Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[International Playa]

That happened to me once. Met this Colombian lady, chopped it up/texted... learned she was still living with her bf but they were not seeing one another.

I said, "Okay. No worries. I'm not going to get in the way of you two parting ways. I dont feel it would be advantageous for either you or I."

She understood.

Hit me up a month later like, "Finally."



Dated her for about 5 months.

But she definitely saw where I was coming from and it really fell into place when all was said and done.

Werent you tempted to have her come over your place????

Im tempted to have her come over my place but she more than likely will want me to put gas in her car because she seems tight with her money for her to live with her ex because its cheaper, she lives 45 mins away.

Im learning its sooo valuable to talk to a woman and find out her current situation or were she stands with an ex. Some of these women be in situations that could get you caught up in some mess

 

[Ohene]

Man sometimes I think my girl dgaf about me sometimes

i know that feeling...because they never really look at your perspective in situations. girls tell me a lot that i seem like i dont care about them oddly enough

 

[Mr210]

She took the receipt and paid telling me to let her pay since I paid all the other times

 

[Bless't]

Werent you tempted to have her come over your place????

Im tempted to have her come over my place but she more than likely will want me to put gas in her car because she seems tight with her money for her to live with her ex because its cheaper, she lives 45 mins away.

Im learning its sooo valuable to talk to a woman and find out her current situation or were she stands with an ex. Some of these women be in situations that could get you caught up in some mess

That's beside the point.

I figured she was still "with him" or whatever.

I avoid any unnecessary bullshyt at this point in my life.

 

[KeysT]

i know that feeling...because they never really look at your perspective in situations. girls tell me a lot that i seem like i dont care about them oddly enough

same Im like WTF lol

 

[Gus Money]

Man sometimes I think my girl dgaf about me sometimes

The only way to combat that feeling is to put yourself first at all times. Do what's best for you, and don't worry about explaining yourself. You should care so much about yourself that it doesn't matter if other people give a fukk about you.

Most women will ride or die for a man who handles his business and values himself above everything. But even more won't hesitate to dip on a guy who seeks validation and puts others above himself.

She replied but it was some generic shyt. I'm sticking to this No-contact diet.

It's hard tho. She the only one I wanna talk to



Wit her bytch ass

The best way to beat this is to find a new chick and stay busy.

 

[Ohene]

anyone got the answers to my question

its not that hard.

you're in the library and see somebody who doesnt look like she's studying too hard: ask if the seat beside them is taken. look at what books theyre reading and shyt...ask them how that class is

you're waiting for a bus and see some girl waiting as well, walk up to her and ask how long she's been waiting/if she knows when the next ones coming. use that to transition into a deeper talk. How are you feeling your classes so far? How was your summer? etc.

See a girl eating lunch alone...sit down beside em and ask what they eatin for lunch...say that it smells good...make a joke about how your lunch is trash and how next time she needs to bring you some of what she's got. All this shyt may sound corny but it works. Even if they seem resistant at first just tell em to ease up.

shyt is really really easy during school. I didnt know how to approach women until like my 3rd year but once i figured it out it was simple.

Dont be afraid to plant seeds either instead of aggresively getting the number right away...chances are youll see the girl again and because you werent so thirsty but just friendly youll look that much better

 

[Ohene]

a lot of the time its not about what you say but how you say it. if you're stuttering and shyt youre obviously gonna look like a creep and get curved but if you're friendly, smooth, have a smile on your face and speak with conviction/confidence these girls will be much more receptive

 

[Deafheaven]

Some women are just cold like that breh. I just ended a situation with one that was cold like that. Don't think I'll ever understand her. I did learn that I like my women with more passion though so there is that lesson.

Yeah Its cold enough in the world. don't need to be coming home to that shyt as well.

 

[XII]

Hard to keep this broad on ignore when every other post is quoting her

 

[Youseenmywork]

its not that hard.

you're in the library and see somebody who doesnt look like she's studying too hard: ask if the seat beside them is taken. look at what books theyre reading and shyt...ask them how that class is

you're waiting for a bus and see some girl waiting as well, walk up to her and ask how long she's been waiting/if she knows when the next ones coming. use that to transition into a deeper talk. How are you feeling your classes so far? How was your summer? etc.

See a girl eating lunch alone...sit down beside em and ask what they eatin for lunch...say that it smells good...make a joke about how your lunch is trash and how next time she needs to bring you some of what she's got. All this shyt may sound corny but it works. Even if they seem resistant at first just tell em to ease up.

shyt is really really easy during school. I didnt know how to approach women until like my 3rd year but once i figured it out it was simple.

Dont be afraid to plant seeds either instead of aggresively getting the number right away...chances are youll see the girl again and because you werent so thirsty but just friendly youll look that much better

nikkas man I swear. All you gotta do is put yourself out there. Rejection shouldn't even faze a man it apart of being a man.

 

[Ohene]

nikkas man I swear. All you gotta do is put yourself out there. Rejection shouldn't even faze a man it apart of being a man.

thats all it is. i tell dudes all the time...just open your mouth and say something...anything (as long as it isnt rude)

 

[Lo-Co]

thats all it is. i tell dudes all the time...just open your mouth and say something...anything (as long as it isnt rude)

it feels like trying to hit a buzzer beater the moment you approach

 

[Ohene]

it feels like trying to hit a buzzer beater the moment you approach

i look at it as going up to bat. i'd rather strikeout swinging than just watching the ball go right over the plate.

 

[Lo-Co]

i look at it as going up to bat. i'd rather strikeout swinging than just watching the ball go right over the plate.

true i mean i was already in the lowest pits and i couldnt go any lower. so i said.