN

This is what she expects breh...That isn't the old story from last week this was from last night. the saga continues. This time he took 10 women back...

Obviously not mad at the player but to answer your question this is the kind of thing that girl expects. Not even ambition and drive anymore just success and fame...

its stories like that above that kind of scare me when it comes to women...and one day one of those women will try to "settle down and get married" and likely try to give their husband some wack ass sex after going ham for Bolt.

just look at how easy it is to get all those chicks in. Yeah we all wish for that but man we also get disgusted.

like for once i would like to see a situation where a chick says no i'm not easy and im not that type of person...we respect hearing that more.

these chicks wanna live their live like movies man...they want action...something that could be on the big screen in HOllywood...too much perfection is boring to them. just completely confused about what they want in life and running all over the place
 

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she broke up your boy with 8 years ago, is enganged, has a kid with the dude she dumped your homie for and yet is tryna get back in the good graces of your boy? :why:

this is what i mean. :mindblown:

"Boring" :why:what the fukk does she expect from ole boy? to open up a circus or something? :dahell:
and what is he doin? tell him to cut that broad off. :ufdup:
this nikka wont listen. it was his first love
i need him to realize that if shes gonna treat her baby's father and fiancee shes been with for 7 years like this...it dont matter what history he believes he has with her...that the girl is not the type to settle down
 
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