Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mr210]

Do women realize it's other women out here that put up less resistance and play less games just to hang out with a quality guy?
The women I'm talking to now said we aren't having sex unless we are official and exclusive. I'm at a crossroad right now on what to do with her because we only started talking at the beginning of this month.

Do I remain silent and not tell her I'm having sex with other women? Do I tell her if we aren't having sex, I'm going have sex with other women?
Any other suggestions on how to go about this would be greatly appreciated.

If y'all aren't exclusive you can have sex with whoever. I would just be upfront with her "if" she ask you about the topic. Honestly if you are dating her with the intentions of a relationship, sex and the chemistry and lack there of is important to that

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Yea why should I care, we aren't exclusive. I've done it plenty of times. Oh well no biggie

Breh she on some disrespectful shyt...

Im still new to the game but she shouldnt be bringing up having a prior date AT ALL. A broad tried to pull some shyt like that with me its them playing games on some shyt.

 

[Kal El]

Do women realize it's other women out here that put up less resistance and play less games just to hang out with a quality guy?
The women I'm talking to now said we aren't having sex unless we are official and exclusive. I'm at a crossroad right now on what to do with her because we only started talking at the beginning of this month.

Do I remain silent and not tell her I'm having sex with other women? Do I tell her if we aren't having sex, I'm going have sex with other women?
Any other suggestions on how to go about this would be greatly appreciated.

So you've been talking to her for 3 weeks? How many times have ya'll hung out?

Girl I'm talking to right now gave me the whole "we're not having sex until we're secure" talk on the 3rd date, and we had sex on the 4th date

Definitely don't tell her the bolded, that's not going to help your chances. Just keep escalating and if you get to the point where you guys are making out, groping each other, and she stops and brings up the "not until we're exclusive talk".... then you got a decision to make.

If you're looking for a gf, that sounds like a good chick to me... doesn't give it up easy. If you're looking for a quick smash, you're probably better off looking elsewhere

 

[Mr210]

Breh she on some disrespectful shyt...

Im still new to the game but she shouldnt be bringing up having a prior date AT ALL. A broad tried to pull some shyt like that with me its them playing games on some shyt.

I never said she had a date, the other poster assumed that. She had told me earlier in the week before I asked her out that her friends were taking her to a comedy show for her bday. She just didn't know if they were going Friday or Saturday night. I asked her out 2 days after that

 

[Bless't]

I'm in the exact same situation. My chick is a straigt up square, but I've been on the flip side. I've dated chicks in the past who were always on the scene and had niccas in the cut trying to orbit. Appreciate that homebody, especially if she's honest. I literally have no anxiety with my square chick..she watches the nerdy ass movies I like, tries to play video games etc.

Some days I wish she was more outgoing but then I realize I can be more charismatic myself so I try to be proactive in thinking of things for us to do. She's been getting better at it too

 

[Ohene]

I wouldn't have rewarded her with a Happy Bday text since you made it known you weren't pleased were her being a shytty communicator.

I'd try setting up something one more time and see if she gets her act right... some women are just terrible at communicating in a timely manner. If you're just tryin to smash, I would keep her as an option, albeit a low priority one... doubt you're looking for a relationship with a girl whose 10 years older

nah man just let the bytch go

 

[Mainevent_7]

So you've been talking to her for 3 weeks? How many times have ya'll hung out?

Girl I'm talking to right now gave me the whole "we're not having sex until we're secure" talk on the 3rd date, and we had sex on the 4th date

Definitely don't tell her the bolded, that's not going to help your chances. Just keep escalating and if you get to the point where you guys are making out, groping each other, and she stops and brings up the "not until we're exclusive talk".... then you got a decision to make.

If you're looking for a gf, that sounds like a good chick to me... doesn't give it up easy. If you're looking for a quick smash, you're probably better off looking elsewhere

Our dynamic is kind of difference cause I've known her since 2011. But about 3 weeks ago is when I told her that I'm trying to see what we could possibly build together since we get along way to well. I lost count of how many times we hung out cause I seen her at least once every weekend since she graduated from grad school this past May.

Every time I escalate things to the point of having sex, she stops me and says "we aren't having sex". So that why I'm at this crossroad. I have no problems making her my gf in due time, but I'm an inpatient person when it comes to wanting something.

 

[Throwbacksample]

Fellas, how would you feel about a woman you haven't met yet calling you baby in a text?

Depends on the context...sounds weird but it can just be a name....Chicks i talk to online that i havnt met, i ended the sentence with babigurl... if she says it has a term of endearment then i would be suspicious and she might be the type to fall fast

 

[Throwbacksample]

Why the hell would I care if she had a date earlier I never even met the chick before, I've done back to back dates before, shrugs shoulder. She tried calling me a few min ago I didn't bother answer

thank you...i cant expect a chick to clear out her plans for me and we've never met...i cant expect a chick not to just be talking to me, they are playing the field just like i am

 

[Mr210]

Depends on the context...sounds weird but it can just be a name....Chicks i talk to online that i havnt met, i ended the sentence with babigurl... if she says it has a term of endearment then i would be suspicious and she might be the type to fall fast

Well she just sent me a pic of herself. I still plan on meeting with her Saturday night

 

[International Playa]

Well she just sent me a pic of herself. I still plan on meeting with her Saturday night

If you set up a date a week in advance with a womam, how often do you talk to the woman till the date????

 

[Mr210]

If you set up a date a week in advance with a womam, how often do you talk to the woman till the date????

Like I've stated I'm working evenings right now so I only have basically Saturday night for dates, that will change in 2 months when my schedule changes to day shift.

 

[CASHAPP]

If you set up a date a week in advance with a womam, how often do you talk to the woman till the date????

Your asking him that right? You yourself arent asking correct?

Well if i were him i would call friday night as a reminder and then Saturday if you picking her up tell her im picking you up____time and place. That is the correct way to go about it right?

I know some guys would be calling like 3or 4 times throughout the week and that is a terrible move to make cause it makes it more likely she will flake. Cause she will think your desperate.

 

[International Playa]

Like I've stated I'm working evenings right now so I only have basically Saturday night for dates, that will change in 2 months when my schedule changes to day shift.

Im asking becuz Im like you, most of my dates are Saturday, Im just not sure how much I should talk to the woman till the date

 

[Mainevent_7]

If you set up a date a week in advance with a womam, how often do you talk to the woman till the date????

I would hit her up a day or 2 before the date just to make sure yall still on for the date.