Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I need to up my sexual vibe. Chick I was digging just deaded my invite for a second date. convo was great, didn't contest the kiss, thought shyt wsa gucci. I might have acted a lil too hastily in trying to set something else up but fukk it :yeshrug: attraction just wasn't high enough. Thats a fault of my game I gots to fix. Brehs I cain for the life of me figure out how to properly escalate these bullshyt introductory dates if they aren't at my crib. Like its only so much shyt I feel I can do outside of being a good linguist and being good looking to build attraction. Usually thats good enough but this last chick got me thinking what could I do more of :ld:
 

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theres times where i wish i had a Harem. of women to choose from. to basically have a large amount of options, be detatched. not care. sometimes i want to see what that is like. its like the grass looks greener because of the emotion that i dwell in. but i give too much of a fukk about women i deal with. its hard not to care about people. yet i dont want to be a secondary choice nikka.
 
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I need to up my sexual vibe. Chick I was digging just deaded my invite for a second date. convo was great, didn't contest the kiss, thought shyt wsa gucci. I might have acted a lil too hastily in trying to set something else up but fukk it :yeshrug: attraction just wasn't high enough. Thats a fault of my game I gots to fix. Brehs I cain for the life of me figure out how to properly escalate these bullshyt introductory dates if they aren't at my crib. Like its only so much shyt I feel I can do outside of being a good linguist and being good looking to build attraction. Usually thats good enough but this last chick got me thinking what could I do more of :ld:

You probably dont raise any emotion out of them..
If a girl dosent playfully touch you,the attraction isnt there at the moment...
The kiss is only a good sign if she initiates it imo..
 

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I need to up my sexual vibe. Chick I was digging just deaded my invite for a second date. convo was great, didn't contest the kiss, thought shyt wsa gucci. I might have acted a lil too hastily in trying to set something else up but fukk it :yeshrug: attraction just wasn't high enough. Thats a fault of my game I gots to fix. Brehs I cain for the life of me figure out how to properly escalate these bullshyt introductory dates if they aren't at my crib. Like its only so much shyt I feel I can do outside of being a good linguist and being good looking to build attraction. Usually thats good enough but this last chick got me thinking what could I do more of :ld:
Thats how it goes sometimes. Ive been on dates exactly like the one you described and thought, "shyt, that was cool. I look forward to seeing her again."

Then... nada.

Add the fact that you felt she was also interested and vibing...

It leaves you sitting there bewildered and frustrated.

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I'm approaching women but I still need to get rid of my ego when it comes to rejection. I feel like its awkward trying to find an opening to approach at college.
 

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Thats how it goes sometimes. Ive been on dates exactly like the one you described and thought, "shyt, that was cool. I look forward to seeing her again."

Then... nada.

Add the fact that you felt she was also interested and vibing...

It leaves you sitting there bewildered and frustrated.

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Im honestly at the point now breh where im sting for a minute then just hit the yeshrug. They loss.
 

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Thats how it goes sometimes. Ive been on dates exactly like the one you described and thought, "shyt, that was cool. I look forward to seeing her again."

Then... nada.

Add the fact that you felt she was also interested and vibing...

It leaves you sitting there bewildered and frustrated.

98026_original.gif

Yep been through it myself majority of us have. One of the things I like about the woman I'm currently dating is she is great communication. She is very blunt but she goes about it the right way.
 
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