Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DarkHorse23]

nah that aint what i was saying.

see, puccy is what makes most men do what they do. men strive to be rich and famous mainly so they can get bad b1tches. men hit the gym, endure pain to stay fit, so they can get women.

when some men start to get women, they get overly excited and it shows in every aspect of how they communicate with the women they deem very attractive.
what i suspect happened was, ol boy was overly excited to introduce the girl to his family. she sensed she was a high price to him. and even worse, at the family gathering, his family members started insinuating things like "marriage, kids...etc". things she probably was not ready for or just had no plans for and that most likely put her off.

i could be wrong, and im probably wrong. but i read the posts in this thread from a different angle. when a man post about how good of a time he's having with a girl, or whatever, it signifies to me dude is emotionally invested, much to his detriment.

i've dated many many many women. and in every single relationship i've been in, there's always one person who holds the power. there's always one person who likes the other more. this is a fact. not bs. i know women. and those women who i know for a fact like me more than i like them, were always quick to get in line. all of them. every single one of them. if they're mad at me for something that was actually my fault, i can change their hearts with the simplest of apologies, no matter how half-ass it is.

point is, when u find urself posting in this thread about a girl ur dating or about to marry, and ur saying things like "shes so good to me, i think she's the one, thank god i found her, i'm gonna drop all my other girls for her, blah blah blah", you really haven't learned a damn thing.

That's always the case, and it's always the guy being more invested unless the woman sees you as superior to her in terms of looks or status. If you're equal to her or worse lagging behind her in some categories she's ALWAYS going to think she can do better and is in fact better and as a result treat you accordingly. Sad but that's how women think.

 

[Lo-Co]

My weight don't hold me back no more. I don't believe that women don't want me even if Im big.

 

[Ohene]

see, puccy is what makes most men do what they do. men strive to be rich and famous mainly so they can get bad b1tches. men hit the gym, endure pain to stay fit, so they can get women.

been saying this for years

 

[Youseenmywork]

been saying this for years

This true but the other side of that coin is when you learn to do things for yourself well being and just for your enteral you learn to control your power with women. Which makes you become the chooser instead feeling like your always...AUDTIONING for women. That and the older you get your time is sacred.

 

[Ohene]

This true but the other side of that coin is when you learn to do things for yourself well being and just for your enteral you learn to control your power with women. Which makes you become the chooser instead feeling like your always...AUDTIONING for women. That and the older you get your time is sacred.

yup. that is the reason that women have power in the dating game early on. This power affects a lot of things because women don't use it correctly nor choose the right men with it. That's a whole different sort of conversation though. Maybe i'll make a thread on it

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

Funny thing is all women have to do is look good

 

[Youseenmywork]

Funny thing is all women have to do is look good

And have a vagina. Hell even the ugly girls got attitudes like they pretty cause they got Instagram...match.com....tinder etc. They have some many men simpin on from diffrent platforms this ultimately is what makes them delusional.

 

[Youseenmywork]

“Women are the biggest potential threat to your long-term happiness. In the words of Nietzsche: “she is the most dangerous plaything.” Always be guarded. Many of history’s greatest men fought in wars, beat poverty and built vast commercial empires. What is the one thing that unites the undoing of such glorious men? Women.”

 

[Youseenmywork]

“Women lead double lives. She will project a strong outward good girl facade whilst engaging in acts of depravity in secret. We know whoring reduces a woman’s value. They know this too. But rather than simply not whore, they would prefer to deceive.”

 

[Youseenmywork]

“The majority of women would rather improve their capacity to deceive than change anything non-superficial about themselves.”

 

[Youseenmywork]

“Rarely are women an asset, they are a responsibility and thus a liability. Women are a black hole for money, time and all other valuable resources you possess. This is why your time/commitment has value. Do not squander it, do not let it be appropriated. Be selective in your associations.”

 

[Youseenmywork]

Always protect the core of your essence, should you choose to let her in, never let her in completely. See yourself as a castle, let her into the castle, but do not give her the key to the heaviest door. She will notice the door is closed. She will ask you what’s behind the door and if “you can let her in?” Ignore her protests and manipulations. Never open that door. Not a woman alive other than perhaps your mother is worth opening this door for. If you believe love entails “sharing everything,” you don’t understand love.”

 

[Youseenmywork]

“If a woman is attainable, but you believe she is out of your league, she is. Self-fulfilling prophecy.“

 

[Youseenmywork]

“A man who commits easily and gives attention freely is the male equivalent of a slut to women. He will be used, but by nature of his availability and the ease of which his emotional intimacy is available, never desired. This one-sided dynamic is that which constitutes the fabled friend zone.”

 

[Youseenmywork]

“If you’re not a man who is comfortably masculine, women will emotionally abuse you until you finally learn to be masculine. Their nature, although unintended, perversely serves in much the manner that tough love does. How she hurts you will give you the impetus necessary to become a better man. It is women who drive men to the red pill.”