Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Its easy to talk to women when Im just being platonic.
But when I actually want something more from them I turn into a mute nervous weirdo. :sadcam:

Subconsciously, you're too desperate for p*ssy. That's why you are watching every word you day instead of talking naturally. Because you're thinking "if I screw up, I'm not getting sex".
 

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Subconsciously, you're too desperate for p*ssy. That's why you are watching every word you day instead of talking naturally. Because you're thinking "if I screw up, I'm not getting sex".
Thanks for the armchair diagnosis but you're way off breh. Sex isnt what I mean when I say I want more from a woman. :francis:
 

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Subconsciously, you're too desperate for p*ssy. That's why you are watching every word you day instead of talking naturally. Because you're thinking "if I screw up, I'm not getting sex".
Breh right on it.

The only difference between talking to platonic girls and crushes is that you let the crush know every now and then you have plans for more than just friends. But otherwise its the same natural convo other than when you talking about sex shyt.
 

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How though?

Why you don't just do exactly what you do here...in real life?

It's the exact same thing man, make jokes, be funny, and that's like 75% of the battle.

You already do that here.
See I can do that with most people but when it comes to women I actually want to be with, I overthink things to the 10th degree. I used to have real bad self-esteem issues and I think thats where that comes from. It's not as bad anymore but its still there.
 

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See I can do that with most people but when it comes to women I actually want to be with, I overthink things to the 10th degree. I used to have real bad self-esteem issues and I think thats where that comes from. It's not as bad anymore but its still there.
See the thing with self-esteem is that you beat yourself up over the absolute worst shyt that could happen. And the reality is that its just not that serious. If you strike out with someone, you strike out. But you still gonna wake up tomorrow and keep on living. So you just move on and keep trying. The FEAR of rejection is worse than the actual rejection.
 

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Subconsciously, you're too desperate for p*ssy. That's why you are watching every word you day instead of talking naturally. Because you're thinking "if I screw up, I'm not getting sex".
What would one do to sway that away from. Ones subconscious ?
 
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