Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ohene

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lol I definitely wouldnt approach her like that:mjlol: but its just crazy cuz when the semester started I didnt even look twice in her direction but these past few weeks ive just been like:wow: every time I see her

but idk how to even approach her at this point, semesters almost over, weve never had a conversation, idk what to do that comes off naturally and not forced:noah:
nothing wrong with forcing up a shot. just walk over to the chick after class
 

Nuke Dukem

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Lol that kinda thing is never easy to deal with no matter how often it happens to you. Stay up bruh.
Fr tho... Ima bounce back with a badder bytch (mentally / physically)
Breh wtf? Nooo. Nooo. Never do that again fam. Next time just accept your L, charge it to the game and move on. You just showed her that you super hurt and mentally weak. Yea you still went and got yours but you think she cares? If you were the one she wanted, she wouldn't be playing games like that. She played you and now you're playing yourself. Move on. Don't contact her, don't fkk her, it's not worth it. Millions of girls out here,so there's no reasons to hit her up unless you telling me her shyt gives you superpower or something??? Her never replying kinda shows you how lame you were and how she won't even get down to your level. If she cared, she would have chewed your ass out for that disrespect. Don't settle for good my niccur, be great.
my boys egged me on tho n had me hyped to do if:sadcam:...

I didn't wanna but the liq was in the system and they made it seem like a good move :snoop:
 

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You ain't lyin....

It's funny how gut feelings work tho, n I shoulda known to trust it...

But I talked to my guys in real life & even got a females perspective... They all said "nahhhhh it's not another ni99a, don't think that"..

I knew tho.. my bytch switched up QUICK... I mean real fukkin quick... like never before lol

* I'm still shytty... I bought that lil bytch a pink gift card for her bday like 2 weeks before we broke up n I know she's wearing the shyt for the next"

Aye real talk tho my bytch wasn't shyt

- was 26

-worked part time retail.. $8 an hour 30 hrs a week

-didn't have a license or a whip

-No college education


Only thing was she looked good and had a fat azz ....

A few months before all that I started wrappin up before goin in.. I was goin raw in her for a MINUTE.. I prolly dodged a bullet honestly... I'd been in the same spot but with 25% of my check going to this lil bytch....


no diss but she wasn't about shyt....look at this as a blessing
 

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These bytches hearts cold as sandwich meat.

:wow:

Don't let these heartless broads get to you and make u get outa character. Shrug n charge em to da game. Cuz karma is REAL. Everything balances itself out. When a chick do u dirty that mean God gone bless u wit a chick 100 times doper. A chick curving ya is a BLESSING.
 

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Something for the brehs that I found has worked for me quite well - whenever you are out and you see a fine female, just say "I have to say you look gorgeous <or whatever compliment you choose>".

Just say it without the intent of getting her number or whatever, just say it, simply smile and KIM. The goal, at least when I did it, was getting over the fear of talking cold. Really, it's 80% of the work is just breaking the ice right there.

I've been doing it alot - A LOT. Twice today at wal-mart, this young girl was getting a scarf and I said, "excuse, I have to say that you look gorgeous", she either didn't hear me, thought she heard me wrong because she replied "excuse me?" -so I said it again. And her checks got flushed red (she wasn't white, maybe asian?). She said thank you and smiled and I kept it moving. Didn't continue the conversation, but I knew she liked it andI think if I wold have stayed I could have walked with her number.

Then, cashing out at the register, the girl working there had some makeup on - I Just said "I love your makeup", same thing, she blushed smiled a lot and was trying to make small talk with me, but I kept it short... I had no intentions of getting her number. I got my shyt and KIM.

The moral of the story is, use this tactic if you have a hard time approaching female. just compliment them on the sole purpose of complimenting them. your not doing it to get their number or whatever, just do it so it helps you get familiar with approaching a female that you don't know.

Hopefully this helps some of you all. I know it helped me a lot and it boosted my confidence.
 

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These bytches hearts cold as sandwich meat.

:wow:

Don't let these heartless broads get to you and make u get outa character. Shrug n charge em to da game. Cuz karma is REAL. Everything balances itself out. When a chick do u dirty that mean God gone bless u wit a chick 100 times doper. A chick curving ya is a BLESSING.

Also for the brehs upset about being curved, look at it as a blessing in disguise. Always work to be a better version of yourself as the years go by: financially, physique wise, career, emotionally etc

I thought I had lost the woman of my dreams in the past to only have the quality of women I deal with look better and better as the months/years go by
 

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no diss but she wasn't about shyt....look at this as a blessing
Nah I know...

I had my people in real life always ask me when I was gonna drop the bytch.. but I always seen potential in her and felt she could do better in life... in the end she was destined to be a lil dusty bytch I guess :mjcry:
These bytches hearts cold as sandwich meat.

:wow:

Don't let these heartless broads get to you and make u get outa character. Shrug n charge em to da game. Cuz karma is REAL. Everything balances itself out. When a chick do u dirty that mean God gone bless u wit a chick 100 times doper. A chick curving ya is a BLESSING.
idk if you been following my post in here...

But I hope you're right :mjcry:
 

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Okay so for the folks in here that been through it..


When you get done dirty by a female...

How do you bounce back with out being a straight savage with em...


I'm not trying to put myself out there again and have some shyt like this again happen
 

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Usually I don't really be calling women on the phone like that but I'm a little intrigued by this one chic I met. Would y'all keep texting or at least try calling to get a little more personal closeness? :jbhmm:
 
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