Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Cadillac]

Being non-chalant, disinterested and not getting too invested is doing wonders for me

Stopped showing my hand and I'm winning now

Kinda funny when I cared I was taking L's now that I don't it's different

But how do I balance them and not be so possessive

what do you mean you stopped showing your hand?

you mean you stop looking like your desperate or something?

 

[Prynce]

what do you mean you stopped showing your hand?

you mean you stop looking like your desperate or something?

Stopped being so quick to show interest and my intentions. Keep em guessing

 

[Cadillac]

Stopped being so quick to show interest and my intentions. Keep em guessing

ok

i know someone who was implementing what you were doin, but always working on not seeming like he needed bytches.

which is why I was asking.

 

[twan83]

Being non-chalant, disinterested and not getting too invested is doing wonders for me

Stopped showing my hand and I'm winning now

Kinda funny when I cared I was taking L's now that I don't it's different

But how do I balance them and not be so possessive

Just not giving a fukk to be honest
Even if u meet someone that's of interest give her Cookie crumbs see how she is
When u really don't give a fukk that possessiveness will fade eventually you'll be chilled u can show a lil interest and be all calm see what they bout as time goes by give a lil more y she out here giving u the whole dinner plate
It comes naturally over time
But when u start like I love u I like u a lot within a few days buying her shyt and that's when she gonna abuse ur kindness and u in general
It's not about playing the game it's about being yourself but also setting the tone to ur standards and pace not letting her dictate it

 

[AlwaysLurkin]

This older lady at work said we should hangout so she give me the #.Now this bytch don't even respond when I txt her wtf was the purpose of giving me the #. She too old to beat around the bush

 

[twan83]

This older lady at work said we should hangout so she give me the #.Now this bytch don't even respond when I txt her wtf was the purpose of giving me the #. She too old to beat around the bush

Make herself feel good that u would txt her that she still got it nothing more

And also how soon did u txt like same day and no response or following day

 

[Prynce]

Just not giving a fukk to be honest
Even if u meet someone that's of interest give her Cookie crumbs see how she is
When u really don't give a fukk that possessiveness will fade eventually you'll be chilled u can show a lil interest and be all calm see what they bout as time goes by give a lil more y she out here giving u the whole dinner plate
It comes naturally over time
But when u start like I love u I like u a lot within a few days buying her shyt and that's when she gonna abuse ur kindness and u in general
It's not about playing the game it's about being yourself but also setting the tone to ur standards and pace not letting her dictate it

Thanks for the jewels breh they been helping me immensely

Really appreciate it big breh

 

[Prynce]

That just comes with respecting yourself. The more you go on this way and see you get rewarded for not trying, the more you'll realize that youre not doing anything different, girls just flock to the same characteristics. You still be a good dude but you dont need to prove it to any girl, the girl needs to prove to you she's worth you giving her more than apathy.

You just always gotta love yourself more than anyone can love you because at the end of the day, there is gonna be a bunch of people, not just women, who come in and out of your life and the only person who is gonna make sure you get up and do what you gotta do everyday is yourself. So you gotta be the possession. You gotta be the person women wanna be possessive of because if they arent, they know youre capable of going out and getting it or youre gonna be just fine without it.

I think most men have gone through what youre going through. At first we try and do shyt we think women will like, it doesnt go as planned so we do what we like and thats when they start noticing. So just always take care of yourself and bettering yourself in ways that give you the confidence that no matter what happens, things arent happening to you, just around you.

You right fam my whole mindset basically has been in a complete rework. I'm still a work in progress but y'all brehs been helping me work it out a lot got a lot of shyt from here that been working irl the way I want.

 

[AlwaysLurkin]

Make herself feel good that u would txt her that she still got it nothing more

And also how soon did u txt like same day and no response or following day

Same day to save my #,she actually did respond but 2 days later when I text her its 1 response then that's it

 

[InDePickWest]

We back talking.

Ol light skinned no-text back thug bytch

 

[twan83]

Same day to save my #,she actually did respond but 2 days later when I text her its 1 response then that's it

Should of waited at least a day to txt her I really don't the same day unless we got plans that day or she says u better txt me asap today or txt too see if I get home ok cuz usually in those cases she dtf pretty early
If she gives u a small response means she ain't interested in u when they are it be a longer response or a gang of txt or phone calls

 

[Atlrocafella]

It's cuffing season brehs, but don't sweat these women, just keep casually approaching and let the right one fall in your lap.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

We back talking.

Ol light skinned no-text back thug bytch

so this lame chick is still posting here

 

[InDePickWest]

so this lame chick is still posting here

Put me on ignore fakkit

 

[havoc]

So like fate, I run into her.

She ignores me. I finally go talk to her and she lets me know she's upset that I demanded her time so quickly. She said she's busy (she just moved) and didn't like I called her 'fake'...but I was joking..sort of


We talked..I walked with her and we made tentative plans to cook and go out for drinks.

So damn confusing wit her fine ass

We need to join forces to smash a few chicks together.