Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Finna go hiking next week if she text back. :wow:.

I never been hiking but she likes to hike so watch my black ass get up on them mountains and start trekking
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How do you reiterate to these females you're not looking for anything serious? I swear they don't listen when you tell them you're not looking for a relationship and then they still catch feelings. I told one chick that relationship are dope but I'm still not where I want to be career and personal wise to even entertain one. Like right now I'm super selfish and I do what I want and do not want to answer to anyone about what I'm doing.

Also, is it wrong to invite a chick your smashing to grab a bite to eat or to an event when you don't want a serious relationship with her?
Why can't you guys just say 'women'?
 

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How do you reiterate to these females you're not looking for anything serious? I swear they don't listen when you tell them you're not looking for a relationship and then they still catch feelings. I told one chick that relationship are dope but I'm still not where I want to be career and personal wise to even entertain one. Like right now I'm super selfish and I do what I want and do not want to answer to anyone about what I'm doing.

Also, is it wrong to invite a chick your smashing to grab a bite to eat or to an event when you don't want a serious relationship with her?
This is starting to be my go to play, even with women that I wouldn't mind settling down with. They don't want a man that's easily attainable, and when you say this you become a challenge.

And you even threw in the I'm trying to work on myself bit? Breh you're running game without even trying lol

Makes it easier to smash too since you've already let it be known that you're not looking for anything serious..... And some girls use giving up the puss as a desperation move to try to get you in a relationship
 

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This is starting to be my go to play, even with women that I wouldn't mind settling down with. They don't want a man that's easily attainable, and when you say this you become a challenge.

And you even threw in the I'm trying to work on myself bit? Breh you're running game without even trying lol

Makes it easier to smash too since you've already let it be known that you're not looking for anything serious..... And some girls use giving up the puss as a desperation move to try to get you in a relationship
Gotta up my girls on game.
 

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How do you reiterate to these females you're not looking for anything serious? I swear they don't listen when you tell them you're not looking for a relationship and then they still catch feelings. I told one chick that relationship are dope but I'm still not where I want to be career and personal wise to even entertain one. Like right now I'm super selfish and I do what I want and do not want to answer to anyone about what I'm doing.

Also, is it wrong to invite a chick your smashing to grab a bite to eat or to an event when you don't want a serious relationship with her?

U don't I just ignore their asses
They desire something they can't attain or is hard to get it's that simple
I use to do the same shyt and say I ain't looking just enjoying life for fun

No it ain't wrong if u made it clear to her nothing more than that just know she will see it otherwise nothing u can do bout it I use to do the same only difference is if I get annoyed enough after I make it clear I completely :camby: them quicker than usain bolt running in the olympics

What I use to do was be like with females is this and always kept it this way

Even when I was looking for a relationship
I have this thing with labels
U have to prove yourself


When I say we're talking that means u do u and I do me not exclusive
U see me with another chic don't get mad or ur cut from the roster
Cuz I won't give a damn if u with another dude
If we fukk we fukk it means nothing just something we both wanted and enjoyed

U have to earn the right to be called my girl and be better than the others

It's a routine I always used keeps things in perspective and simple and makes it easier for me to have my fun still while trying too see if someone was worthy of my time to be serious

Nothing better than doing things ur way and at ur own pace best of all when u say it upfront and they try to say shyt later u be like what did I tell u from get go what's wrong cat got ur tongue fukk outta here told u straight up was 100 with u and u can't respect that bushes u shall go
 

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dont tell a girl you're really feeling to "do her".

it sounds great if the girls on ur roster aint all that hot.

see, back in the day, i use to run through chicks like it was nothing. i had a lot of time on my hands back then. id go to work and leave work at work. so when i was home, i had time galore. and i filled up the times with women. but i was never content. these women always had something about them that made me not want to make them my girl. either she was too skinny, spoke like a hoodlum, has a kid, had abortions, bad hygiene, or whatever it is. so i guess u can say back then "they were on my roster - a roster filled with chicks i really wasn't feeling". i managed this roster quite effectively because there were no feelings (on my end) involved. i knew there was no way in hell i'd change my mind about these women.

i say all that to say this:

when u do meet a girl who u really like, and u know she knows she's hot, all these rules or rigid way of thinking goes out the door. you will not be telling her "hey, u do u and i do me". lol. no, u will not say that. because she will do her because whatever it is that made u like her enough to wanna make her ur girl, is sure to make dozens of other guys wanna make her their girl as well. so u telling a girl u really like to do her is basically shooting urself in the foot.
 

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Pretty much decided only to fukk with women I really could see myself being seen in public with. Its pretty easy to lower my standards just to have some estrogen in the vincinity but that shyt is starting to really get old and it just reminds me that these wack bytches aren't as bad as my ex with creates a revolving door of irritatbility. Easiest way to get over a girl is get a better one so thats the only type of women I'm dealing with from now on. Sex aint that big of a deal to me right now.
 

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Pretty much decided only to fukk with women I really could see myself being seen in public with. Its pretty easy to lower my standards just to have some estrogen in the vincinity but that shyt is starting to really get old and it just reminds me that these wack bytches aren't as bad as my ex with creates a revolving door of irritatbility. Easiest way to get over a girl is get a better one so thats the only type of women I'm dealing with from now on. Sex aint that big of a deal to me right now.
thats a sign of maturity. and also smart. u dont wanna fucck around and impregnate some chick u dont even like.
 

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thats a sign of maturity. and also smart. u dont wanna fucck around and impregnate some chick u dont even like.
preciate it. I just set up some meet up last night with a average beckie and I woke up the next day like why bother. I'm not trying to take it any further than some top. Some top that probably aint gonna do shyt for me. So why bother.

If a chick not already on her grizzy got some ambitions, good looking, take care of herself I aint bothering because I'm doing all of that shyt. Like attracts like. Until I start holding myself to a higher standard why should I expect to attract that standard regularly?
 
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