Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[twan83]

Yall ever been in a situation where you had a chick tell you she didn't want to be romantically involved anymore but wanted to be cool and act like yall were friends after that?

Yup a few times and each one I smashed their friend instead playing them games with me then they like I made a mistake we can try
I'm like
U jealous and heard thru ur friend I gave her a career ending back injury that's all

 

[twan83]

Man that coli thread about latina women and their wandering eye is so on point.

this mexican chick/el salvadorian/peru/watever who works at the laundrymat down the block from me is extremely cordial...thought at first it was just being polite but something is off. then one day i came in and saw she had a boyfriend.

went to the supermarket last week and as i was waalking out the were leaving he is in front and nods to me and when i pass her who is behind she gives me the hey wats up

again could be reading too much into it but :francis;

I'm married to one don't know if she does don't care Cuz u can stop stupidity or cheating
A wondering eye when u ain't around is fair game too me it's just looking but when ur with ur man or girl gotta keep it in check tho it's disrespectful
Unless u got a lazy eye

My neighborhood has a lot of Mexicans my dumbass thinking this new area would be older ones this shyt out here is thick big t*ts and ass galore out here with quite a few solid 8s and above shyt is insane
Even got pawg out here
Yup I'm only black guy out here tho lol granted I'm mixed with Rican
My breh saw my neighbor wife and was like how can u live next to that she sexy as shyt
I was like easy like this

 

[Atlrocafella]

I'm still pulling up for 40 and taking that shot. I'm speaking to a new one each day.

 

[LoMax30]

Say you're in the early stages of getting to know a chick and you know for sure she effs with you. Only thing is conversation seems to be slowing down a bit. Any thoughts as to how to get that momentum going again?

 

[Mr210]

Say you're in the early stages of getting to know a chick and you know for sure she effs with you. Only thing is conversation seems to be slowing down a bit. Any thoughts as to how to get that momentum going again?

Is it possible there is too much texting and phone calls. How many times have y'all been out together and where have y'all been

 

[LoMax30]

We text but not a ton. No phone calls. Been out maybe 8-10 times? Sometimes dinner, sometimes a get together at one of her friend's house. If she's introducing me to the friends that's generally a good sign. Honestly I'd like to do more with her than the usual dinner or hang out with her friends but she has a pretty busy work schedule and a social circle she's pretty tight with so I try to just kinda get in where I fit in.

As far as the convos, I don't mind leading a conversation if I have to but sometimes she's not quite as inquisitive as I generally like girls to be. Maybe it's just her personality? Maybe scale back the texts and focus on the in person convos?

 

[nomoreneveragain]

^

Memes brehs, but it depends what type of girl she is.

 

[Mr210]

We text but not a ton. No phone calls. Been out maybe 8-10 times? Sometimes dinner, sometimes a get together at one of her friend's house. If she's introducing me to the friends that's generally a good sign. Honestly I'd like to do more with her than the usual dinner or hang out with her friends but she has a pretty busy work schedule and a social circle she's pretty tight with so I try to just kinda get in where I fit in.

As far as the convos, I don't mind leading a conversation if I have to but sometimes she's not quite as inquisitive as I generally like girls to be. Maybe it's just her personality? Maybe scale back the texts and focus on the in person convos?

I would assume if she has you around her friends she must think highly of you. Is she affectionate? Are y'all exclusive. I would try to get her out besides dinner and with just the 2 of you. She might be using her friends as a buffer

 

[LoMax30]

Now I think about it she doesn't really seem affectionate unless it's after a glass or two of wine. We're not exclusive but let's just say we do some things only exclusive couples would do Please expand on the buffer theory. So you think she might have her friends around because she's a little weird about hanging out with me one on one?

 

[Mr210]

Now I think about it she doesn't really seem affectionate unless it's after a glass or two of wine. We're not exclusive but let's just say we do some things only exclusive couples would do Please expand on the buffer theory. So you think she might have her friends around because she's a little weird about hanging out with me one on one?

Yes that's what I'm saying, if the 2 of you are kicking mostly in group settings especially during the early stages that's not good. Does her female friends have their boyfriends there or are you the only male in the midst

 

[LoMax30]

I'd say it's been about 50/50. One day we chill just the two of us, the next time it's hanging with her friends. Some of her female friends will have their dude around. Her group of friends is a mix of dudes/females though.

So from the outside looking in you'd say shorty is feeling me but the group settings might not be helping in terms of getting to actually know her?

 

[TRUEST]

We text but not a ton. No phone calls. Been out maybe 8-10 times? Sometimes dinner, sometimes a get together at one of her friend's house. If she's introducing me to the friends that's generally a good sign. Honestly I'd like to do more with her than the usual dinner or hang out with her friends but she has a pretty busy work schedule and a social circle she's pretty tight with so I try to just kinda get in where I fit in.

As far as the convos, I don't mind leading a conversation if I have to but sometimes she's not quite as inquisitive as I generally like girls to be. Maybe it's just her personality? Maybe scale back the texts and focus on the in person convos?

u haven't fuccked her? u went out 8 to 10 times? and nothing sexual?

yeah shes introducing u to her friends. but a girl who isn't inquisitive about ur life aint about u, my dude. and just because shes introducing u to her friends doesn't mean much. u may be half way decent and not embarrassing to be seen in public with so she has no issues being seen with u in public. but based on what i've read so far, sounds to me she may still be hung up on an ex and is using u to pass time.

go with ur gut with these things man. i personally like my women all up under me, asking questions, wanting to go everywhere i go. any behavior contrary to this to me, speaks to the level of interest that i find very uncomfortable.

 

[LoMax30]

u haven't fuccked her? u went out 8 to 10 times? and nothing sexual?

We already smashed more times than I can count.

 

[TRUEST]

We already smashed more times than I can count.

man she may be using u as rebound.

when women first get into a relationship with a guy they like, they spend a lot of their time together (alone) not with other people there.
obviously, u know more about ur situation than all of us. but something is amiss and ur gut has been notified. otherwise u wouldn't be posting about it in this thread. go with ur gut. fall back.

 

[Mr210]

man she may be using u as rebound.

when women first get into a relationship with a guy they like, they spend a lot of their time together (alone) not with other people there.
obviously, u know more about ur situation than all of us. but something is amiss and ur gut has been notified. otherwise u wouldn't be posting about it in this thread. go with ur gut. fall back.

Take his advice I have failed to do so in the past and regretted it