Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Damn so how big of an L is this:

So if y'all remember the woman I was talking to last week that is 10 yrs older than me. We were suppose to get together Saturday night after she was finished with her original plans. But when I didn't hear back from her Friday like she stated on Thursday, I sorta lost interest in meeting her. She ended up texting me Saturday morning but I told her I made other plans when I didn't hear back from her. Well I just text her happy Bday and her response was "thank you! Who is this"?

I responded damn you deleted my number with the quickness to which she responded with hold on I might not have saved the number


there are times when u need to be very rude to women. this chick said she can meet up with u at 10pm after she was done with her original plans (aka other date). and u agreed to that nonsense?

u shoulda laughed her suggestion.

her: i can meet at 10pm after im done with my plans
you: lol
her: what's funny?
you: you're not very bright
her: what?
you: ?
her: why would u say im not bright?
you: the nerve of u telling me u'll meet after ur done with ur plans
her: blah blah
you: take care


she'll hit u up quick on some im sorry type sh1t, if she finds u in the least attractive.
 

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there are times when u need to be very rude to women. this chick said she can meet up with u at 10pm after she was done with her original plans (aka other date). and u agreed to that nonsense?

u shoulda laughed her suggestion.

her: i can meet at 10pm after im done with my plans
you: lol
her: what's funny?
you: you're not very bright
her: what?
you: ?
her: why would u say im not bright?
you: the nerve of u telling me u'll meet after ur done with ur plans
her: blah blah
you: take care


she'll hit u up quick on some im sorry type sh1t, if she finds u in the least attractive.


Why the hell would I care if she had a date earlier I never even met the chick before, I've done back to back dates before, shrugs shoulder. She tried calling me a few min ago I didn't bother answer
 

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Why the hell would I care if she had a date earlier I never even met the chick before, I've done back to back dates before, shrugs shoulder. She tried calling me a few min ago I didn't bother answer

why should u care? :dwillhuh:
aight, u're a lost cause.
 

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It's funny cause I use bae like all the time, but straight up baby would have me pumping the brakes double time...

:whoa:

Especially if yall ain't even connect in real life yet.

I'm throwing her in the bushes, I called her to set something up for Thursday, but she didn't answer but had the aud
 

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Imma be honest brehs... It's getting hard to envision a long term relationship because every chick I kick it with inevitably becomes irritating on some level. I'm at the point where I'm becoming surgical with this cutting people off shyt.

But I'm a little bit worried about his this is all gonna shake out in the future. :lupe:
 

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Nicca if you don't want her, pass her this way :lolbron:, you got a chick that ain't trying to be on the scene like that and go out all the time? Keep her!
:whoa:
Yeah I plan on locking this one down

I know right. as long as sex with her is great, what he has to complain about?

be boring as much as you want with me as long as im getting good sex.

im an introvert anyway. he would be annoyed if she was looking for excitement alll the time.

yall saw what happened with Brad Pitt right? Prob left jennifer aniston for the same exact reason and thought she was too average and boring and decided to go with the wild/emo Angelina Jolie and now today she initiated a divorce on him :mjlol:



and if this girl has a father in her life its even better.
Yup she got her dad in her life..... and our first time wasn't bad even though she was a virgin. She checks all the boxes, I just hope I'm not actin too simpish since the relationship has progressed from dating to something more serious

Damn so how big of an L is this:

So if y'all remember the woman I was talking to last week that is 10 yrs older than me. We were suppose to get together Saturday night after she was finished with her original plans. But when I didn't hear back from her Friday like she stated on Thursday, I sorta lost interest in meeting her. She ended up texting me Saturday morning but I told her I made other plans when I didn't hear back from her. Well I just text her happy Bday and her response was "thank you! Who is this"?

I responded damn you deleted my number with the quickness to which she responded with hold on I might not have saved the number
She probably got butthurt because you didn't wanna see her anymore....

I wouldn't have rewarded her with a Happy Bday text since you made it known you weren't pleased were her being a shytty communicator.

I'd try setting up something one more time and see if she gets her act right... some women are just terrible at communicating in a timely manner. If you're just tryin to smash, I would keep her as an option, albeit a low priority one... doubt you're looking for a relationship with a girl whose 10 years older
 

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Imma be honest brehs... It's getting hard to envision a long term relationship because every chick I kick it with inevitably becomes irritating on some level. I'm at the point where I'm becoming surgical with this cutting people off shyt.

But I'm a little bit worried about his this is all gonna shake out in the future. :lupe:
Breh it's a good thing to have standards..... the more you date the more you find out what you like/don't like. I'm not settling when it comes to a potential wifey, you're cottamn right I'ma be selective. You'll eventually find a girl whose imperfections aren't dealbreakers for you.

When I first got in the game I was just happy to have any girl show me attention regardless of the red flags.
 

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I'm with a "square, boring" chick right now, whose hobbies are reading, cleaning, and going on walks.....It's frustrating that sometimes I wanna go grab a bite to eat somewhere or explore different places in the city, but it's hard for her to break out of her comfort zone. I set up a date at this nice restaurant and she wouldn't leave the parking lot because she said it was "too packed." But pro's far outweigh the cons.

Pro's:
-I'm hardly spending money on dates... College student so I need every penny for tuition/books
-She doesn't party or go clubbing (She's 23)
-Low maintenance. Doesn't like fancy restaurants. Even told me never to buy her flowers.
-Doesn't play stupid text games... Texts back right way, initiates conversation.
-Naturally beautiful. Doesn't wear any make-up.
-Dress MODESTLY. She has a banging body, but she doesn't show cleavage nor does she wear revealing shorts/skirts.
-Shows a genuine interest in me.

Con's:
-She gets anxiety around large groups of people
-Everything has to be clean around her...Pointed out every dirty spot in my whip:damn:

Not saying every "boring" chick is exactly like this... but would you rather have an "exciting" chick whose got a roster full of orbiters and parties every weekend?
Wife the boring chic, cheat with the fun hoes (optional)
 

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If you have a good chic,know you got a good chic (especially if you have a family with her) only cheat when you're 100% in the clear. Time wise and never prioritize it, never prioritize the side hoes or just don't cheat period.

Also if you're fixated on being reckless with side hoes,make sure you're fukking with upper quality broads that could be a decent broad (physically, circumstance and financial wise) if you're out here really being risky make sure it's worth it.
 

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She wants to fukk a bruh :youngsabo: dont mess it up :wow:


Yea I called her last night to set something up for Saturday. She didn't answer. She text me an hour later saying she thought j was going to call I told her I did. She called me but 90 min later but I didn't answer because I was about to go to sleep
 
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Do women realize it's other women out here that put up less resistance and play less games just to hang out with a quality guy?
The women I'm talking to now said we aren't having sex unless we are official and exclusive. I'm at a crossroad right now on what to do with her because we only started talking at the beginning of this month.

Do I remain silent and not tell her I'm having sex with other women? Do I tell her if we aren't having sex, I'm going have sex with other women?
Any other suggestions on how to go about this would be greatly appreciated.
 
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