Chick (I'm not even in a relationship with) started ignoring me because I would not let her have my snapchat password.
bushes
you need to assert yourself up front... who running the show, you or her?
She testing you to see if you gonna "yes massa"
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you need to assert yourself up front... who running the show, you or her?
She testing you to see if you gonna "yes massa"
Rice'N Beckford
**King of ADOS**
brehs....i know ya'll gonne roast me for this....but i think i may have fukked up.
so me and this shorty been vibin. Nasty lil freak. Spits and everything. Well last week she wanted to fukk and we walked to get some condoms from da nearby convenience store but they didn't have any....and i wanted to buy a certain kind...so i said no biggie, we'll pick it up next week when i'll have some condoms. (maybe in hindsight i shud've fukked)
well tonight i was gonne go link her at her spot, buy condoms and everything....so before i was gonne go over...she hit me with a wall of text talkin about how we she ain't sure she wants to fukk tonight and how she been reflectin and shyt and wants to take things slow and if that was my main reason for coming to let her know.
so i played it off like it was nothin and how i wanted to just chill...but then she got deeper and was like how she didn't want me to come all the way there and feel like i wasted my time and shyt.
anyways....i told her i ain't tryna pressure her and stuff and that i am gonna kick back tonight and give her space. I also said that, i'd be lyin to you if i said i wasn't thinkin about comin thru to chill and fukk around and it'd be hard not to. She said we could but that she wasn't ready to fukk just yet...atleast not tonight. She also acknowledged that she is actin very emotional/weird and i ain't tryna be around that right now.
so part of me thinks its cuz her time of the month is right around the corner...but the other part of me is like
she said she was disappointed i wasn't comin but said she understands. Asked when we gonne link and i said sometime next week i guess.
my problem here is...the switch up. I hate it when girls switch up. Almost kills all my attraction towards em. Like how u go from wantin to fukk last week to sayin u wanna take things slow this week?maybe cuz i give off the vibe that all i wanna do is fukk especially since i always wanna come to her spot and not go out like before?
this is also broad that in the past fukked around. She was on tinder for months and shyt, drinks, parties, has alot of guy friends, etc.
Mentally i'll try to ride it out...but i don't know. My actions unconsciously might sabotage things before i get a chance.
she also told her fams about me
She fukkin another nikka
.Also, she probably tryna keep her rep low. She aint tryna come off as "too easy"
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
She fukkin another nikka
Also, she probably tryna keep her rep low. She aint tryna come off as "too easy"
we ain't in a relationship so i don't care. I'm free to fukk other hoes.
I just wanna get my nut and got annoyed with the switch up. But it is what it is. Lesson learned. Strike while the iron is hot and don't pass next time.
Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
Find a new onewomen just flake.
Youseenmywork
KING
What about the right amount of corny?
21. Im 21 to though.
bushes
you need to assert yourself up front... who running the show, you or her?
She testing you to see if you gonna "yes massa"
Will do. Asked her why she wanted it and she said I just want to see what's going on. LOL FOH. Told her ass she can ask. Still no reply, fukk it.
strike when the iron is hot. always. the opportunity is there...you grab it.we ain't in a relationship so i don't care. I'm free to fukk other hoes.
I just wanna get my nut and got annoyed with the switch up. But it is what it is. Lesson learned. Strike while the iron is hot and don't pass next time.
havent i told you about the "whacamole theory"?
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
When dealing with women, often times we get too comfortable. A girl is seemingly feeling us, we are feeling them; thus, we are inclined to not want to rush things. "She came over and we vibed really well. She even gave me head and/or let me suck her titty. No need to rush, i'll hit next time." Sounds reasonable right? Wrong. And I'm only saying this off experience. The reason is because dealing with women is like playing a game of whacamole.naa fam...you haven't.
Opportunities that arise with women are like when moles pop their head out of the holes of a game.
They pop up, but for a limited, unknown, arbitrary period of time and you have to hit it before it goes back down. The reason is that if it goes down you never know when its going to come back up. Thus, unless another mole has popped up worth more points you must hit the mole available at the time to maximize your points. When it goes back down, all you can do is focus your attention on other moles that might popup instead though. Why? Because 1) If you focus your attention on the mole that just went down you're going to miss opportunities with other women and it might be to no avail. 2) If you try and force the mole to come up (shake the machine per se) you might end up breaking it (chasing the girl away).
You did the responsible thing though. You didnt have condoms and for that reason shouldn't have smashed. On top of that, it isn't like you can be out here raping women. I say all this to say keep it moving and focus your attn on other women at the time. That girl will present herself eventually. And if she doesn't, you will not have wasted any resources or dignity trying to get at her.
we ain't in a relationship so i don't care. I'm free to fukk other hoes.
I just wanna get my nut and got annoyed with the switch up. But it is what it is. Lesson learned. Strike while the iron is hot and don't pass next time.
the only time i pass on puccy is if im not really feeling the chick. if she's on her period, there are other ways she can prove she really likes me.
and if u have a car, there's no reason for u not to have multiple condoms in the trunk. stopping to do anything when the mood is right can kill the moment. dont be taking silly chances like this again.
Alright brehs. Stopped talking with this chick outta the blue a month ago. Yesterday she added me back on snapchat and snapchatted me something but didnt seem like it was to me specifically one of those snaps they send to everyone. Opened it but didnt reply. Then she snapchatted at night thay she was in town but again the snap wasnt directly at me. Anyways today i woke up was about to snap her and she had deleted me from sc again.
I just texted her on whatsapp and she replied with "who is this" obviously she deleted my number a while ago. I was gonna ask whats up with the games on adding and deleting me from sc but now i don't know what to text her.
Should i just cut contact or tell her its me on whatsapp and ask why she deleted me
I just texted her on whatsapp and she replied with "who is this" obviously she deleted my number a while ago. I was gonna ask whats up with the games on adding and deleting me from sc but now i don't know what to text her.
Should i just cut contact or tell her its me on whatsapp and ask why she deleted me