Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Youseenmywork]

"Hey you wanna grab so,e drinks when your free?"

Women are so clueless to courtship smh

Thats cause they don't have to put in as much work or men aren't making them put in work. Which is men's fault especially if the women is a quote unquote dime.

 

[Lo-Co]

NEVER trade you essence or manhood to hunt women. When that same energy can be used in other areas of your life that could use your energy and time. I want and wish ALL men were good with women remember dealing with women is a learning experience and a hobbie.

I'm letting it all come to me. I know I'm a catch to someone. I just don't want to lose who I am.

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

"Hey you wanna grab so,e drinks when your free?"

Women are so clueless to courtship smh

Why the insults? Look how long this thread is, doesn't look like men have a clue about courtship either

I figured this would be a respectful place to ask for advice since everyone is so open on here, but never the fukk mind..never posting in here again.

 

[Deafheaven]

Why the insults? Look how long this thread is, doesn't look like men have a clue about courtship either

I figured this would be a respectful place to ask for advice since everyone is so open on here, but never the fukk mind..never posting in here again.

I gave you a great answer and you aggy because I'm telling the truth in the second sentence

peace then. I'm pretty sure the salon has a applicable thread anyway.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Once a woman isn't treating you the way you want her to (i.e., she isn't chasing you), you drop her. You cut contact and work on self-improvement and meet more women. Nothing else.

-unknow

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

What's a good way to show a new man friend that you're interested in him without seeming pressed/desperate/etc etc. Asking for a friend Thanks, brehs

What's wrong with looking pressed?

If a girl makes it clear she's really interested in me, she gets my full attention and time.

The ones who act like we're lucky to get time with you are the ones who get bushed.

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

What's wrong with looking pressed?

If a girl makes it clear she's really interested in me, she gets my full attention and time.

The ones who act like we're lucky to get time with you are the ones who get bushed.

I personally don't think there's anything wrong with it, but I get mixed messages from men about women who take initiative for dates and stuff.

 

[Deafheaven]

I personally don't think there's anything wrong with it, but I get mixed messages from men about women who take initiative for dates and stuff.

I'm sorry I was on tilt from that one chick who comes in here attention whoring with her lesbian fantasies. I'll try to be less of an a$$hole.

No man should dislike a woman who is actively chasing him. Personally if I'm not exclusive with anyone and just dating that women would instantly go to top of list as far as wanting to go out with her. A woman who makes attraction effortless is so preferred. nikkas who say they like the chase and alla that are just silly and confused.

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

I'm sorry I was on tilt from that one chick who comes in here attention whoring with her lesbian fantasies. I'll try to be less of an a$$hole.

No man should dislike a woman who is actively chasing him. Personally if I'm not exclusive with anyone and just dating that women would instantly go to top of list as far as wanting to go out with her. A woman who makes attraction effortless is so preferred. nikkas who say they like the chase and alla that are just silly and confused.

A while ago, someone had replied to one of my messages in some thread and basically said men are suspicious of women who are givers. In other words, a man will think that a woman has a negative, ulterior agenda if she is relatively pleasant and just does nice things for him. I wanted to reply like but I actually have a few personal experiences that support his opinion...what do you think?

 

[Deafheaven]

A while ago, someone had replied to one of my messages in some thread and basically said men are suspicious of women who are givers. In other words, a man will think that a woman has a negative, ulterior agenda if she is relatively pleasant and just does nice things for him. I wanted to reply like but I actually have a few personal experiences that support his opinion...what do you think?

IDK. I usually go by actions of a woman moreso than words. So if her actions are that of a giver then I'm going to assume that what she is. Dudes just scared of being hurt and expect women to fukk them. Which isn't necesarilly a bad view to have to protect yourself but meh, I'm kind of at a point where I just take shyt as it comes. If shes pleasant all the time I'll be pleasant as well and we'll be a pleasant ass couple

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

IDK. I usually go by actions of a woman moreso than words. So if her actions are that of a giver then I'm going to assume that what she is. Dudes just scared of being hurt and expect women to fukk them. Which isn't necesarilly a bad view to have to protect yourself but meh, I'm kind of at a point where I just take shyt as it comes. If shes pleasant all the time I'll be pleasant as well and we'll be a pleasant ass couple

Lol I dig that. I definitely feel you on people being scared of getting hurt thing. It's stressful opening up to someone and not knowing how they're going to receive it. "It is a risk to love. What if it doesn't work out? Ah, but what if it does?"

 

[twan83]

A while ago, someone had replied to one of my messages in some thread and basically said men are suspicious of women who are givers. In other words, a man will think that a woman has a negative, ulterior agenda if she is relatively pleasant and just does nice things for him. I wanted to reply like but I actually have a few personal experiences that support his opinion...what do you think?

I don't think that necessarily but it does keep me on my toes
Cuz a lot of times a woman like that could be putting up a front just to set u up for failure and heartbreak

It's a wonderful thing also imo and more appealing if she is but only if it's natural and seems genuine

That's where the problem is cuz u can't tell most of the time
Unless u have experience of dealing with women like that too know if it's the real deal
And cuz scared of being hurt
When u a have a guy who doesn't give a fukk attitude he can deal with women like that easier cuz his mind frame is if she truly like that coo
If she not bushes she shall go with the quickness

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

I don't think that necessarily but it does keep me on my toes
Cuz a lot of times a woman like that could be putting up a front just to set u up for failure and heartbreak

It's a wonderful thing also imo and more appealing if she is but only if it's natural and seems genuine

That's where the problem is cuz u can't tell most of the time
Unless u have experience of dealing with women like that too know if it's the real deal
And cuz scared of being hurt
When u a have a guy who doesn't give a fukk attitude he can deal with women like that easier cuz his mind frame is if she truly like that coo
If she not bushes she shall go with the quickness

So for a guy who is more on the cautious side, how does he determine whether she's being genuine or not? Is it a certain time frame or what?

 

[twan83]

So for a guy who is more on the cautious side, how does he determine whether she's being genuine or not? Is it a certain time frame or what?

Depends on past experience of been hurt how bad it was
And time. The timeframe is TBD basically no limit just on when he feels at peace to know if she legit

 

[Deafheaven]

So for a guy who is more on the cautious side, how does he determine whether she's being genuine or not? Is it a certain time frame or what?

He doesn't. Men who operate out of fear are destined to never be truly happy imo