Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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This chick message me on 1 of them dating sites and she's cute.We exchange numbers so we can plan a time to chill...I find her Facebook and she's a stud on there :patrice:
So we meet in person and she ok...a lil heavier than I thought but not fat.dikk suckin skills dooky..cool chick tho
 

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Don't stress bout where to take a chick. U know where a lot of my first dates be at? MCDONALD'S.

:russ:

Go grab sum food, grab a booth, let her tell u about herself.

I wouldn't go to a macdonalds but that shyt is poison but basic premise is correct. spend lil to no money, and get her to talk about herself. You'll get the intel on if you need to bush her or not, it builds attraction since she the one doing th etalking, you get to remain a mystery. I hate dinner dates in general because if she not your main you trying to get to know this chick and its a timer on those dates. Being at a restaurant more than 2 hours is weird.
 

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So I did the most mature thing I could do and just cut off all the girls on my roster who I didn't plan on being with. It was the right thing to do. Here are my thoughts.

The positive:
-I've been more productive and able to get back to some of my hobbies and passions
-No drama. I don't have to worry about any arguments or negativity.

The negatives:
-I aint gon' lie, it is a bit lonely over here. I just spent this whole weekend in the house by myself. :damn:

Overall, I'm good. Although, it's going to be hard to break my habit of hitting a chick up just for companionship. :mjcry: Older single brehs, how da fukk do yall manage this shyt without having a bunch of homies to kick it with?
Im in the same posituon myself at the moment. It gives you time to think, that's for sure. Just be good on your own time doing your own things(the waves of loneliness will pass) and get out to do something by yourself. Dinner movie, event, bar, etc.

I'm in no mental/emotional space to be in a relationship right now. I'm just going to go day by day and let it be.
 

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Im in the same posituon myself at the moment. It gives you time to think, that's for sure. Just be good on your own time doing your own things(the waves of loneliness will pass) and get out to do something by yourself. Dinner movie, event, bar, etc.

I'm in no mental/emotional space to be in a relationship right now. I'm just going to go day by day and let it be.
Its been a while since I was in a relationship. I really enjoy the solo time. Besides the occasional lonely feeling. Self reflection helps so much. :wow:
 

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I think I'm looking too hard for one at this point. I need to stop pressing and be easy.
I feel like if you find something interesting to get lost in, it will guide you to new places. Some type of new hobby. Thats what I'm trying to do.
 

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Dang. That's so dope. Had no idea she did all that work on cartoons.

:ohhh:

That's an awesome goal breh. I wish you the best in finding your Susie.
i was more familiar with her cartoon work when i was younger. i always saw the name on the credits. then i saw a different world and sat there for 5 minutes like :gladbron::mindblown::dwillhuh:
 
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