Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[root_eruditorium_org]

The same reason basically. I been sitting out but I haven't been productive. I'm on a better track now; working again (not nothing I need a cert for but work nonetheless), my pops gonna use his light work month next month to show me shyt in the gym, starting to write a book, still torn on music though.

So I'm on the right track but little ticky-tack bothering me too since I'm an over thinker;
When I get out there I'll probably fukk up a lot of shots over going dutch. I don't know how women respond to this.
I don't have my spot and probably won't for a minute and we know how they need that. I missed out on the high school/college-aged game of "text for a week & get her to the crib" anyway so that isn't natural for me.
Honestly, I'd probably bore these chicks too, especially those around my age. No smoking little drinking, not into the social scene like that, not about any drama so I'd probably be too "predictable." I'm an introvert (not painfully so) and observer so I'm not into being in the mix with people I soak in culture/human behavior through shyt like books, movies, documentaries, TV, etc and if I do go out I'd prefer low key stuff. I'm in a selfish period of my life so I'm not sure the type of chicks who would be okay with my energy and habits would be good with casual situations.

I have to get better at judging a girl's attraction also, the out and about/minding my business situation. I'm not what women would call "fine" so when I get that split second of eye contact I don't take that as a greenlight.

described me to a tee. just do your thang, stop stressing so much. women will come and they will go.

 

[TRUEST]

I feel you. You do make valid points. I let them all know up front that I'm going do what I want, when I want, and how I want. If they still want to stick around, that's on them. But I look back to the last few months when it was warm outside, I was spending a lot of time and money dealing with multiple women. It got to the point, I slacked off in the gym and in my studies for new security certifications. I'm glad it getting cold out so i can refocus on the things that are important to me.

i mean, dont get me wrong, if everything else in ur life is in order, then, sh1t, chase all the women u want. because, that's the whole point right? enjoying life? and women are a major part of that. but, its just very important to get ur life in order first before u dedicate more than half ur free time chasing objects of pleasure.

chasing women and enjoying them is more satisfying(at least from my experiences), when u know everything else in ur life is as orderly as it can be.

 

[Mainevent_7]

i mean, dont get me wrong, if everything else in ur life is in order, then, sh1t, chase all the women u want. because, that's the whole point right? enjoying life? and women are a major part of that. but, its just very important to get ur life in order first before u dedicate more than half ur free time chasing objects of pleasure.

chasing women and enjoying them is more satisfying(at least from my experiences), when u know everything else in ur life is as orderly as it can be.

I'm right there with you. when everything is in order you can enjoy life itself to the fullest and not have to worry about anything.

 

[Shadow King]

described me to a tee. just do your thang, stop stressing so much. women will come and they will go.

True. I'm just a LeBron type of dude instead of a Kobe type, looking for the right play instead of just shooting. I should be good.

 

[Ohene]

nah. im speaking from experience. when chicks call u, and u dont answer the phone, or when they text and it takes u forever to respond, they get the impression you're with other women or that u dont like them. and they keep it moving. and those that dont keep it moving, irritate me to the point where i just dead the relationship fast.

the attention being placed on constantly juggling multiple women, especially in this thread, is troubling. i get the reason for it. but, some of yall dudes need to get ur priorities straight.

and i say this from a grown man's perspective. i know that lifestyle all too well. back when i was younger, in my early twenties, and all i did was work and play. i'd work and when work was over, i'd leave work at work and used all my free time to chase chicks. and surely, i had my hands full with different women. but, in the grand scheme of things, women aint gon save ur ass if u lose ur job, or if some sh1t happens to you that will require u have solid financial base.

trust, if u actually sat down and calculated and added up all the time u spend each week entertaining these different chicks, you'll realize, it's nothing to ignore. that is a lot of time. time that can be better spent learning a trade, or starting a business.

i'm a grown man with some harsh life experiences. do what u will with whatever advise i dispense.

it doesn't have to take that much time if you manage your dealings with them properly. Some girls demand more attn than others but the girls who cant work within your schedule / and what you're doing in life will weed themselves out. Youll be left with women that you can ultimately build some sort of a rapport/routine with, women that "fit". When a girl likes you they will often do what they can to compromise. Obviously there will be annoying periods where they nag you and constantly vie for your attn but there's nothing wrong with that...its a lot better than having zero women around and nobody checking for you. In my opinion, you have a girl to the point that shes hitting you up frequently and trying to spend time with you half the battle is already won. shyt here's an example.

This chick i met about a month ago is somewhat annoying texting me everyday and shyt and tryna come over and fukk when i aint even be in the mood. So far it hasnt been a problem though. When I wanna smash I let her come through and when I can't be bothered or I'm busy I let her know and that's that. Well this weekend i was at a house party with my friend and she had been texting me at points throughout the night; she was out with some home girls. My homie and I left that party to go to his homies crib and just kick it. My friend wasnt tryna dip yet and I wasnt tryna walk home alone or call an uber. On top of that I hadnt had p*ssy in some weeks so I decided to link up with this chick and kill two birds with one stone. I had this girl uber to where I was, call another uber to take us to my spot. We smashed and i was trying to go to sleep so I had her call another uber to take her to her crib about a 20 minute drive away.

I spent minimal time, zero money and still managed to get what I wanted...a ride home (as lame as it sounds I'm cheap ) and some p*ssy. The next morning she even messaged me and thanked me as if I had done her a favour just by letting her come through on a late night tip. Little does she know.

If a girl is feeling you that much they'll adapt to you. Just give them slivers of your time. Enough for them to get their fix and stay interested but not so much that you find yourself accommodating them.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

it doesn't have to take that much time if you manage your shyt properly. the girls who cant work within your schedule / and what youre doing in life will weed themselves out and youll be left with women that you can ultimately build some sort of a rapport/routine with, women that "fit". When a girl likes you they will often do what they can to compromise. Obviously there will be annoying periods where they nag you and constantly vie for your attn but there's nothing wrong with that...its a lot better than having zero women around and nobody checking for you. In my opinion, you have a girl to the point that shes hitting you up frequently and trying to spend time with you half the battle is already won. shyt here's an example.

This chick i met about a month ago is somewhat annoying texting me everyday and shyt and tryna come over and fukk when i aint even be in the mood. So far it hasnt been a problem though. When I wanna smash I let her come through and when I can't be bothered or I'm busy I let her know and that's that. Well this weekend i was at a house party with my friend and she had been texting me at points throughout the night; she was out with some home girls. My homie and I left that party to go to his homies crib and just kick it. My friend wasnt tryna dip yet and I wasnt tryna walk home alone or call an uber. On top of that I hadnt had p*ssy in some weeks so I decided to link up with this chick and kill two birds with one stone. I had this girl uber to where I was, call another uber to take us to my spot. We smashed and i was trying to go to sleep so I had her call another uber to take her to her crib about a 20 minute drive away.

I spent zero time, zero money and still managed to get what I wanted...a ride home (as lame as it sounds I'm too

how much did all them Ubers cost? Also how did you meet this chick? Cold approach like your usual style?

 

[Ohene]

how much did all them Ubers cost? Also how did you meet this chick? Cold approach like your usual style?

breh. no idea

i know an uber from Libery Village to Yonge & Eglinton costs around 20-30 bucks though. It was at 3AM too so she mayve had to pay a premium. From Queen West to Liberty....probably 10 bucks. And to where I was in Queen West from where she was at before we went to the crib...probably 10 bucks as well. This one wasnt off a cold approach but most of my girls are. Net this girl through a friend of a friend from school. It isnt the first time shes ubered from my place to hers. I refuse to pay for a chicks uber. I've only done it once in my life because this chick I was messing with would always do it. The morning she left I was going ot the gym so I said fukk it lemme pay this time and use the uber to roll past the gym as well. That was in my brampton days and shorty lived in rexdale.

 

[Mr210]

I'm glad I'm out the dating game.the woman I'm with now is so fun to be around and she matches my personality with just enough differences between us. We spent 3 days straight with each other a couple weeks ago and at no point did she ever get on my nerves

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

breh. no idea

i know an uber from Libery Village to Yonge & Eglinton costs around 20-30 bucks though. It was at 3AM too so she mayve had to pay a premium. From Queen West to Liberty....probably 10 bucks. And to where I was in Queen West from where she was at before we went to the crib...probably 10 bucks as well. This one wasnt off a cold approach but most of my girls are. Net this girl through a friend of a friend from school. It isnt the first time shes ubered from my place to hers. I refuse to pay for a chicks uber. I've only done it once in my life because this chick I was messing with would always do it. The morning she left I was going ot the gym so I said fukk it lemme pay this time and use the uber to roll past the gym as well. That was in my brampton days and shorty lived in rexdale.

at the bolded

I was and at all those damn Ubers just for some p***y. Thought you offered to pay for every single one.

 

[Youseenmywork]

it doesn't have to take that much time if you manage your dealings with them properly. Some girls demand more attn than others but the girls who cant work within your schedule / and what you're doing in life will weed themselves out. Youll be left with women that you can ultimately build some sort of a rapport/routine with, women that "fit". When a girl likes you they will often do what they can to compromise. Obviously there will be annoying periods where they nag you and constantly vie for your attn but there's nothing wrong with that...its a lot better than having zero women around and nobody checking for you. In my opinion, you have a girl to the point that shes hitting you up frequently and trying to spend time with you half the battle is already won. shyt here's an example.

This chick i met about a month ago is somewhat annoying texting me everyday and shyt and tryna come over and fukk when i aint even be in the mood. So far it hasnt been a problem though. When I wanna smash I let her come through and when I can't be bothered or I'm busy I let her know and that's that. Well this weekend i was at a house party with my friend and she had been texting me at points throughout the night; she was out with some home girls. My homie and I left that party to go to his homies crib and just kick it. My friend wasnt tryna dip yet and I wasnt tryna walk home alone or call an uber. On top of that I hadnt had p*ssy in some weeks so I decided to link up with this chick and kill two birds with one stone. I had this girl uber to where I was, call another uber to take us to my spot. We smashed and i was trying to go to sleep so I had her call another uber to take her to her crib about a 20 minute drive away.

I spent minimal time, zero money and still managed to get what I wanted...a ride home (as lame as it sounds I'm cheap ) and some p*ssy. The next morning she even messaged me and thanked me as if I had done her a favour just by letting her come through on a late night tip. Little does she know.

If a girl is feeling you that much they'll adapt to you. Just give them slivers of your time. Enough for them to get their fix and stay interested but not so much that you find yourself accommodating them.

Underrated rated post. I will piggyback off this later.

 

[TRUEST]

at the bolded

I was and at all those damn Ubers just for some p***y. Thought you offered to pay for every single one.

i would gladly pay for a chick's uber if im trying to get rid of her or just have some peace and quiet.

 

[John Reena]

I'm proud of my brehs in here striving to do better socially.



Cuz that is some HARD shyt to do.




Life is all about taking leaps of faith and gettin out ur comfort zone.

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

Beware of these "hopeless romantic" chicks that glorify that label they put upon themselves.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Yo is it fukked up to use the law of attraction something purely superficial. Like let's say a nikka wanted a lightskin chick with curly hair and big breasts. Would it be wrong to put that in the universe?

but seriously tho...

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

Yo is it fukked up to use the law of attraction something purely superficial. Like let's say a nikka wanted a lightskin chick with curly hair and big breasts. Would it be wrong to put that in the universe?

but seriously tho...