I've had this happen so many times lately its taking the fun outta approaching some nowI don't get immediately get excited When I talk and flirt with women. For some reason I just assume they're gonna pump fake like usual

Its like walking around with my hand on my gun in a sense. Some people are likeI've had this happen so many times lately its taking the fun outta approaching some now![]()

thats not the pointSo I'm supposed to take a chick to an expensive restaurant on tha first date? Oh ok, lol!
Nope. Dont go. Go to a bar where there will be a bountiful supply of ladies in scantily clad costumes.soo...there's this girl ive been friends with for about a decade..shyt always been platonic and she got a dude she been with for about 5 years now, me and him cool
at her bday party last year, i ended up making out with/exchanging numbers with one of her co-workers and getting a number from another one that I shared an uber home with...my "friend" found out and shat on me to both of them claiming i was tryna talk to/fukk both of them..which I wasnt..I'd already met the second girl beforehand and found out she was stoner/ lived up the block from me. We just got each other number on some lets hang out shyt...but if I was going for both, im single, they single, we grown..fukk is the problem?
but either way, both the girls went cold on a nikka after that while i was already knee deep in a drought that aint really got no better this year
anyway...my "friend" is expecting me to come to her halloween party..
both her co-workers AND a girl i used to fukk with are going to be there
i guess im asking...should i even go to this and if I do, how should i maneuver? should i cold shoulder everybody or shoot for the comeback?
what yall think ?![]()
thats not the point
its better to find a better alternative to restaurants and cheaper places that are cost effective and classy at the same time.
-a coffee shop
-desert place
-bar (alot of places on weekends got cheap deals)
etc.
not spending money on these chics is ideal but a place like mcdonalds not all these chics are gonna take that bait because of the connotation that well.....its mcdonalds lol
i know im just saying theres no real need to going to a restaurant.Ya thinkin too hard. A chick who diggin don't care if it's a coffee shop, bar, etc., they just happy to be able to kick it with you.
PUA advice is so bad for the game.
U ain't gotta do all that bullshyt to get a woman.
BE CONFIDENT
Just be ur self
Have good hygiene
Wear some cologne
SMILE
Wear nice clothes
Don't say nothing dumb
and u good.
Ya thinkin too hard. A chick who diggin don't care if it's a coffee shop, bar, etc., they just happy to be able to kick it with you.

You can say this but when they say something I agree upon or is universally know or should be in stand for it. Also I also stand for men finding a way not to be emasculated from women or feminine imperative. I don't like the aura of PUA but I'm never going to not disregard knowledge that may help or help others.

PUA is JIVE. It's like those scans like Vector, Pre Paid Legal, Wake Up Now. They "tricks" and "advice" are basically nonsense.
I mean, if u a ugly nikka who dress bad n have no social skills....how is standing a certain way or talking a certain way gonna make a dime sleep with you? It's offering false hope
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PUA is JIVE. It's like those scans like Vector, Pre Paid Legal, Wake Up Now. They "tricks" and "advice" are basically nonsense.
I mean, if u a ugly nikka who dress bad n have no social skills....how is standing a certain way or talking a certain way gonna make a dime sleep with you? It's offering false hope
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I think it general it sucks. but for dudes with no hope it is a good starting point until they find there swag. But its definitely inferior to changing your whole vibe organically so you not being a pua and just being yoruself