Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Liquid]

I feel every 21-25 year old male should be out in the world exploring it, locking yourself into a relationship at those ages is crazy unless you found a truly great woman that will travel with you. Even if it's just leaving for a week once a year, you become more worldly and experienced.

The greatest thing I ever spent money on was a passport, nothing even comes close to it.

With so much family still out in DR I have had a passport forever, I think thats why at 19 I was like...yooo I could leave to live on my own

I think it is important and a whole lot of these guys are about to get tested hard in multiple areas of their life soon. It really started happening to me when I was 23, but luckily I already lived on my own for years, learned the ropes, and have learned to deal with women who decided to try to come in or come back into my life.

Everyone has a story, but you decide how it plays out. I see dude talking about the guilt trip...PEOPLE do that often, women more often than we do. I have had a few girls try to spin THEIR mistakes on me...and in turn some of the guys in my inner circle hit me on some you not taking THAT back? Well let me get her number then...I'm like

YOUR mistakes? There is really not much you can do...I suggest just letting it go. If it was a long and meaningful relationship to you just try to remember the good times and maybe have one final meeting together so both understand that this is the end. It's going to sound corny, but sometimes that is the only true way to kill things...don't be a lame who tells someone you were in a really serious relationship that is over via text

 

[Liquid]

man my girl is playing the guilt trip real hard, if ya'll remember my previous post. She says ive disappeared, yet i text her throughout the day, but she has no desire to see or talk to me right now after what I did. I guess we wont be spending thanksgiving together. When she messed up early in our relationship we still kicked it, but when the roles are reversed she doesnt want to see me

breh it sounds like you need to let go. I know that might not be what you want to hear, but sounds necessary in your case.

 

[Liquid]

Also @Mr210.

The minute you break up with a girl that some of your friends find attractive they will be snakes and try to snatch her up. If she starts talking to them immediately then you know you are dealing with a bird.

I am not sure where @kevm3 is from, but @Malta being up north knows how grimey those dudes up there can be. shyt thats anywhere, but I think a bit more common in the north. I will have to research.

 

[CrossBones]

you know how you check a bytch? you have the heart to tell her when shes fukking up early in the game, and then be prepared to walk. charge her to the game if shes not respecting you or herself.

go check your other options. fukk a ho. lifes too short.

 

[philmonroe]

Yo! the first part, where he goes in on thirsty men was 100. we all know guys like this. always talking about getting some p*ssy, he need to get some p*ssy, he aint had p*ssy in awhile, he is talking to a sidepiece to get more p*ssy - always revolving his life around some p*ssy. doing nothing but trying to get a bytch ... for some p*ssy. thats cool if thats all you want to do, but fukk, shut up every now and then and be about something else. it comes off as insecure and theyre trying to prove something. "oh stop hatin! you sound like a hater! you need to get some p*ssy!" just simple simon motherfukkers, mayne

its that thirst. men get ahold of that. thats how you turn yourselves out and go crazy over a bytch. find out your whole life been based around some random ass p*ssy

that is some junior high assed shyt. men stop it with the shaming language over other men not being as thirst as you. steady trying to compete with another. either make a point or learn to keep quiet with your basic ass.


the second part about women giving birth was good too. he killt that

I too liked the first part second not so much. This dude sound hurt about the birth giving. Maybe its me but when people start talking that stuff you know they know nothing about I just don't really pay it no mind. I've also never heard no chick say child birth was like arms getting blown off either lol. They said its a problem but I don't doubt that and seriously at times dudes like this sound like my atheist friend. Nobody trying to listen to your message (besides those that already agreed in the first place) when you do it in that manner and thats just how my athiest friend goes about getting at people who believe in religion. He says things that make you wanna be defensive instead of trying to logically think that they might have a point. Maybe its just me though

 

[Atlrocafella]

Break ups can be tough, that's why its essential that you have things going on for yourself outside of a relationship..Your world should not revolve around 1 female.

When your life is on Green Light,(career, car, $ in the bank, in shape) there isn't a girl that should be able to break your spirit.

 

[CrossBones]

I too liked the first part second not so much. This dude sound hurt about the birth giving. Maybe its me but when people start talking that stuff you know they know nothing about I just don't really pay it no mind. I've also never heard no chick say child birth was like arms getting blown off either lol. They said its a problem but I don't doubt that and seriously at times dudes like this sound like my atheist friend. Nobody trying to listen to your message (besides those that already agreed in the first place) when you do it in that manner and thats just how my athiest friend goes about getting at people who believe in religion. He says things that make you wanna be defensive instead of trying to logically think that they might have a point. Maybe its just me though

yeah some people have a habit of accusing others of something before even asking them their opinion. its important to separate what theyre saying and where you stand when that happens.

but he killt that shyt when said that a lot of women fall back on giving birth like its the most painful thing ever, and then have the nerve to turn around and not really be about shyt for the rest of their lives anyways. that ... is a problem. cant even make themselves good wives so they have to rely on the birth card and use it as a badge of honor. theyre more happy to call themselves good mommies than good wives today, and that tells you a lot. not to say one is more important than the other, (there should ideally be one with the other) but when a woman can only claim to one of those, then typically you see what it is. bytches, please. it takes more to be about something as a woman than just having pushing out a baby.

 

[sixsixtwo]

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[sixsixtwo]

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[Malta]

Also @Mr210.

The minute you break up with a girl that some of your friends find attractive they will be snakes and try to snatch her up. If she starts talking to them immediately then you know you are dealing with a bird.

I am not sure where @kevm3 is from, but @Malta being up north knows how grimey those dudes up there can be. shyt thats anywhere, but I think a bit more common in the north. I will have to research.

Pretty much, I had nikkas ask me what my exs number was a few months after we broke up

Dudes in NY are fukking piranhas when it comes to women, blood hits the water and you got a feeding frenzy going.

 

[Turbulent]

any fans of the Spartacus TV show?

the 3rd season focuses a lot on male-female relations and a lot of examples of what we've talked about in this thread.

 

[Wild self]

Pretty much, I had nikkas ask me what my exs number was a few months after we broke up

Dudes in NY are fukking piranhas when it comes to women, blood hits the water and you got a feeding frenzy going.

yeah, dudes in the east coast such as I have it tough. Dudes who are shaming other dudes at the drop of a hat to get chicks, on some hater shyt. And the fukked up part about it is that too many ugly women up here feel entitled cause there are a lot more of them and very few dime pieces, in ratio terms. I can go tot he ATL, LA, Houston, or even DC and see much finer women with more pleasant attitudes.

 

[philmonroe]

yeah some people have a habit of accusing others of something before even asking them their opinion. its important to separate what theyre saying and where you stand when that happens.

but he killt that shyt when said that a lot of women fall back on giving birth like its the most painful thing ever, and then have the nerve to turn around and not really be about shyt for the rest of their lives anyways. that ... is a problem. cant even make themselves good wives so they have to rely on the birth card and use it as a badge of honor. theyre more happy to call themselves good mommies than good wives today, and that tells you a lot. not to say one is more important than the other, (there should ideally be one with the other) but when a woman can only claim to one of those, then typically you see what it is. bytches, please. it takes more to be about something as a woman than just having pushing out a baby.

I agree with all that but some cats spending too much time worrying about chicks that you not trying to get at anyway. Thats what I'm saying. Now if you were caught by a chick I understand but in general after I see a chick isn't what I'm looking for long term it doesn't matter if she does all this stuff dude talking about. I'm pretty sure you don't care what known sluts doing cause you not checking for them I feel that way in all regards

 

[NerdNash]

The power of the ‘V’ has no power over you. « M3

Can I post this on my site?

 

[sixsixtwo]

Can I post this on my site?

I think M3 would be cool with that, just give him a credit/provide the source..