Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Lo-Co]

You need that coldness when dealing with women. Sometimes that's the only thing you can do to survive is be ruthless.

i need to be cold.

 

[Prynce]

i need to be cold.

What i mean is you have to be willing to do what needs to be done sometimes and not feel bad afterwards. It's hard to do but you have to stick with your guns.

 

[Atlrocafella]

I dropped it on her.

She cried but its for the best. Reps pending fellas.

Salute for the tough love

Glad you took care of that situation sir. I was about to be highly disappointed in my Nicca If you would of let this nonsense continued. I was about to be like "you know we live in Atlanta right? "

 

[DJSmooth]

I was at the strip club yesterday biting on the stripper titties I forgot where I was for a second

It took everything in me not to ask for her number. I only took out 41 dollars in cash didn't want to come off as a cheap nikka

If I had took some more money out I would have tired to take her home

 

[Lo-Co]

What i mean is you have to be willing to do what needs to be done sometimes and not feel bad afterwards. It's hard to do but you have to stick with your guns.

thats the thing. i was like my mother when it came to putting my foot down.

i always thought.
"maybe i was too hard on her"

and i rescinded what ever anger And seriousness i dished out.

i dont do that anymore. yet. i need to be firm in my ways.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

I really wish i knew my father or had a male father figure

not even when it comes women, but untapped potential...no brag,but people from all walks of life take a liking towards me..i just feel like i sell myself short sometimes

Means you a good dude breh...gotta get out your head. I do the same shyt breh TRUST ME.

But then I realize im not that lame loser nikka I thought I was..especially when I have OGs, boxing nikkas and shyt that fukk with me.

People wont associate with lame losers

We good breh

 

[CASHAPP]

For real any of yall ever come across guys who ramble too much? Just speaking long run on sentences when around women or talking to them?

Some of these guys are straight up sad. Dont even realize what they doing.

at the library now and this old guy just rambling with the library attendant. She asked him one question since she sees him alot and asked him "so are you gonna watch the presidential debate" tomorrow? This guy is just rambling after that and all she can get in is "right..." "right..." .Homie she asked you a question, at least let her get a word in.

Men need to learn that unless you debating a topic with someone to just keep it simple and short. I mean god damn. It makes you understand what alot of these women go through dealing with guys like this.

@InDePickWest knows exactly what i'm talking about. Guys cant hold conversations.

 

[Kal El]

Brehs, how you do you show higher value than a chick that has higher value that you?

Ex:

There's this square chick that I chopped it up with on FB a while back.

-She's got her master's and is currently going for her PhD. I'm still a year away from a bachelor's..

-She makes more $$$

-We're about the same level of attractiveness, however, I have a better body since I put in work in the gym.

She DM'ed me this morning telling me her schedule and seeing if I wanted to grab lunch sometime.

I've never been with or dated a girl who was more educated or made more money than me.... Call it insecurity, but I always thought she would have the upper hand in that type of scenario.

 

[360dagod]

Brehs, how you do you show higher value than a chick that has higher value that you?

Ex:

There's this square chick that I chopped it up with on FB a while back.

-She's got her master's and is currently going for her PhD. I'm still a year away from a bachelor's..

-She makes more $$$

-We're about the same level of attractiveness, however, I have a better body since I put in work in the gym.

She DM'ed me this morning telling me her schedule and seeing if I wanted to grab lunch sometime.

I've never been with or dated a girl who was more educated or made more money than me.... Call it insecurity, but I always thought she would have the upper hand in that type of scenario.

Act like you been there before

 

[Kal El]

For real any of yall ever come across guys who ramble too much? Just speaking long run on sentences when around women or talking to them?

Some of these guys are straight up sad. Dont even realize what they doing.

at the library now and this old guy just rambling with the library attendant. She asked him one question since she sees him alot and asked him "so are you gonna watch the presidential debate" tomorrow? This guy is just rambling after that and all she can get in is "right..." "right..." .Homie she asked you a question, at least let her get a word in.

Men need to learn that unless you debating a topic with someone to just keep it simple and short. I mean god damn. It makes you understand what alot of these women go through dealing with guys like this.

@InDePickWest knows exactly what i'm talking about. Guys cant hold conversations.

Yep....and to make matters worse, they talk TOO FAST and in a high pitched tone.

Your mouthpiece is critical

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Brehs, how you do you show higher value than a chick that has higher value that you?

Ex:

There's this square chick that I chopped it up with on FB a while back.

-She's got her master's and is currently going for her PhD. I'm still a year away from a bachelor's..

-She makes more $$$

-We're about the same level of attractiveness, however, I have a better body since I put in work in the gym.

She DM'ed me this morning telling me her schedule and seeing if I wanted to grab lunch sometime.

I've never been with or dated a girl who was more educated or made more money than me.... Call it insecurity, but I always thought she would have the upper hand in that type of scenario.

You already sound intimidated. The point is not to be.

Shes interested for a reason. Ive learned women can come off as very confident but in actuality theyre very used to themselves.

 

[A1aaa]

always ask a girl [casually] what her 5 year career/educational/life plan is.

if she gives you a vague answer or tells you some ambiguous bullshyt, bush that.

not that these are the defining characteristics of a person, but with all of us being in our 20s+, it does speak volumes about her ambition, maturity and responsibility.
and importantly, if she looking for a come-up in a financially stable brother.

it's a wonderful filter for women... i asked this to a girl i been talking to recently and her response made me reconsider pursuing. her number ain't in my phone anymore

 

[Mainevent_7]

You have to put your foot down with these women. If you give them an inch they will take a mile.

My plan this weekend was not go out to any bars and clubs since I've been turning up heavy for the last few months. So Yesterday the girl I am talking to, we went out to a wine tasting. On the way there my boy hit me up saying his granddad past away and he wanted to get drunk tonight. So I told him let me know when you hit the city so I can come out and make sure you don't get into any trouble. I told the chick the situation and she was cool that I might go out cause of my friend. Fast forward till the evening, the chick started to feel sick for what ever reason and when it was time for me to link up with my friend. She tried to get me to stay in the house with her last night. Fast forward to today; She has ignored my texts and calls. Females are something else when you put your foot down about a situation or when they don't get their way.

 

[True Blue Moon]

Brehs, how you do you show higher value than a chick that has higher value that you?

Ex:

There's this square chick that I chopped it up with on FB a while back.

-She's got her master's and is currently going for her PhD. I'm still a year away from a bachelor's..

-She makes more $$$

-We're about the same level of attractiveness, however, I have a better body since I put in work in the gym.

She DM'ed me this morning telling me her schedule and seeing if I wanted to grab lunch sometime.

I've never been with or dated a girl who was more educated or made more money than me....

Stop measuring yourself by imaginary standards that nobody is holding you to. Attraction is an energy. As long as you carry yourself like you should based on your love of yourself and what you got going on, she'll be attracted to that energy. And if she's not, then the two of you just aren't congruent.

Women are more in touch with their feelings, so she's going to pick up on that insecurity. Women want protection, security and love above all. She'll have zero problem making more money or being further along on a career track as long as she feels safe to be the woman emotionally because you're holding it down on your man shyt. If she feels you're intimidated then she has no chance of feeling safe and that's unattractive.

 

[It is a mystery]

always ask a girl [casually] what her 5 year career/educational/life plan is.

if she gives you a vague answer or tells you some ambiguous bullshyt, bush that.

not that these are the defining characteristics of a person, but with all of us being in our 20s+, it does speak volumes about her ambition, maturity and responsibility.
and importantly, if she looking for a come-up in a financially stable brother.

it's a wonderful filter for women... i asked this to a girl i been talking to recently and her response made me reconsider pursuing. her number ain't in my phone anymore

Idk about this. I have a very concrete future life plan however if someone I hardly knew asked me I'd tell the some ambiguous nonsense on purpose.
I would never have greater expectations for a woman to reveal intimate info than I would myself. As long as it's apparent they have something in mind (they've thought about it) and it's something you can handle morally/ethically then it's good enough