Women here would find themselves out of a job. I've talked to her before but this is the first really long convo and she's not talking about herself unless she's asked and hasn't asked me what I do or how much I make. Usually after 4 hours of talking to a woman you hear "so what do you do" not even a word about it.
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Women here would find themselves out of a job. I've talked to her before but this is the first really long convo and she's not talking about herself unless she's asked and hasn't asked me what I do or how much I make. Usually after 4 hours of talking to a woman you hear "so what do you do" not even a word about it.
The woman that I dealt with that had the best personality was brazillian. I bet if you ask her if she would cook for her man she'd probably say yes. It isn't this trash American culture where the first thing she would say is, "What does he do for me?"
seems like your purpose for now is to just pick up a vibe from her. but at the same time you're leaning more towards just playing the field and not getting locked down. I don't necessarily think it's too broad of a purpose. As long as you don't let her and her wants define and set the nature of your relationship. If her vibe or her desires doesn't fit into yours at the moment, be ready to either make your intentions clear and let her accept or reject the role you cast her in OR just throw her in the bushes right away.
what i'm trying to say is picking up what vibe she gives you is cool. Just don't submit to her vibe just because. cause then if you let her set the vibe and then just go along you're letting her run the show. set your own vibe based on what you desire (which seems to be getting to know her first) and then see how she responds. then when you decide what you want from her, change the vibe accordingly and again see how she responds.
She was cooking when we started talking
I've been friends with her for a minute on here but it was mostly timeline talking today she hit me up after I wished her happy birthday. Talked for 4 hours straight. I'm glad too cause the girl I'm talking to right now is at the aspen lounge in Nyc for the rl preview
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The shorter your conversation with a woman the better. Its like you got to be "The Riddler" to keep a woman around.
Man when you get even a taste of a woman that has that traditional attitude, you really start to realize what is wrong with teh female situation here in America. It's like all you see are these neo-feminized women here, so when you meet one who doesn't respond to, "Will you cook for your man," with a "Nuhhh uhhh negro that's disrepectful," but instead says, "I got you." You are like man, ya'll exist? FIRST thing that comes out of most of these American womens' mouths if you ask them what they would do for their man is, "Well what is he going to do for me? How much does he make?"
Normally I'd agree but this convo was completely different from the ones I have with the girl I'm talking to in real life. With her I'm always trying to avoid saying that one wrong thing
Yeah man, that's the problem with these women here in America. They think they are so fly that they can disqualify you based on one joke they found unfunny or one statement they didn't like... as if they were some kind of queens. Those are the situations where it's not even fun... like you are walking on eggshells. But nowadays, I'm like if she doesn't like it, she can get on. I don't have a second of time or an iota of desire to pander to a woman, especially a majority these western females who offer virtually nothing besides their looks. If you watched that documentary about them black men going to brazil "Frustrated", you saw the first thing out of those womens' mouths were along the lines of, "What can he do for me." What did they bring to the table? Their degrees. Obviously they are going to get mad when they aren't getting all of that attention cheaply anymore and men done opened up the market globally.
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Ive been smashing this chick for the last 3 months and I just let her talk and zone out. bytch called me one day and said i was telling my homegirl about u, and she asked some questions and I dont even know what you do or where youre from :foh:
She isn't at all guarded in how she responds to me everything just flowed without any type of game needed.
Yeah exactly. I find the foreign born women I talk to online for the most part are much less guarded. The ones here usually think it's the man's job to entertain them and if he's not Cedric the Entertainer, she'll cut him loose. I am that type of dude right now that I don't play ANY roles. I'm going to say what I feel and if she likes it, coo, if she doesn't she can get on. I really don't view these women as fly enough for me to have to parse my conversation and carefully tailor it in a way that is of maximal entertainment to herself. I'd rather chill by myself than some broad that wants to run through my conversation and style with a fine tooth comb.
Here's a picture of her:
So nice to talk to her. The chick I'm dealing with now is nice and all but is a diva.
So nice to talk to her. The chick I'm dealing with now is nice and all but is a diva.
Alot of dudes, not all, but alot when they're trying to come up or follow a dream, you can't really have a woman around. So many women arent supportive b/c they're so shortsighted or materialistic and many of them nowadays don't have vision in terms of realizing things take time to happen.
Many other women are just a distraction in general. YOU have know if it's right for YOU. For example, when ur in college and you meet a girl you really like, you might blow off studying one night to be w/ her....or you might not be fully focused on your homework/reading because you're thinking about ur next date or something. ext thing you know, ur falling behind in ur grades. Some dudes dont have this issue at all tho, some do....so again its just up to you to know what's right for you.
And think about how many dudes have had their life derailed b/c they got a chick pregnant in college or grad school and they had to drop out...now it's 10 years later and they're not even with the chick anymore.
hilarious. How did you avoid the convo going that way?
Did you just approach her as being friends?
Many other women are just a distraction in general. YOU have know if it's right for YOU. For example, when ur in college and you meet a girl you really like, you might blow off studying one night to be w/ her....or you might not be fully focused on your homework/reading because you're thinking about ur next date or something. ext thing you know, ur falling behind in ur grades. Some dudes dont have this issue at all tho, some do....so again its just up to you to know what's right for you.
And think about how many dudes have had their life derailed b/c they got a chick pregnant in college or grad school and they had to drop out...now it's 10 years later and they're not even with the chick anymore.
hilarious. How did you avoid the convo going that way?
Did you just approach her as being friends?