Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'd leave it alone breh. If life brings y'all back together down the road then so be it, but a woman that is interested in being with you is going to be with you. It appears that even though she broke up with you, you're the pursuer still. Even though men are hunters, you always have to leave that bit of space for the woman to choose up and she ain't choosing.

After being together a year-and-a-half, a kiss, at the very least would have happened if she felt those sparks. A chick that really really really wants to be with you is going to give you some "Damn. Why did we ever break up?" energy after reconciling, but it seems like y'all just had a nice, fun outing. Let this be a one off breh. Let her go about her business while you do the same.

Thanks breh.
 
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I swear every time I'm about to get serious with someone some BS will arise. I found out she was still in contact with her ex on a daily basis. I told her straight up told her "I would like to be with you but if you and your ex are going to remain in constant contact with each other, it is just best we be friends until you figure out that situation. I'm not here to entertain that. I apologize for swerving you over the weekend (at homecoming she came up to me and I just walked away with out saying anything) it wasn't my intention. it just some things I'm not here for if we are going to be dealing with each other".
 

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I swear every time I'm about to get serious with someone some BS will arise. I found out she was still in contact with her ex on a daily basis. I told her straight up told her "I would like to be with you but if you and your ex are going to remain in constant contact with each other, it is just best we be friends until you figure out that situation. I'm not here to entertain that. I apologize for swerving you over the weekend (at homecoming she came up to me and I just walked away with out saying anything) it wasn't my intention. it just some things I'm not here for if we are going to be dealing with each other".
:salute: you handled that as you should.
 

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See it's an interesting thing because some women think I'm arrogant. But if I meet a woman in the club I might appear swagless because it doesn't suit any of my strengths (conversation, husband potential) and accentuates all my weaknesses (dancing, cold approaches).

So when I'm out of my element I overthink things and just keep to myself or only approach girls that show a definite interest.

I'm the same way.


Except I can dance.


:smugdraper:

:pachaha:
 
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