Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Bless't
Living the dream
That shyt is tough.Brehs when you find that one you thought was a Queen and you drop all the thots only to find out her history and you can't even look at her da same anymore.
Brehs when you find that one you thought was a Queen and you drop all the thots only to find out her history and you can't even look at her da same anymore.
How bad is her history?
Marezzy
RIP my Nikka Zooboomafo 🕊️11-20-2014🕊️
homebody came in and ignore 1400 pages of people teling you do the opposite .
I said this one chick has me acting different. You'll probably understand it when you find a chick who won't fukk you after buying her a Popeyes $5 box.
Let me be crazy about a person lil nikka. 
You wedding invite just got canceled.
Its crazy how many women I've had to cut off, I didn't even realize I had that many female friends that were interested in me romantically. I really think half of them are acting out simply because I'm in a relationship now. I do have a few legit female friends that have had to scale back too but because we are actually friends we understand why.
Kinda stings a bit but I'm thankful for them being understanding.
I can't lie, if for some crazy reason this didn't work out.
#RIP to another "good guy"
I'm laying everything on the table this go around.
Kinda stings a bit but I'm thankful for them being understanding.
I can't lie, if for some crazy reason this didn't work out.
#RIP to another "good guy"
I'm laying everything on the table this go around.
Not that bad compared to the average THOT I guess. Looks wise a 7 on a bad day but the body count in the 30s. And the thing is she aint start fukking till after High School. She 25.
She dope af though. No kids. Low maintenance. Will pull up anytime and smoke some. She keep me out the streets and dressing nice. Won't tolerate any hood shyt. A nikka trying to change his life. I was thinking cuffin/baby mama but now I just look at her like any other broad. SMH.
RichieRich
Beg my pardon to Martin...
Should've listened to you brehs
Day 1 leggo
Day 1 leggo
How hard youre going to hit the bottom when this relationship inevitably ends is going to be
im glad u said it because i've been reading the posts in this thread and it seems most of the guys in here haven't learned. u can tell the ones who are too damn invested emotionally in their relationships.
"im so glad i found her. things are going so great. oh me and my girl this, me and my girl that. im glad i'm out of the dating game. my girl is an angel. my girl is this my girl is that."
like damn, these dudes learn nothing. if/when that relationship goes sour, its very hard to imagine these dudes not being devastated. based on how they speak alone, i can tell a lot of these dudes are suffocating their girls with too much and they dont know it yet. when ur girl knows she's got u in the bag, that's really the beginning of the end.
the point of this thread is to show dudes how to shift their natural self-sacrificing tendencies into seeing women as an "addition" to their lives, not their main source of happiness or contentment.
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I'll say it like this, sooner or later the only thing that will matter in a woman is how much they support or hold you down. If she kept it 100 with you about her history thats already a good look. Even if you feel
about the number, if she holds you down, yall get along and you got feelings for her you might need to go ahead and really look over it. A woman that is support and holds down her man is the best feeling breh. I'd take a woman with 50 body's that did those things over a woman with a few or none that did none of those things.I mean sure you can find someone with a middle grown, but imo unless she was in prono's getting trains run or yall stay in a small town or frequent the area when you'll run into dudes that she's been with.
I've always looked at it like this, once your over 5 partners it really doesn't matter how high the number goes (mostly) if she's clean and not busted.But if you feel like its something that's really disgusting to you and you can't and wont get over then yall, just cut it off because at some point its going to creep back up and you gonna be looking at your future baby mama or wife with disgust.
No kids is a huge plus tho....
I'll say it like this, sooner or later the only thing that will matter in a woman is how much they support or hold you down. If she kept it 100 with you about her history thats already a good look. Even if you feel
I mean sure you can find someone with a middle grown, but imo unless she was in prono's getting trains run or yall stay in a small town or frequent the area when you'll run into dudes that she's been with.
But if you feel like its something that's really disgusting to you and you can't and wont get over then yall, just cut it off because at some point its going to creep back up and you gonna be looking at your future baby mama or wife with disgust.
No kids is a huge plus tho....
there are somethings that men shouldn't look over. i.e. a girl who had a train ran on her. sure, people change. but if ur dating one of these chicks and she displays anything that remotely resembles her afffinity for her past ways of living, u need to cut that sh1t off before u find urself too deep.
and girls who are likely to do trifling sh1t usually give u signs. lots of signs. u just need to stop burying ur head in the sand and heed those warnings.
One of my BFFs is a guy. When he gets into relationships he falls off the face of the planet. But one time one of his ex gf wanted to fight me just by looking at me. I never even spoke to her. She saw me (with my bf at the time mind you) and went crazy after I left. So I don't blame him. But I really do wish that it was different.
My ex fiancee did the same thing to me, she didn't try to fight my friend but later on that evening it was hell, I knew it was going to be a problem when they met and the 1st thing she said is "Oh she's pretty"
me and my friend acted as normal and she got so pissed throughout the night that she just busted out "can we leave" i already knew what this was going to be.The ride home
"Why don't you just date her"
"I dont think we are going to work"
"Its obvious yall get along really well"
"I can tell yall have had sex"
" She likes you, you know that right?"
I'm no dummy and I'm not disrespectful and neither was my friend so its not like either one of us was being flirty, didn't touch outside of a hug... I think it was the laughing and conversation that got her. When we laughed about Marvel and debated on the best Comic book movies etc etc... she felt threaten.
Anyway all that to say I know I'm falling off from dealing with alot of my female friends especially ones that have a romantic history, i hate i have to be that guy. But I'm really glad women like them (and you) understand why its important and the deal. I really respect that.
I wonder if men do the same thing to women
Everybody on here always think they know another person situation based off a couple sentences in a post. I will let you guys cook, I'm out. To those serious about meeting a good woman I would take what you read with a grain of salt. Lots of bitter posters and now it all's on here. Follow your gut and pay attention to your woman action not her words and you will be ok
I will drop through once a month and give everyone an update.
I will drop through once a month and give everyone an update.
Yes I've had 2 ex's hate my best friend with a passion but never tried to fight him. He BFF is such a nerd too and always uber respectful. My thing is my life doesn't start or stop with you. If everyone is being respect why can't we all be friends. It's not like I would go spend time alone with him. But I see no problem with group outings.My ex fiancee did the same thing to me, she didn't try to fight my friend but later on that evening it was hell, I knew it was going to be a problem when they met and the 1st thing she said is "Oh she's pretty"
The ride home
"Why don't you just date her"
"I dont think we are going to work"
"Its obvious yall get along really well"
"I can tell yall have had sex"
" She likes you, you know that right?"
I'm no dummy and I'm not disrespectful and neither was my friend so its not like either one of us was being flirty, didn't touch outside of a hug... I think it was the laughing and conversation that got her. When we laughed about Marvel and debated on the best Comic book movies etc etc... she felt threaten.
Anyway all that to say I know I'm falling off from dealing with alot of my female friends especially ones that have a romantic history, i hate i have to be that guy. But I'm really glad women like them (and you) understand why its important and the deal. I really respect that.
I wonder if men do the same thing to women
The only thing I will say is that I am weary of men who have too many female friends b/c those type of guys tend to be "run" by women and they will eventually try to flex.