Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mr210]

bytch left me like three weeks ago after 2.5 years.

I've got to start cold approaching, but I get that feeling just thinking about it.

But I NEED to do it.

Details on why y'all broke up

 

[jalamanta]

You actually need to take a break breh

How long though?

Details on why y'all broke up

We are both 27 y old. She wanted to have kids. I previously made it clear that I am not ready for that shyt anytime soon. I sensed that things were going to an end with her in the last couple of months. She gave me "I am starting to think about the future and I can't see you as the dad of my children" speech.

What surprised me is that just after a couple of days feeling really shytty I realised that it was supposed to be this way. In many ways I am glad she left, because I am really not ready for marriage and kids. Also, I feel like relationships were dragging me down in regards to self-improvement.

Of course I get that flashbacks of good memories and shytty feeling in the chest from time to time (will I ever find a girl like her?), but at 27 I am starting to not give a fukk.

 

[Rich Spirit]

Usually I don't really be calling women on the phone like that but I'm a little intrigued by this one chic I met. Would y'all keep texting or at least try calling to get a little more personal closeness?

Call her and set up a date

 

[John Reena]

Nah I know...

I had my people in real life always ask me when I was gonna drop the bytch.. but I always seen potential in her and felt she could do better in life... in the end she was destined to be a lil dusty bytch I guess

idk if you been following my post in here...

But I hope you're right

You'll be fine breh. Months from now when u chilling wit a bad chick who FEELING u, u gone look back n see tha beauty of God taking u out that situation n putting u in a DOPER one.

 

[Lo-Co]

My confidence is up big time.

 

[TheArchitect]

Sooo, a while back I made a post concerning a female that pretty much ghosted me about a year ago, so I deleted her number and fb and shyt and didn't bother ever contacting her again....

fast forward today, now just out the blue she just hit me up. I would usually write her off as some broad wanting a favor or some bullshyt like that. thing is she never accepted anything I offered her, and she made it clear that she doesn't need my money. It's weird as hell bc last time we met up she seemed cool as hell, even planned on kicking it when I got back from l.a.....then radio silence for an entire year...then all of a sudden she back in the inbox like "yoooooo"....

i was told I was being petty for removing her and shyt (which I ain't denying), but the pettiness in me wants to ignore her so bad....but idk if I should even waste my time even seeing what she wants....

Maybe this has something to do with my "saving my seed", like someone at my gym was telling me the other weekend....

 

[RichieRich]

Maybe this has something to do with my "saving my seed", like someone at my gym was telling me the other weekend....

Elaborate

 

[TheArchitect]

Elaborate

He was telling me something sometime like it raises your testosterone...as well as your pheremones...

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Bouta go out for lunch with my recent ex this week. She broke it off with me in june after almost 4 yrs and all the bullshyt I put her thru in the past.
Last time we actually met was back in August. Last time we even texted was early october.

Still miss her brehs, these women Ive been out on dates with since have been trash. These women are straight up damaged. Esp on these soulswipe and tinder apps.

I do enjoy not having to answer to anyone and I am a handsome nikka so getting new women isnt a problem. Just my standards for GF are high.

Ima just take it slow with my ex and see where it goes. Show her Ive changed my dog ways

I do have multiple dates lined up with an east african chick, currently dating this military chick (she bouta get dropped), a young ass 20 yr old (im 24), a FWB, and a potential FWB that'll I'll meet up with this weekend

 

[TheArchitect]

Hahahahaha....its gotten to the point where I can't do shyt but laugh.....

nikkaz be having dates lined up and shyt, i can barely get a female to text back....

i be like shyt, wish I had what does of y'all have....i cant even get no love on tinder....

i guess I'm gonna be that uncle that never gets married, who people suspect to be gay, who always has some sort of wild story about his travels....

 

[Solano707]

Was talking to this pawg for a few weeks, and now that i'm back in the states, was trying to set something up... but here she go:

i'd text her, won't get a text back AT all.

Now, when i do call her, she answers, not an issue.

Thanksgiving - gave her a shot out, nothing back in he texts.

she seemed to like me, but tell me this? what female does not "see" texts on their phone? NONE. So, a few days ago, I'm like aiight fukk it. Not doing this shyt anymore. I haven't hit her since Friday. I called her to wish her a happy holiday. This was Friday now - why this smut text me last night saying:

her: hey

me: <i open it to read it> - keep that bytch on 'read' and ddn't reply back

her: sorry i didn't answer the phone, really bad day

me: <i open it to read it> keep that bytch on read again

half an hour later...
her: goodnight!

me: left it on read again

took her ass off facebook and everything.

Like i said, I don't have time for shyt like this. Now that my confidence is up, talking to females has been effortless. My tolerance for BS is next to nothing now. THe biggest thing to know and understand is as long as you understand you got more to offer than what she has, you always have the upper hand.
This bytch working 3 jobs ( i liked her for this), but she complaining about her health care is going up $500 and shyt for her and her daughter. Meanwhile, i got that tricare milly rocking, got degrees and shyt like that; so I have nothing to lose or sweat over.

For the fellas, always be in a position of power and never let her think otherwise. the moment she sees Beta tendencies in you, it's a wrap.

 

[RichieRich]

He was telling me something sometime like it raises your testosterone...as well as your pheremones...

Oh you mean literally

 

[TheArchitect]

Oh you mean literally

Yeah....it's scary how true it is though.....been a couple of times I've went on the no fap diet and had breezies pop up outta nowhere....

 

[TRUEST]

i think what he is trying to say is that she shouldnt be meeting your fam this early in the game

nah that aint what i was saying.

see, puccy is what makes most men do what they do. men strive to be rich and famous mainly so they can get bad b1tches. men hit the gym, endure pain to stay fit, so they can get women.

when some men start to get women, they get overly excited and it shows in every aspect of how they communicate with the women they deem very attractive.
what i suspect happened was, ol boy was overly excited to introduce the girl to his family. she sensed she was a high price to him. and even worse, at the family gathering, his family members started insinuating things like "marriage, kids...etc". things she probably was not ready for or just had no plans for and that most likely put her off.

i could be wrong, and im probably wrong. but i read the posts in this thread from a different angle. when a man post about how good of a time he's having with a girl, or whatever, it signifies to me dude is emotionally invested, much to his detriment.

i've dated many many many women. and in every single relationship i've been in, there's always one person who holds the power. there's always one person who likes the other more. this is a fact. not bs. i know women. and those women who i know for a fact like me more than i like them, were always quick to get in line. all of them. every single one of them. if they're mad at me for something that was actually my fault, i can change their hearts with the simplest of apologies, no matter how half-ass it is.

point is, when u find urself posting in this thread about a girl ur dating or about to marry, and ur saying things like "shes so good to me, i think she's the one, thank god i found her, i'm gonna drop all my other girls for her, blah blah blah", you really haven't learned a damn thing.

 

[OGBobbyJohnson]

Hahahahaha....its gotten to the point where I can't do shyt but laugh.....

nikkaz be having dates lined up and shyt, i can barely get a female to text back....

i be like shyt, wish I had what does of y'all have....i cant even get no love on tinder....

i guess I'm gonna be that uncle that never gets married, who people suspect to be gay, who always has some sort of wild story about his travels....