Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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2 kids breh.....that's what's making me think of doing it man...and I know you don't do shyt strictly for the kids cause at the end of the day they going see if you're not happy and in a way, that's telling them it's fine to be unhappy or stay in a terrible relationship just for your kids.....but man...I do still love my wife....
None of us can tell you what to do but you gotta consider, did she fukk anyone while away? Why did she leave, is that issue solved? Why did she come back? Did she realise she was wrong or did her other dude just made her realise he wasn't trying to build with her? Do you love her now or do you love who she used to be? Or maybe yoy love an idealized version of her? Only you can answer these questions...
 

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2 kids breh.....that's what's making me think of doing it man...and I know you don't do shyt strictly for the kids cause at the end of the day they going see if you're not happy and in a way, that's telling them it's fine to be unhappy or stay in a terrible relationship just for your kids.....but man...I do still love my wife....

Breh I know what ur going thru trust and me and my ex had 2 kids

Long story short
She cheated on me emotionally more than once and I stayed with her cuz of a kid then my dumb ass did cuz of issues we had and it seemed like she did again no proof per say but seemed like she did
We worked it out were really happy had our 2nd kid on the way
I got sick then she checked out on me mentally then physically bout when our second was 1 with another woman
Had enough we got divorce
She pretty much left me and the kids but wanted me to divorce her so it looked like it was my fault
I have custody to those 2 kids she hasn't talked to them or seen them in several years
I got remarried of course as everyone knows with a single mother
We have 4 kids with another 1 on the way
2 from my ex
1 from her ex
2 together

Been together 7 years


Sometimes u gotta cut ties
I do believe u can work things out if someone cheats depending on the reasons and if both parties are willingly to work it out it sometimes makes ur marriage stronger
Anybody wanna say it's a simp shyt
Needs to chill cuz it's easy to leave but harder to forgive and work it out
But can end up being for the best
Now does that happen often fukk no
But it does happen when couples work it out
But u cheat more than once u should cut ties take that L and be there for ur kids
My mistake was not cutting ties in the beginning cuz it was more than once but at same time
I wouldn't have had my daughter
 

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None of us can tell you what to do but you gotta consider, did she fukk anyone while away? Why did she leave, is that issue solved? Why did she come back? Did she realise she was wrong or did her other dude just made her realise he wasn't trying to build with her? Do you love her now or do you love who she used to be? Or maybe yoy love an idealized version of her? Only you can answer these questions...

Yea I think most people don't get that they easily say :camby: but that isn't always the best solution
It just depends on the situation your in it's a case by case basis
 

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you know the game. talk to multiple women and be sure that she is as well.
as you start getting close to one, invest a bit more in her as far as time/effort but dont relinquish the rest until youre officially exclusive

still keep the rest of your hoes

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Which one do you choose brehs:

Assume both girls are good people with good hearts.

Girl #1: Ambitious, incredibly intelligent, going to have a great career. BUT wack in bed.

Girl #2: Entry level job, not very ambitious, not an intellectual. But AMAZING in bed. Down to do anything.
girl #1- she probably just inexperienced but once yall start having more fun she'll get more fun and know what she likes in bed. Nothing wrong with being inexperienced :manny:
 

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Damn I need some new places to meet bytches. I use to get em from the clubs and through my job but that's slowing up. I prefer to meet chicks in person, but I'm hearing I should be fukking with IG
grocery stores are my favorite to meet a women since I live in the suburbs and theres not much other places to find em besides school or going out with my friends

ive never tried to get at a chic at the gym but i think imma need to at least start trying because my resources are drying up as well
 

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Hooked up with a girl I've know since thanksgiving on news years. She got too clingy too fast, so I said we're better off just being friends. Now I want to hook up with her friend who I met on new years.

Any advice on how I can finesse this?
















I know most of you are thinking it's not worth it, but the fukks I give at this point are non existent :mjgrin:
 

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Hooked up with a girl I've know since thanksgiving on news years. She got too clingy too fast, so I said we're better off just being friends. Now I want to hook up with her friend who I met on new years.

Any advice on how I can finesse this?

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I know most of you are thinking it's not worth it, but the fukks I give at this point are non existent :mjgrin:
Invite them both out to an event
 

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Hooked up with a girl I've know since thanksgiving on news years. She got too clingy too fast, so I said we're better off just being friends. Now I want to hook up with her friend who I met on new years.

Any advice on how I can finesse this?
















I know most of you are thinking it's not worth it, but the fukks I give at this point are non existent :mjgrin:

Bring a wing man to keep clingy preoccupied and then u can focus on her friend
Hopefully he is a competent and reliable wing man breh
 

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grocery stores are my favorite to meet a women since I live in the suburbs and theres not much other places to find em besides school or going out with my friends

ive never tried to get at a chic at the gym but i think imma need to at least start trying because my resources are drying up as well

Brehettes on here say its a bad thing to approach at the store.
:jbhmm:
 

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If ur elite at approaching women and talking too them u will be fine :banderas:
If not don't bother won't end well for u :mjcry:

I dont cold approach. I only talk to random people when i have to.
And like i said above, i gave up already on women but i just made that comment to see the responses cuz women have said that they don't like being approached at The store.

I wouldn't do it anyways cuz folks be busy. When im at the store i wanna shop and leave. I dont want nobody messing with me with no talking so i treat people the same way. Only thing I'll say is scuse me if theyre in my way
 

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Brehettes on here say its a bad thing to approach at the store.
:jbhmm:
:duck:
Women will complain on the internet about men approaching them in damn near every fukkin square inch of this universe don't let that deter you for the most part they're either bullshytting for the sake of bullshyttin or looking for attention

On Twitter it's even worse lmao. Approach a women wherever man just make it smooth and don't come off as a total creepo thats it. Sometimes it just takes the right guy and these chicks will allow it. You kinda have to cold approach because where the fukk else are you gonna meet women?

And before you suggest clubs and bars mind you women will even complain about guys talking to them at bars and nightclubs as well :russ:
 
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