Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

I'd love a quiet introverted girl whose not on twitter instagram or Facebook, who can cook but

I'd also love Santa to drop a 70 inch led down my chimney on Christmas

 

[philmonroe]

nah, i meant as far as love and what we do for a female as men... like that post i quoted, men expect a love that women will never be able to give... i realized that I love my girl and she loves me, but our loves are way different... her love FEELS like its less and i noticed that, it really just is the way its supposed to be... as men, we move heaven and earth for our women and it's not like they don't do ANYTHING, or that they dont appreciate it, but they will never be able to reciprocate...

I think most (if not all) guys move heaven and earth cause they feel its the way its supposed to be and if they don't their ego gets to them since they don't feel like "men" I'm saying I don't think dudes have to do that they choose to then get burnt and start whinning about it. I'm more of a don't do nothing you going to start complaining if it don't work out for you type person (ex fake nice guys). I don't know how if feels like less but if you don't mind could you explain. I will say I dont think it has to feel like that but I really think some guys like it that way until it doesn't work out then oftentimes start complaining about it like the fake nice guys.

 

[CASHAPP]

You notice how each of these women even carried themselves with more self esteem and a sense of class? It wasnt this rah rah reality show ho attitude going on.

Thats not to say some of them werent fast, but as far as they carried themselves it wasnt as rowdy as the "ladies" of today. Today its mostly all strippers or hoodrat chic. Being a woman with class and a reserved sense of style is not as common.

Theres a time and a place for everything, I just know that girls looking like they disfigured their femininity with tats and rock "forever 21" gear and cheap shoes have their shyt all s mess just like their lives are.

When i see girls doing shyt like wearing green hair in public I cannot take them seriously at all.

Dont know if your own college but is it just me or are a large majority of these poisonous girls we are talking about are all going into the nursing field? .......

How ironic a profession that involves taking care of another human being, so basically alot of them will be doing this because its their job but wont be caring for their own man .

Im seriously beginning to think that quiet introverted girl I am on the lookout for is gonna be stereotypically in the art field

 

[sixsixtwo]

"This is why it is so dangerous to invest in a woman who grew up in a society where hypergamy is essentially unchecked.

Absent an obscene amount of wealth men have a laughably small amount of tangible leverage in a relationship. The end result is that your woman has a lot of motivation and means to fulfill her genetic imperative at your expense. She can fukk around on the side and her worst case scenario is that she walks away with a bag full of parting gifts and the knowledge that she can support herself since she’s been working 40 hours per week the whole time anyway.

How can a man build equity when his contribution is:

1) Marginalized on the financial end by the fact that the woman is now working and earning close to what he is

2) Not appreciated in any capacity because women lack that ability and believe that it is their god given right to have things provided for them

Add to this woman’s capacity to turn off her feelings at a moments notice as soon as she has secured an investment from a new source and you have a recipe for disaster waiting to happen.

In other words, equity counts for dikk. You are expendable. The government, society and culture have devalued you to the point where you are little more than a sperm donor. Just ask your friendly neighborhood single mom."

 

[Turbulent]

Approaching a new woman every day for a month, Day 12:

I tried something new: I decided to chat up a woman who was working, but not as a waitress or any other kind of service industry person. There was a cute little East Indian girl who was waiting with me as the parking meter was getting fixed by my work. I decided to chat her up because although she was supervising a local construction site and wearing a hard hat, she was also wearing a sexy skirt suit underneath her orange fluorescent vest that caught my attention.

She didn't realize that the meter (It's a special, advanced meter) didn't take dollars. Only cards and coins. I told her that I'd help her out if she needed it by paying her parking fee, but only if she agreed to pay me back with a coffee at the nearby cafe with the wad of cash she had on her. It was risky, but she was able to leave work as she pleased until some specific task was being worked on by the nearby workers, so it came up seven for me on this roll.

We chatted about work, school, etc during our visit. She's from the bay area and shared my love of science, football, and classic movies. I got a kiss at the end of our visit. Yow! Feels more and more natural to approach, but definitely wasn't ready for that! It's something that I could definitely get used to, though.

Oh, and I got her number.

props! keep those entries coming man, don't think we're not reading.

this stuff is both inspirational and informative. good stuff. also if it's cool with you, could you post some updates on girls you got the contacts from? like follow ups? anyway, props again

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

props! keep those entries coming man, don't think we're not reading.

this stuff is both inspirational and informative. good stuff. also if it's cool with you, could you post some updates on girls you got the contacts from? like follow ups? anyway, props again

For sure, man. I'm actually meeting the one that I was getting steaks with tonight. She's making them, all I have to do is show up.

 

[CrossBones]

When i see girls doing shyt like wearing green hair in public I cannot take them seriously at all.

Dont know if your own college but is it just me or are a large majority of these poisonous girls we are talking about are all going into the nursing field? .......

How ironic a profession that involves taking care of another human being, so basically alot of them will be doing this because its their job but wont be caring for their own man .

Im seriously beginning to think that quiet introverted girl I am on the lookout for is gonna be stereotypically in the art field

LOL. I tell you what it is, but most strippers I hollad at or knew, WERE in the nursing field.

can you imagine, in the future being in an old folks home and you see the nurses dropping it like its hot for entertainment in the lunch hours?

these are women who have no shame and like to pose in public with their ass out and touching their ankles or to walk around in no clothes asking strangers for money (ie the strip clubs)

 

[CrossBones]

and no lie, sometimes I be thinking I need a ballerina type, reserved, artsy chick who is a friend to me and still be an around the way girl type. on some flashdance shyt

 

[CrossBones]

"This is why it is so dangerous to invest in a woman who grew up in a society where hypergamy is essentially unchecked.

Absent an obscene amount of wealth men have a laughably small amount of tangible leverage in a relationship. The end result is that your woman has a lot of motivation and means to fulfill her genetic imperative at your expense. She can fukk around on the side and her worst case scenario is that she walks away with a bag full of parting gifts and the knowledge that she can support herself since she’s been working 40 hours per week the whole time anyway.

How can a man build equity when his contribution is:

1) Marginalized on the financial end by the fact that the woman is now working and earning close to what he is

2) Not appreciated in any capacity because women lack that ability and believe that it is their god given right to have things provided for them

Add to this woman’s capacity to turn off her feelings at a moments notice as soon as she has secured an investment from a new source and you have a recipe for disaster waiting to happen.

In other words, equity counts for dikk. You are expendable. The government, society and culture have devalued you to the point where you are little more than a sperm donor. Just ask your friendly neighborhood single mom."

its wild to think that, shyt theres nothing to build on anymore. if what the future is supposed to be is, women who want to be forever 21, not handle the house duties, have her own money but expect the man to just serve her, then what is going on? what kind of family has a mom who is always out, a father who works, and kids who need full time nannies or grandparents raising them? and when she doesnt "feel loved and special" she can bounce because its ok?

the woman that doesnt cook, doesnt nurture for most hours, keep the house looking nice, is always "happy to be single again" and the father is unhappy arguing with a woman who "doesnt need a man" and "isnt his slave" how does that even work? so who is what? what is this really? sounds a mess.

the fukk is that?

 

[sixsixtwo]

Every Man is Born a Slave, Pushing the Wheel of Pain « Danger & Play Danger & Play

 

[Turbulent]

"Loyalty as we know it is not in a woman’s best interests. Being the physically weaker sex necessitates social and moral fluidity. In other words, women are shady and duplicitous creatures because the have to be.

Before I understood psychology this used to eat at me. Especially the fact that a woman can turn off her emotions toward you like a bathroom faucet. I believed in “love” until I began to realize that love is only as strong as your ability to meet her needs.

The best relationship I ever had was with an absolutely sweet and adorable 20 year old who worshiped the ground I walked on. I thought the world of her. We had our problems and I probably didn’t fully appreciate what I had back then but overall we had a good relationship.

Things started falling apart and eventually she told me she was leaving. I came home a few days later and all of her stuff was cleared out (we were living together). I was devastated that she left but what really killed me was the fact that I was distraught, feeling like I had a piece of me taken away, while she seemed to be absolutely fine. She was in a new relationship VERY soon after we broke up. This didn’t sit well with me. I just couldn’t understand how I could be emotionally attached while she was able to quickly and easily wash her hands and move on.

It killed me to think that she had never really cared about me. Of course now I realize that women don’t bond with partners in the same way men do. She DID care about me when I was meeting her needs, but in order for her to ensure that her needs were constantly going to be met, she couldn’t afford to chain herself down emotionally.

This is why you should never fully trust a woman and you should never allow yourself to become emotionally dependent. Your relationship is only as good as her perception of you at any given time. She doesn’t love you for “you”, she loves the feelings you give her and the things that you can provide for her."

it's a hard pill to swallow but it's the truth...i swear i heard the melody to "Ain't no sunshine..." in my mind while reading your post, lol

i made a poste a few pages ago about a discussion i was having with a female friend of mine. I was trying to put her on game (big mistake, i need to rememer you can never teach someone who doesn't want to learn...) anyway,at some point we were debating who's colder in love, men or women. She'd describe fukked up shyt men can do to women and vice versa but we just couldn't relate to the pain cause it's almost like a different emotional language. We just don't love the same way. And I told her the only reason i feel like we're slightly better than them in general is because on average we tend to realize we can be a$$holes and own up to it more. Out of the two, their love might be more expressive but ours go WAY deeper in my opinion. But they can be so entitled sometimes that they don't even realize it. Like they don't understand that deep down I want to fukk mad girls, all races, sizes, i'd fukk 3 a day if i could. And whenever i'm in a relationship and i really love my chick, and i get some play from other chicks, they have NO IDEA of the internal struggle we go through (let alone appreciate it). But i guess just like we crave a lot of different p*ssy, they might crave to be loved by different guys and then being able to choose. Maybe that's in their dna as well...

 

[sixsixtwo]

How To Save Your Marriage | NexxtLevelUp

 

[CASHAPP]

LOL. I tell you what it is, but most strippers I hollad at or knew, WERE in the nursing field.

can you imagine, in the future being in an old folks home and you see the nurses dropping it like its hot for entertainment in the lunch hours?

these are women who have no shame and like to pose in public with their ass out and touching their ankles or to walk around in no clothes asking strangers for money (ie the strip clubs)

Nothing with nursing but its gotten a bit too predictable that its the only answer you hear from girls and it always ends up being the bad ones. I guarantee if your at a whore house and the girl starts talking about herself she will mention studying to be a nurse.

Can you imagine how many ex whores are gonna be raising families in 15 to 20 years? I'm not even exaggerating now. I think this goes hand in hand with when Wild Self thinks simping is gonna be dead in the near future. I mean so many former whores in the nursing field gonna be raising families? And this increase in technology.

Expect a lot of these girls to start getting aired out and end up lonely. I'm not even joking right now.....watch the huge increase in divorces initiated by men in the next 20 years.

 

[CrossBones]

Nothing with nursing but its gotten a bit too predictable that its the only answer you hear from girls and it always ends up being the bad ones. I guarantee if your at a whore house and the girl starts talking about herself she will mention studying to be a nurse.

Can you imagine how many ex whores are gonna be raising families in 15 to 20 years? I'm not even exaggerating now. I think this goes hand in hand with when Wild Self thinks simping is gonna be dead in the near future. I mean so many former whores in the nursing field gonna be raising families? And this increase in technology.

Expect a lot of these girls to start getting aired out and end up lonely. I'm not even joking right now.....watch the huge increase in divorces initiated by men in the next 20 years.

I dont know where I read it, but supposedly during the great depression there was plenty of hoing and prostitutes going around. I guess when money is low, the women will ho.

oddly enough I think that soon after that period there was, and correct me if Im wrong, but a lot of conservative values and what was called by some a "repressed" way of living. Id have to look into that, but I believe that was what happened. like society kept all that hoing under control after it went wild and then things got better.

 

[RickyGQ]

I think most (if not all) guys move heaven and earth cause they feel its the way its supposed to be and if they don't their ego gets to them since they don't feel like "men" I'm saying I don't think dudes have to do that they choose to then get burnt and start whinning about it. I'm more of a don't do nothing you going to start complaining if it don't work out for you type person (ex fake nice guys). I don't know how if feels like less but if you don't mind could you explain. I will say I dont think it has to feel like that but I really think some guys like it that way until it doesn't work out then oftentimes start complaining about it like the fake nice guys.

Idk, I guess where im coming from is for all the shyt i'll do for my girl (probably out my my male pride), as a protector and provider, in my mind i feel like i should NEVER have to deal with any of her bullshyt... EVER... but its just not the case... "Fellas, If you are in a relationship, YOU ARE LOSING." we'll put way more into a relationship than we'll take out...