Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[ineedsleep212]

Yo I just got done dealing with this one chick, first relationship with a chick and GODDAMN am I happy that this is over with. I realiy feel like I dealt with a bunch of bullshyt because she was the first. I was attracted but not super attracted to her. I accepted shyt I really didnt agree with as well which makes me even happier about being done with her bullshyt. Chick smoked weed, was being dumb and disrespectful in general and wasn't worth any time or thought. I was prepared for this moment though cuz I kinda got the hint and was becoming more indifferent to whatever was going on. I also realized you can't expect the same decency you expect from yourself from women. Women don't realize how disrespectful and cowardly they can be as well.

I'm seriously relieved though especially since I didn't get too attached .

 

[kevm3]

You did the right thing, especially with not getting too attached. I have a very low tolerance for disrespect myself. You KNOW a relationship isn't what it should be when you feel way better after it's over than you being in one... like you just sit back and think man this relationship sucks.

Great relationship > single > bad relationship

 

[Oye]

I tried to look up the girl I met while I was still with my ex. I had to work with her and there was a ton of chemistry between us but since I had a girl I didn't pursue her. Unfortunately she's not on Facebook or anything else but I know where she works however I have no idea if she has a man or not. I'm uncertain on pursuing even though from a looks standpoint she is everything I look for in a woman and she's very intelligent plus she attends church.

Before I travel I'm trying to cast as wide a net as possible on quality women and shes one. The other girl I'm talking to is very attractive but always wants to club and is a shopaholic. There's also the Brazilian but I doubt anything really comes of that.

 

[kevm3]

Yeah, nothing wrong with that. if you can find her, might as well see what's up with it.

 

[Oye]

Yeah, nothing wrong with that. if you can find her, might as well see what's up with it.

I'm 50/50 on it its been a year since we saw each other and she could have a kid for all I know. I was going to post her pic but it leads back to her jobs website so ill have to pass on doing that.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Why wasn't this thread made in 2009? Smh

 

[YBE]

Catherine Kieu Castrates Husband, WOMEN LAUGH - YouTube

This video just goes to show you the virulent attitude in this country. Imagine men sitting around on a talk show... an audience filled with men and several male hosts all laughing at a story of some woman getting her sexual organs cut off. Sad that the only one that really stood up was the lesbian.

this is fukking disgusting...

 

[kevm3]

I'm 50/50 on it its been a year since we saw each other and she could have a kid for all I know. I was going to post her pic but it leads back to her jobs website so ill have to pass on doing that.

yeah man you never really know until you go after it and see what's the deal with her.

One thing that I'm really learning is not to write women off on my own. You have to let them write themselves off. Sometimes I start formulating things in my mind and making judgments about people and they really aren't like what I perceived. You can't write babygirl off until you see the facts for yourself.

 

[kevm3]

this is fukking disgusting...

And that's a show on mainstream television. It's not like it's some underground show where anything goes. Really hips you to what a lot of modern women think. Why is that funny?

Look at Chad Ocho Cinco. He gets plenty of 'hoes' but them broads are messing his life UP. Not only did he lose out on playing for his hometown franchise due to bringing Evelyn Lozada in his life, this negro might actually end up in JAIL because his baby momma is trying to get him sent there because he can't pay last month's $5,000 worth of CHILD support. Dude is unemployed, supposedly bought her a house, but she can't have an ounce of sympathy. She's not getting that free $5gs this month, so time to send the dude to jail. THAT'S what cats in here be going hard on. The behavior going on in this society towards men is flat out disgusting.

 

[Malta]

Just looked up average weight of an American woman.....

Average US woman - 164lbs

Average weight of men around the world -
Brazil - 160lbs
Japan - 140lbs
South Korea - 150lbs
Chile - 170lbs


Our women outweigh other countries men

 

[kevm3]

lol that's only 20 less lbs than me and i'm 6'0

 

[Malta]

lol that's only 20 less lbs than me and i'm 6'0

I honestly had no idea it was that high, always thought it was in the 150lbs range, but been checking and it's legit. My ex gained a lot of weight while we were together, and with revisionist history she always tried to say she was 135lbs when we met to make it seem like she only gained like 15-20lbs, when she was really 121lbs when we met.

This makes the sense of entitlement that much more insane, these females can't even keep their weight in check and want the world. In other countries the women are almost all under 140lbs, except for places like the UK where they are just as bad as us.

 

[kevm3]

yeah man, westernized world is bad. once a woman catches you and gets comfortable, she's like screw it, time to let go. they can gain as much weight as they want to, but a man is bad if he isn't feeling that. on the other hand, you lose your job and it's fine for them to leave because you're not pulling your load. lol joint is crazy to me.

 

[kevm3]

I honestly had no idea it was that high, always thought it was in the 150lbs range, but been checking and it's legit. My ex gained a lot of weight while we were together, and with revisionist history she always tried to say she was 135lbs when we met to make it seem like she only gained like 15-20lbs, when she was really 121lbs when we met.

This makes the sense of entitlement that much more insane, these females can't even keep their weight in check and want the world. In other countries the women are almost all under 140lbs, except for places like the UK where they are just as bad as us.

I understand gaining weight after child birth or if you are just unbelievably busy, but a lot of women really just say screw it, I caught myself a man... no need to work out anymore. Joint is actually quite deceptive, like me flashing around with a 6 figure job and as soon as I catch her, I say screw it, I'm going for a 30k job that is much less stressful. You best believe she'd hit the road.

man you know, it's almost like a ticking time bomb here. When you first meet most women, man the first month to three months are mad cool... but then you are just sitting around waiting for 'that stuff' to show up and explode out of nowhere, whether it's a hidden drug problem, the emotional instability, her letting herself go, infidelity, demanding this or that, etc. Sad to say, but I am actually happy to be single. A woman really has to impress me for me to go long-term with her because I know what potentially lurks ahead lol.

 

[Malta]

I understand gaining weight after child birth or if you are just unbelievably busy, but a lot of women really just say screw it, I caught myself a man... no need to work out anymore. Joint is actually quite deceptive, like me flashing around with a 6 figure job and as soon as I catch her, I say screw it, I'm going for a 30k job that is much less stressful. You best believe she'd hit the road.

Even with childbirth it still is no excuse to just let yourself go like that, cause apparently women around the world don't have that issue. It's just lazy cause this is a western epidemic more than anything else.

man you know, it's almost like a ticking time bomb here. When you first meet most women, man the first month to three months are mad cool... but then you are just sitting around waiting for 'that stuff' to show up and explode out of nowhere, whether it's a hidden drug problem, the emotional instability, her letting herself go, infidelity, demanding this or that, etc. Sad to say, but I am actually happy to be single. A woman really has to impress me for me to go long-term with her because I know what potentially lurks ahead lol.

You know, my ex had a flat stomach, nice frame and overall nice slender body that I really liked. The problem was she had a crappy diet, she ate fast food because it was easy to get during lunch, I told her to make her lunch. She could cook too, which also made her weight gain worse, she would make desserts and all this good food but had no control over her portions. Anytime I asked her to go to the gym she said she would but never did.