Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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what is the number one red flag to you?

Impulsive decisions that show she will get bored of being in a long term relationahip. Such as following guys on IG after an argument. Thot tendencies. Also when u first meet - Slow escalation of sexual desire. If yall meeting for the 2nd time and you not getting any throat or even foreplay... u free food to her
 

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just red flags that prevent you from wanting to date that person.

There are a few
How she rejects a guy for the simple fact he could of approached her with respect and she does that no with the hand to this face tells me she is disrespectful and selfish
That's a type I deliberately would smash and stop talking ASAP and she call and txt why I do her like that I be like y u reject that dude so disrespectful when all u could of done was so no politely and respectful


Too many male friends is a no go not insecure it's cuz I gotta deal with their shyt of cock blocking for when days we suppose to chill cuz they mad they didn't smash or make up a lie and she could possible believe it


Drinks too much is a no go for me turns me off

Always posting to many sexual pics shows no respect for the person she is with im coo if u send it too me or u post a pic with u and ur girls out every so often but all the time in a sexual seductive way I ain't coo I do want her to have some respect for herself and me


There is more but have to think
 

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Impulsive decisions that show she will get bored of being in a long term relationahip. Such as following guys on IG after an argument. Thot tendencies. Also when u first meet - Slow escalation of sexual desire. If yall meeting for the 2nd time and you not getting any throat or even foreplay... u free food to her
mine are.

being super nice to me, but then being an a$$hole to other people. thats off putting.
throws tantrums
shyts on her friends
manipulative
they give out hints about changing you.
flaking a lot.

thats all i could think of.
There are a few
How she rejects a guy for the simple fact he could of approached her with respect and she does that no with the hand to this face tells me she is disrespectful and selfish
That's a type I deliberately would smash and stop talking ASAP and she call and txt why I do her like that I be like y u reject that dude so disrespectful when all u could of done was so no politely and respectful


Too many male friends is a no go not insecure it's cuz I gotta deal with their shyt of cock blocking for when days we suppose to chill cuz they mad they didn't smash or make up a lie and she could possible believe it


Drinks too much is a no go for me turns me off

Always posting to many sexual pics shows no respect for the person she is with im coo if u send it too me or u post a pic with u and ur girls out every so often but all the time in a sexual seductive way I ain't coo I do want her to have some respect for herself and me


There is more but have to think
thats a definite red flag if she has to put on a show to be rude to someone.

male friends is a bit iffy to me. cause i have a good amount of women friends. and i flirt. but i dont cheat. so id seem a bit hypocritical.

drinking i dont mind it that much. it depends on how much she drinks and what it all means. the parameter size is a bit iffy. :patrice:
 

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mine are.

being super nice to me, but then being an a$$hole to other people. thats off putting.
throws tantrums
shyts on her friends
manipulative
they give out hints about changing you.
flaking a lot.

thats all i could think of.

thats a definite red flag if she has to put on a show to be rude to someone.

male friends is a bit iffy to me. cause i have a good amount of women friends. and i flirt. but i dont cheat. so id seem a bit hypocritical.

drinking i dont mind it that much. it depends on how much she drinks and what it all means. the parameter size is a bit iffy. :patrice:

I get that cuz I have the same but what I'm saying it's keeps me very cautious more or less cuz u have those females where the guy friend word is 100% truth even if he is lying which leads to issues cuz he wanna smash her or did before in that past
That's y it's a red flag not s deal breaker but more cautious

Drinking part I'm saying constantly getting drunk for me
I don't like I ain't trying to take care of you all the time
Nothing wrong drinking but getting drunk every weekend is a deal breaker for me
 

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I get that cuz I have the same but what I'm saying it's keeps me very cautious more or less cuz u have those females where the guy friend word is 100% truth even if he is lying which leads to issues cuz he wanna smash her or did before in that past
That's y it's a red flag not s deal breaker but more cautious

Drinking part I'm saying constantly getting drunk for me
I don't like I ain't trying to take care of you all the time
Nothing wrong drinking but getting drunk every weekend is a deal breaker for me
true. i dont want that possibility in the back of my head. i respect my girl when i date. my flirting shyt is dialed back heavy. out of respect. i dont text no other women when we argued. i respected her.

thats the thing. i could tolerate drinking, but i dont want to be a momma bird or some shyt 24/7. gotta be able to dial it back when its needed to.
 

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what is the number one red flag to you?

No sexual escalation after 2-3 dates. Attraction isn't a choice, and I'm not in the mood to convince a women to fukk me.
Manic depressive tendencies
No ambition
OVERWEIGHT. Would never seriously get in a relationship iwth a overweight chick because I'm ripped and bytches are insecure, and also a reflection of yourself.
Unintelligent
Narcissist
 
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