Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Fellas,

I need some advice. I was dating this girl for 1.5 years and she ended things a few months ago and we had no contact.

I dropped her a message last week and we met up for drinks. Everything went really well, there was no awkwardness and she seemed to have a really good time. At the end of the night, we hugged and went out our separate ways.

I haven't text her since, and would like to rekindle things. However, I don't want to end up in the friend zone, not sure what the next move should be.

I'd leave it alone breh. If life brings y'all back together down the road then so be it, but a woman that is interested in being with you is going to be with you. It appears that even though she broke up with you, you're the pursuer still. Even though men are hunters, you always have to leave that bit of space for the woman to choose up and she ain't choosing.

After being together a year-and-a-half, a kiss, at the very least would have happened if she felt those sparks. A chick that really really really wants to be with you is going to give you some "Damn. Why did we ever break up?" energy after reconciling, but it seems like y'all just had a nice, fun outing. Let this be a one off breh. Let her go about her business while you do the same.
 

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Shawty Lo died in a car accident on Sept. 21. Today (Oct. 17), TMZ reports that the ATL rapper had pills on him at the time of his demise.

The “Dey Know” rapper’s cause of death was blunt force to the head from the crash, which ejected him from the vehicle. During the autopsy, the Fulton County Medical Examiner also found a prescription bottle on him labeled “promethazine.” However, the container held Percocet and Vicodin pills, not syrup. The medical examiner also tells TMZ that the body bag emitted a strong smell of alcohol.

In another strange twist, the medical examiner says the two females in the car with Shawty Lo at the time of the crash asked the police on the scene if they could take a bunch of cash out of the rapper’s pockets. Allegedly, the cops let the women take Shawty Lo’s money. The girls left behind “around” $16, according to TMZ.


Shawty Lo, real name Carlos Walker, was 40 years old and is survived by 11 children. He is perhaps best known for the aforementioned 2007 hit “Dey Know,” which peaked at No. 31 on the Billboard Hot 100 chart, and as a founding member of D4L, who rose to prominence in 2005 with their hit “Laffy Taffy.” Lo last released “Put Some Respek on It” in late April, which was supposed to be featured on a forthcoming mixtape.

At the time of death, Shawty Lo’s manager tweeted out, “My brother has passed he is no longer here but his spirit, his kind heart, and his music will live on Long live Shawty Lo King of Bankhead.”


^^^^While you at it tell your same stripper "homegirls" about chicks robbing money from a man who just died in a car crash...

Is it completely off topic? Of course it is...but i just want to show you "debunkery"...the women of your generation are getting to be real grimy...i think a guy exagerrating on his IG page isnt the worse thing
These girls don't give a fukk about these nikkas. nikka lying there in pieces and Shawties wanna pick a dead man's pockets. These nikkas choose these broads though. They know they don't give a fukk about them.
 

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These girls don't give a fukk about these nikkas. nikka lying there in pieces and Shawties wanna pick a dead man's pockets. These nikkas choose these broads though. They know they don't give a fukk about them.
that shyt is sad. i dont get why people still choose individuals that they know are detrimental to their way of life. yet the red flags are ignored. :francis:
 

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Just do what I do. Shiiiid, I carry myself like I'm da greatest back who ever lived. It all starts in ya mind bro.

See it's an interesting thing because some women think I'm arrogant. But if I meet a woman in the club I might appear swagless because it doesn't suit any of my strengths (conversation, husband potential) and accentuates all my weaknesses (dancing, cold approaches).

So when I'm out of my element I overthink things and just keep to myself or only approach girls that show a definite interest.
 

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See it's an interesting thing because some women think I'm arrogant. But if I meet a woman in the club I might appear swagless because it doesn't suit any of my strengths (conversation, husband potential) and accentuates all my weaknesses (dancing, cold approaches).

So when I'm out of my element I overthink things and just keep to myself or only approach girls that show a definite interest.
im the exact same way. Only thing is i'm good at cold approaches in daylight...just not in the club.
 

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See it's an interesting thing because some women think I'm arrogant. But if I meet a woman in the club I might appear swagless because it doesn't suit any of my strengths (conversation, husband potential) and accentuates all my weaknesses (dancing, cold approaches).

So when I'm out of my element I overthink things and just keep to myself or only approach girls that show a definite interest.

U just gotta stop overthinking and just be ya self. Just make sure u don't say anything crazy
 

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