Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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See I can do that with most people but when it comes to women I actually want to be with, I overthink things to the 10th degree. I used to have real bad self-esteem issues and I think thats where that comes from. It's not as bad anymore but its still there.
Starting today treat every fukking womab the same. Fat, ugly, gorgeous, skinny tall. All the same.
 
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#25 – Stop making black and white movies into Technicolor.
You see women as better than they are, you think she’s worth so much more than she is. In reality it is you who is ascribing this extravalue to her, she does not actually possess it. As an asset you are worth more than her,your value appreciates with age whilst hers depreciates. Stop seeing women in somegolden light, like her farts don’t stink and she has no bad qualities, because her shyt doessmell and she has plenty of fukking issues which you fail to acknowledge. Your minddeludedly constructs this false ideal to foolyou into thinking she’s better than she is oreven worse, that you’re not worthy [of her.]

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Older women and their thirst to move a man into the house is unmatched. :wow:

This 43 year old woman I know been dating this dude that does oddjobs, for 6 months and just got him to sell his house and move in with her. :whew:

The desperation, on both sides. :scust:
 

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so my ex hit me out of the blue last week and we went out for drinks last night. Ofc that shyt led to fukking and her telling this your p*ssy and all that good shyt. My question is how should I handle this so its her idea to want to spend more time with me. Im working a couple plates right now so ain't desperate but my ex is on bc and puss is like water so I'd honestly rather fukk her than these other hoes with a rubber. How should I move going forward

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Why did you guys break up?

I have a strict Jo ex policy unless we broke up because of long distance or something and she p I moved back to the same city.




so my ex hit me out of the blue last week and we went out for drinks last night. Ofc that shyt led to fukking and her telling this your p*ssy and all that good shyt. My question is how should I handle this so its her idea to want to spend more time with me. Im working a couple plates right now so ain't desperate but my ex is on bc and puss is like water so I'd honestly rather fukk her than these other hoes with a rubber. How should I move going forward

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That's the only way you win, a CEO doesn't care if your the cfo or janitor if you mess up your ass is getting walked out regardless of your accomplishments in the organization.

Too many men give attractive women the disease of leeway and end up getting burned.

Im to scared to speak up I may lose her,

Starting today treat every fukking womab the same. Fat, ugly, gorgeous, skinny tall. All the same.
 

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Why did you guys break up?

I have a strict Jo ex policy unless we broke up because of long distance or something and she p I moved back to the same city.
She got emo and deaded it. I'm honestly too forgiving in general as I don't hold grudges against anyone not even my piece of shyt dad so she hit me up and made it very easy to get inside of her with the least amount of resistance Iv seen. I literally put my hand on her stomach and she said I was trouble and it was on. Idk if she wants a fwb type thing or what, I'm busy this weekend so I ain't bout to text her or nothing but if she's going to keep making shyt easy for me I'll keep ducking with her :yeshrug:
 

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so my ex hit me out of the blue last week and we went out for drinks last night. Ofc that shyt led to fukking and her telling this your p*ssy and all that good shyt. My question is how should I handle this so its her idea to want to spend more time with me. Im working a couple plates right now so ain't desperate but my ex is on bc and puss is like water so I'd honestly rather fukk her than these other hoes with a rubber. How should I move going forward

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if only u knew the power you have in ur hands right now.

what i would do is treat her as a jump off. dont go to a movie or dinner before u fucck. each time u meet, make sure its to fucck. dont do anything that does not involve sex. no giving her rides anywhere. no meeting up for lunch during work hours, unless she blows u first. and whenever u do mess around, always kick her out. meaning, dont be cuddling and all that bullsh1t afterwards..

and always keep urself busy or give the illusion that you're busy. with what? that should be and must be left to her imagination. NEVER EVER tell her what u got to do when she wants to stay longer with u. just tell her u got business to handle. dont punk out on this. women have a way of pressing u for information. dont give in.

i typed all this because i can tell u obviously still have feelings for this chick. if u want to make sure she remains urs for good, this is what u must do and must continue doing otherwise, u'll have to deal wiht her leaving u again.

and most importantly, dont cancel dates on ur other chicks for her.
 

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if only u knew the power you have in ur hands right now.

what i would do is treat her as a jump off. dont go to a movie or dinner before u fucck. each time u meet, make sure its to fucck. dont do anything that does not involve sex. no giving her rides anywhere. no meeting up for lunch during work hours, unless she blows u first. and whenever u do mess around, always kick her out. meaning, dont be cuddling and all that bullsh1t afterwards..

and always keep urself busy or give the illusion that you're busy. with what? that should be and must be left to her imagination. NEVER EVER tell her what u got to do when she wants to stay longer with u. just tell her u got business to handle. dont punk out on this. women have a way of pressing u for information. dont give in.

i typed all this because i can tell u obviously still have feelings for this chick. if u want to make sure she remains urs for good, this is what u must do and must continue doing otherwise, u'll have to deal wiht her leaving u again.

and most importantly, dont cancel dates on ur other chicks for her.
Breh she hit me up initially talking about she wants us to be friendly. But I took that as what it ibvs was. Bullshyt and hint to set up a date. I was honestly slipping last night since we only started fukking after she was like take me home at 2 in the am. And I was like hell nah, you crazy. Tbh thats probs one of the few times I straight up told her no. Then touched her once and hit. shyt might have been the fact I acted with a lil spine for once with her smh. A lot shyt women do now is really see through for me but still struggle with some things. I can show being busy cuz I actually am but how do I finesse the jump off atatus. She dont drive so Id be fukking her and then hopping in my car and taking her right home?
 

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I think this is my first time posting in this thread :ohhh: I got a dilemma though. I'm pretty sure its a simple solution but I just need some opinions. This girl on POF (:snoop:) hmu the other day and asked me to add her on Kik. :dahell: I did it anyway and we had a lil back and forth conversation for like an hour, very very flirty I might add. She ends all her sentences with "boo". All of our conversations are real quick because she only responds like at 3 in the morning and shyt, and then she'll stop responding till the next day. The problem is, I had gave her my number on POF and told her to text me, but she didn't. She would just deflect. Today she asked me for pictures, she sent me 3 of hers, and I sent her one and told her to add me on Snapchat, she did not respond yet. I already ran a reverse image search on all her pics on her profile and the ones she sent me thru Kik but I came up with nothing, so I doubt she's catfishing. Should I toss this bytch to the bushes or entertain her for a lil longer? This bytch is bad I might add. She's one of those white Dominican chicks with curly hair, nice petite body. My tolerance for pretty chicks and their games are a lil higher versus an average or ugly bytch.
 

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Breh she hit me up initially talking about she wants us to be friendly. But I took that as what it ibvs was. Bullshyt and hint to set up a date. I was honestly slipping last night since we only started fukking after she was like take me home at 2 in the am. And I was like hell nah, you crazy. Tbh thats probs one of the few times I straight up told her no. Then touched her once and hit. shyt might have been the fact I acted with a lil spine for once with her smh. A lot shyt women do now is really see through for me but still struggle with some things. I can show being busy cuz I actually am but how do I finesse the jump off atatus. She dont drive so Id be fukking her and then hopping in my car and taking her right home?

then go to her place and fucck. thats even better cause after u done, u can just bounce. no need to invent a reason to get her to leave. see, u goto understand, i act pretty savagely towards women who have proven to be sh1tty like this girl was to u. so my mindframe is hardened. if u dont have the heart for this, u should probably leave that girl alone. but if u have the discipline to be a gadamn man, u can have this girl mentally under ur control for as long u want. and with mental control, the physical is urs.

juggling jumpoffs is simple. just tell her u got an online business going on and u're meeting with different clients. that ought to give u enough time to smash whichever other chicks u want to smash. and if shes questioning u about this "online business", act very annoyed. like this is grown folks business (not in those words). tell her, i cant be blabbing about my biz to just any one. she'll be taken aback and will start to think "im just anyone" to him now?????? i've to to earn back the position i once held in his life. and the endless chasing begins.

u get the point
 

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I think this is my first time posting in this thread :ohhh: I got a dilemma though. I'm pretty sure its a simple solution but I just need some opinions. This girl on POF (:snoop:) hmu the other day and asked me to add her on Kik. :dahell: I did it anyway and we had a lil back and forth conversation for like an hour, very very flirty I might add. She ends all her sentences with "boo". All of our conversations are real quick because she only responds like at 3 in the morning and shyt, and then she'll stop responding till the next day. The problem is, I had gave her my number on POF and told her to text me, but she didn't. She would just deflect. Today she asked me for pictures, she sent me 3 of hers, and I sent her one and told her to add me on Snapchat, she did not respond yet. I already ran a reverse image search on all her pics on her profile and the ones she sent me thru Kik but I came up with nothing, so I doubt she's catfishing. Should I toss this bytch to the bushes or entertain her for a lil longer? This bytch is bad I might add. She's one of those white Dominican chicks with curly hair, nice petite body. My tolerance for pretty chicks and their games are a lil higher versus an average or ugly bytch.
u've already lost. next time u tell her to text u and she doesn't. shut the hell up and keep it moving. a deliberate dismissal of a question is grounds for rapid fling to the nearest bushes.
 
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