Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I fukk with his content but I wish he didn't big up Trump so much. I can usually let differences of opinion slide when there's some good game/info on the table, but I haven't been able to get with dude lately cuz of that
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yeah i actually stop peeping his shyt after that orlando shooting and he went on some guns guns guns diatribe.

book still flames tho and I'll probably always go back to it every once in a while.
 

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I've realized that the worst thing you can do to someone is not provide them with closure. I have a situation from 5 years ago that STILL fukks with me randomly in my current life. All because I can't make sense of the "why"

So, in return I've been hitting chicks with no closure as well. It sucks and I know it hurts but :manny: At least none of them wasted years and were in love with me. At this point an explanation is a privilege.

It's funny how heartbreak makes you a savage. :demonic:
yup
 

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been watching the vids in the last few days. He talks like a cornball but the wisdom and game he shares is :ohlawd:

Haven't read the book yet though. So far, it kind of reminds me of a lot of the shyt Patrice was saying but more focused on what to do exactly. It's like this dude Corey Wayne created an actual system like those troubleshooting charts of what to do. The actual words he says to say i disagree with at times but the overall tactics are on the money.
What book is it again?
 

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I've realized that the worst thing you can do to someone is not provide them with closure. I have a situation from 5 years ago that STILL fukks with me randomly in my current life. All because I can't make sense of the "why"

So, in return I've been hitting chicks with no closure as well. It sucks and I know it hurts but :manny: At least none of them wasted years and were in love with me. At this point an explanation is a privilege.

It's funny how heartbreak makes you a savage. :demonic:
Nobody is entitled to closure just KIM and keep living your life
 

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Its this chick that always likes my pics so I saw her in da mall and we just said hey how u doin none crazy since its so packed.So I sent her a message on fb and she aint respond :patrice:im feeling like a lame right now:leostare:
ideally you should have asked for her number right there but fukk it, you sent her a message, don't do anything until she replies, no other messages, no liking anything on FB. If she doesn't reply, she doesn't reply
 

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acquaintances of acquaintances, the mall, school, online, you can really meet chicks anywhere. Just try to observe who is looking at you, who do you feel is checking you out and go talk to her but don't press too hard. Leave her enough space to seduce you back. Last chick i met was a friend of a friend. At first i thought she didn't like me but then she would look at me a certain way. I talked to her a little snd she sat close to me, etc so i gave her signs i was attracted to her as well. I would whisper stuff in her ear, made her laugh without trying to be her clown, next thing you know I'm kissing her. Point of the story is that i could have been oblivious to the signs she was choosing and focused on the girl who wasn't even paying attention to me or i could just go for the girl that's choosing and actually has the same goal as me. Girls (even strangers) are trying to get with certain dudes but the same dudes aren't paying attention a lot of times.
thid is my issue

I'm terrible at catching hints in general
 

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thid is my issue

I'm terrible at catching hints in general
Spend a couple of days just clearing your mind and not caring about what they feel towards you. After that spend maybe 4 or 5 days observing women in public still not caring. Just discretely observe how they look at strangers how they act, eye contact, etc. Every woman is different so you always have to calibrate based on how they look at other people vs how they look at and act towards you. With some practice you will start to get a feel for it and will know which women are kinda feeling you in the moment. And you just approach those ones.
 

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How much of a real life difference would any of you say being in shape makes when it comes to pullin females..

Like would you say someone who's average or chubby that pulls 5's & 6's would dramatically increase to 8's or 9's if they got in good shape...



@Zeu$ aye the thing about the Corey Wayne's is I know the advice is A1 but when I listen to them and try to do as they say I feel it's robotic ..

Like an example

He says to only text bytches 3 times max with the sole goal of meeting up...

I end up texting females a lot or messaging them a lot and get good convos out of it...

So id feel weird JUST texting them some super basic shyt and then to meet up


I get what he's saying tho, and I should try it, cuz I'm the end, I'll be texting these bytches while they're over at their other guys house riding dikk
 

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How much of a real life difference would any of you say being in shape makes when it comes to pullin females..

Like would you say someone who's average or chubby that pulls 5's & 6's would dramatically increase to 8's or 9's if they got in good shape...



@Zeu$ aye the thing about the Corey Wayne's is I know the advice is A1 but when I listen to them and try to do as they say I feel it's robotic ..

Like an example

He says to only text bytches 3 times max with the sole goal of meeting up...

I end up texting females a lot or messaging them a lot and get good convos out of it...

So id feel weird JUST texting them some super basic shyt and then to meet up


I get what he's saying tho, and I should try it, cuz I'm the end, I'll be texting these bytches while they're over at their other guys house riding dikk


I mean a lot of his advice like even shyt on this board can be tailored to your style. I text chicks a decent amount. But I also have a ridiculous grasp on prose and how to frame simple shyt into a very interesting and involved convo. Not a lot of people male or female can do that. Mostly its shyt like "hey whats up" and then she says nothing and then the convo kind of dies there unless you are able to say something intriguing. Now thats only with new chicks. girl you've been sleeping with or your main you don't have to put on as much of a show.

Dudes a rich white man at the end of the day so some of his game is not going to fly like it would for normal (minority) brehs. You can text a girl a lot but it has to have some type of end result. Just talking to talk on the phone is pointless. For new girls I would try to text them enough to show them I'm a high quality nikka and interesting and then tell them we should meet up when they free. It usually got a date, from there its just if we mesh or not. But its not really a cardinal sin to text. that was one of the things I didn't agree with him on. In 2017 bytches be more guarded than ever and simply getting a number doesn't entail anything if you can't somehow differentiate yourself in that finite amount of time you first meet her. This is doubly true if you meet the chick online or something.

but yeah I do agree with the basis...if a girl isn't trying to hook up with you after asking her directly several times you might as well go ghost.

get in shape. It makes a difference. attraction isn't a choice and lower body fat leads to a more chiseled face automatically.
 

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You ever feel like you wasn't aggressive enough with a girl
I felt I was too nice
Ok first date with this new girl fine as wine


Bowling then we went and got tacos didn't even ask if she wanted to come back to my place later :snoop:
(She even hinted I don't have to be at work til late the next day)

My best relationships was girls I had sex with first night

We did kiss when I walked her back to the car





Texted her when I got home


Her reply "thank you everything tonight I enjoyed getting to know you !!!"
Texted her a joke about the date she didn't reply back :mjcry:


Maybe I'm overthinking


I member I texted her one time she didn't reply next day she apologize about it and we went on from there
 
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You ever feel like you wasn't aggressive enough with a girl
I felt I was too nice
Ok first date with this new girl fine as wine


Bowling then we went and got tacos didn't even ask if she wanted to come back to my place later :snoop:
(She even hinted I don't have to be at work til late the next day)

My best relationships was girls I had sex with first night

We did kiss when I walked her back to the car





Texted her when I got home


Her reply "thank you everything tonight I enjoyed getting to know you !!!"
Texted her a joke about the date she didn't reply back :mjcry:


Maybe I'm overthinking


I member I texted her one time she didn't reply next day apologize about it and went on from rgere
Idk why but then it getting a reply to the joke plus the MJ smiley :mjlol:
 
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