I didn't graduate from high school and college, work an internship on WallStreet, get a job at a fortune 100 company, grinded from low level employee to AVP, only to become a side nikka in lifeA guy that's not willing to be the side nikka?
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
- Start date
Youseenmywork
KING
I didn't graduate from high school and college, work an internship on WallStreet, get a job at a fortune 100 company, grinded from low level employee to AVP, only to become a side nikka in life
Im right there with you like I said I haven't been focused or wanted make time for women. I've focused on the man in the mirror. I wanna start a business so I've been focused. I've making major changes in my life as well. Like I said you have to say fukk women I'll get back ...when I'm more inspired.
NeilCartwright
All Star
So my mans is going out of state for work for a month.
Not gonna lie, I don't have a lot of bros I kick it with and he was the main one
Now when these females ask me to go out I gotta go solo (like tonight
)
Will this Fck me up if I'm riding solo for the next month, or am I trippen. I'm 22
Not gonna lie, I don't have a lot of bros I kick it with and he was the main one
Now when these females ask me to go out I gotta go solo (like tonight
)Will this Fck me up if I'm riding solo for the next month, or am I trippen. I'm 22
John Reena
Superstar
I can't stress this enuff:
GROOM YA SELVES!!
nikkaz be approaching chicks being musty, scraggly facial hair, clothes not fitting right, ugly clothes, bad breath, no haircut and then get mad when she curve em n wanna say women "superficial".
Would u give a chick ur phone number who had messed up hair and was musty? Ion think so!
GROOM YA SELVES!!!
GROOM YA SELVES!!
nikkaz be approaching chicks being musty, scraggly facial hair, clothes not fitting right, ugly clothes, bad breath, no haircut and then get mad when she curve em n wanna say women "superficial".
Would u give a chick ur phone number who had messed up hair and was musty? Ion think so!
GROOM YA SELVES!!!
Brehs how the duck do y'all bag numbers in a club? 
im not talking about taking them home same night, I'm just saying when I get numbers in the club they seem hella interested but don't reply the day after when i text them
In the past year or so I've also stopped giving a fukk about most of these hoes and do me more. Concentrate less on going to the club, bars etc and just concentrating on sports, college and my fam. Haven't had much p*ssy in a while can't lie but I ain't tripping over it
I'm also thinking about cutting my ex of for good my head is really saying I don't trust what she says half the time and nothing useful will come from us talking
I live on a college campus by the way but these hoes look completely different in the daytime when they don't get the chance to put on a dress and layers of makeup
same 8 you seen in the club is actually a 5/6 smh
The more I think about it I don't even have the energy or patience to deal with these girls man seems like a waste of time lol none are gonna be your girl or wife
im not talking about taking them home same night, I'm just saying when I get numbers in the club they seem hella interested but don't reply the day after when i text them In the past year or so I've also stopped giving a fukk about most of these hoes and do me more. Concentrate less on going to the club, bars etc and just concentrating on sports, college and my fam. Haven't had much p*ssy in a while can't lie but I ain't tripping over it
I'm also thinking about cutting my ex of for good my head is really saying I don't trust what she says half the time and nothing useful will come from us talkingI live on a college campus by the way but these hoes look completely different in the daytime when they don't get the chance to put on a dress and layers of makeup
same 8 you seen in the club is actually a 5/6 smhThe more I think about it I don't even have the energy or patience to deal with these girls man seems like a waste of time lol none are gonna be your girl or wife
Brehs how the duck do y'all bag numbers in a club?
In the past year or so I've also stopped giving a fukk about most of these hoes and do me more. Concentrate less on going to the club, bars etc and just concentrating on sports, college and my fam. Haven't had much p*ssy in a while can't lie but I ain't tripping over it
I live on a college campus by the way but these hoes look completely different in the daytime when they don't get the chance to put on a dress and layers of makeup
The more I think about it I don't even have the energy or patience to deal with these girls man seems like a waste of time lol none are gonna be your girl or wife
Either they gave u the number outta of pitty or just playing games
Also I don't txt a female the same day I get her number from the club I make her do it of her own choice cuz it shows interest on her part
There is no secret breh to be honest
Whether u smash a female that same night or get her digits and she responds
All comes down to how things went with her and what she feels at the end of the night
Just be urself confident is a big factor to females they can sense it and see it
Smiling makes them feel at ease
Making em laugh shows u got a sense of humor
Eye contact shows ur serious bout them
Some days I give em my number instead and force their hand that way cuz they had to make the move to contact me
Other times they gave me theirs but I don't call or txt em same day or day after usually 2 days after I do
Only time I do early cuz she begging like plz call me tonite or tomorrow then and only then will i oblige
As far as the make up thing it's easy to tell it's y I like em all natural with little as make up as possible nothing better than waking up with the same face morning and night instead of eyebrows missing and acne all of sudden popping out you didn't know they had
If ur ex wasting ur time cut her off for good only reason u keep something like that around is for sex usually
Youseenmywork
KING
What's the initial text you send the day after?Brehs how the duck do y'all bag numbers in a club?
In the past year or so I've also stopped giving a fukk about most of these hoes and do me more. Concentrate less on going to the club, bars etc and just concentrating on sports, college and my fam. Haven't had much p*ssy in a while can't lie but I ain't tripping over it
I live on a college campus by the way but these hoes look completely different in the daytime when they don't get the chance to put on a dress and layers of makeup
The more I think about it I don't even have the energy or patience to deal with these girls man seems like a waste of time lol none are gonna be your girl or wife
I have the same experience though, pulling numbers from bars/clubs is easy but my % of dates from those numbers is low.
I noticed I have the best success with girls who I conversate with for a good amount of time..... better chance of her remembering you since any attractive chick is gonna get multiple dudes asking for her digits. Plus the alcohol factor..
That's very true my breh although when I was talking to her everything was going well and we talked for about 10 mins so I thought she would respond. Obviously not
I just sent a hey it's Jamal from the club how you doing. That's how the text pretty much went and that's what I normally do. I thought something basic was the way to go as an initial text
To be fair her friend tried cockblock me and did mention her friend had a boyfriend
but she still seemed interested though
I don't like the drawbacks I have in life. I hate how my tongue feels restrained when I go to talk. I just want shyt to feel normal. Im trying to get women and work on weight issues.
Get a talent...or better yet a couple talents/hobby. Such as boxing/mma. If you have weight issues start lifting the weights, if the price of a gym is a problem save up and buy your own weights/
Travel...this is something that is underrated. When you have been to different places, you seem more well rounded. Even if you cant save up for a flight out of country even going to other states can do something for your self esteem.
If you want try to get a job that is something in a position of power that girls will respect. Guys get it twisted it always has to be a lawyer or doctor or something. It doesnt have to be that especially since the girls themselves are young too and know not everyone reaches that stage yet. But something as simple as working as a "security guard" and her seeing you in that uniform will have her feel a certain way. Or something like being an Uber/Lyft driver.
Basically what i'm saying is when you have more going for yourself you feel less stressed about what to talk about. Alot of times when she sees stuff like what i mentioned above then she will break the ice if you nervous. But i still think you could start with a simple hey how are you doing. And once you do get talking always remember dont babble or try to brag about what you do. keep it balanced. always remember you should be the one asking about her. dont keep the conversation on yourself too much.
@Jstar try to avoid the chicks who are being too obvious or slutty with the way they dress. Especially the older ones. Often those are the type of women who are looking for the ego boost of all the numbers hitting them up. Guys always talk about this and just remember those are the ones who would be most likely to waste their time. the ones dressing extra slutty and coming hard on every guy. they just want free drinks and to ignore calls on their phone.
Go for the women who are still dressed up nice but not tooo provocative and seem more quiet and sometimes off in the corner. I'm not talking the ones in the corner meanmugging. I mean the ones who seem shy, dressed good but classy . trust me those will be more serious 9 times out of 10 if your game is on point.
dont hit up women too soon especially on the weekend...around that time especially she will think you are desperate and dont have much to do. she will be like "why is this nikka hitting me up on a saturday doesnt he have other girls hitting him up?". it will make you look too available and they dont like that
just remember with texting dont text too much and text just to give a location or say "I'll pick you up at ___time___location". Dont drag it out...cause women of all ages, races, demographics,etc one thing they have in common is that you will drive them away if you hit them up too much.
Go for the women who are still dressed up nice but not tooo provocative and seem more quiet and sometimes off in the corner. I'm not talking the ones in the corner meanmugging. I mean the ones who seem shy, dressed good but classy . trust me those will be more serious 9 times out of 10 if your game is on point.
dont hit up women too soon especially on the weekend...around that time especially she will think you are desperate and dont have much to do. she will be like "why is this nikka hitting me up on a saturday doesnt he have other girls hitting him up?". it will make you look too available and they dont like that
just remember with texting dont text too much and text just to give a location or say "I'll pick you up at ___time___location". Dont drag it out...cause women of all ages, races, demographics,etc one thing they have in common is that you will drive them away if you hit them up too much.
I think I might be too picky because I only see a handful of women I'm willing to get at when I'm at school or hanging out. Most these chicks just seem mad average and mediocre to me. I just can't settle when my time is so valuable now.
DarkHorse23
Banned
What happened to that girl you were smitten over(last time we talked).
You get over heartbreak quick.
My nikka